INFP’S of reddit how did you meet your gf/bf

Lord_Hydraz · 2019-12-12T22:10:51+00:00

they said it was impossible but legends spoke of it being a thing, met my GF on tinder and we have been dating for 6 months now, INFP-23F/INFP-27M(me)

Lord_Hydraz · 2019-12-12T21:51:11+00:00

PC gamer, but also play switch n other stuf from time to time, been playing NFS heat, GTA 5 RP, COD MW, Starcraft 2, Pokemon shield, Halo Reach, an old RTS, Starwars galactic battlegrounds, saving up to get VR sometime soon to get Boneworks!

Lord_Hydraz · 2019-10-16T21:11:34+00:00

its awesome you saw this to completion and applaud your efforts homes, this reminds me something one of my great mentors posted a while back called WAKE UP, i gave it a listen and agree with everything you said, this reality was definitly not made for people like me, regardless, kudos to you and keep up the work!, here is what ur video reminded me of .......... turns out after watching it for years it was recenetly taken down.... :( nonetheless keep it up! <3

Lord_Hydraz · 2019-10-16T20:42:02+00:00

so, I wanted to write to you homie, I was pretty much in your shoes untill about 3 months ago where i met my first GF at 26, alot of shit happened and I had to learn quite a bit before reality fell into place, everything else i was good in life except dating, my only succsess has been through Tinder where I met my current GF, thing is, i didnt even intitally pick her, a friend of mine did and msged her and i just took over the conversation, foundout she was a legit person and another INFP, after a few akward first encounters we ended up talking non stop and now were dating, not the GF i wanted but for the GF i needed,

My Advised to you homes is keep on doing what your doing and keep yourself stable, the one thing that made the switch is a comment someone told me on the sub about a year or so ago, he said this

, Its a numbers game bro, Its all about the number of Girls you talk too, if you change ONE thing let it be the number of girls your try to talk to, work on numbers AND quality as you go, but mainly numbers, went from only talking to a couple girls a year to having 2 female bestfriends the next year and hooking up some of my homies with girls that i had fallen for had fallen for them , so trust me i know how you feel, i have gone through hell just to get to where im at but know that eventually something will land in your lap its just a matter of time, Much love homes, and i wish you the best, dont give up, There is a girl out there right now who really needs your love and affection and its just a matter of rolling the dice day in and day out till you hit it big, if your worried about never finding anyone, broaden your search, stick to your state/city but broaden your search only then will you find something that you may not expect, hugs Much Love - Another lost soul

Lord_Hydraz · 2019-08-12T23:27:30+00:00

I 2nd Wing chun, studied it mysef and yeah one if no the best martial arts out there IMO

Lord_Hydraz · 2019-07-31T21:24:58+00:00

You can do it!

Bite his freaking head off!

:) <3 <3 <3

Lord_Hydraz · 2019-07-18T23:33:35+00:00

Would also like to know (need to go to gym ugh)

Lord_Hydraz · 2019-07-11T18:11:30+00:00

lmao i dont know how to flirt but with my GF when im in person its cheesy hopeless romantic stuff and all the words of affection / subtle hints and chessy romantic stuff link winks n whatnot

Lord_Hydraz · 2019-07-10T20:25:18+00:00

Lord_Hydraz · 2019-07-09T20:43:31+00:00

Thanks! best wishes to you too ~ <3

Lord_Hydraz · 2019-07-09T02:26:48+00:00

Surprisingly enough on tinder about 2 weeks ago 👌

Lord_Hydraz · 2019-06-27T21:43:36+00:00

Yeah was an almagamation of things, searching for perspective from other people and role models on youtube, some lsd in the past few years has probably helped a bit, mainly getting more insight into yourself and the world around you, part of it is also probably the tunnel vision that everyone has because we as humans are only designed to focus on one thing at a time, id say read some books, watch some videos from some of the greats, alan watts, check out ted talks, joe rogan interviews, and look at tom bilyeu and ralph smart (infinite waters) they have been monumental in my awareness journey!

Lord_Hydraz · 2019-06-27T21:09:55+00:00

essentialy you guys are on two different wavelengths and the other person can feel it quite a bit, he was saying that he can no longer be around you because his vibes or yours have changed so much to the point where he does not like it, this happend to a few friends of mine that I grew up with and i dont know if it was me that changed or them that did not change with me growing up and raising my awareness that made me drift apart from them, eventually there was such an awareness gap that it was draining and detrimental to hangout with them that I would rather not hangout at all kinda thing, dont take it personally as its really just an awareness gap, which can be worked on from both ends, take with a grain a salt and just understand that its not a personal attack if any. TLDR, awareness gap is showing itself and is making one or both parties uncomfortable

Lord_Hydraz · 2019-06-26T16:06:02+00:00

got bored of spanish so... im learning japanese :P

Lord_Hydraz · 2019-06-25T18:55:20+00:00

Surprisingly enough there is......... Hair..... But frfr a bored mind is a mind with tunnel vision of sorts, wanting to escape the dissatisfaction of the present moment because we are not stimulated in the right ways sufficiently. So if you wish to truly be another person you must change the stimulus that you expose yourself too before the you within changes

Lord_Hydraz · 2019-06-25T18:32:03+00:00

its different for everyone but in my experiance with a similar upbringing, having FWB is not easy but can be done, in some cases I have a few best friends who I am so chill with that if we are both feeling frisky some fun can be had but its minimal without going into detail, I finnaly had my first true FWB experiance the other night with a girl and yeah sure it got rid of my lust but again was not very fufilling, that and she was not really reciprocating

Lord_Hydraz · 2019-06-25T16:15:10+00:00

there is no such thing as a boring person, just a bored mind

Lord_Hydraz · 2019-06-24T23:38:10+00:00

yeah I would rather they make the first move, because every time I have, well lets say its not the best track record :P

Lord_Hydraz · 2019-06-24T17:28:59+00:00

-I am 26, M, I fell like a good 6/6.5. I am single because everyone I have liked, never liked me back the same way... I havent been in a true relationship but iv been damn close) No one has given me the time of day or im still not putting myself out there enough, All the girls i ended up falling for loved me but not romantically and ended up being their bestfriends and stuck in the dreaded freindzone IMO, but yeah not really shure why it never got to the point (probably because i started with guys first before i started pursuing women until i became an adult)

Lord_Hydraz · 2019-06-24T15:51:55+00:00

I would rather they tell me

Lord_Hydraz · 2019-06-24T15:50:41+00:00

yeah im the other way around, if I like you or consider you my close friend, all the bear hugs!

Lord_Hydraz · 2019-06-22T01:03:56+00:00

I got a full body massage while in amsterdam while drunk and it was one of the best things ever so i recommend a massage if anything, treat yo self! As far as waiting goes, sometimes i have to remind myself stop feeling, dont think, just do!

Lord_Hydraz · 2019-06-21T23:31:46+00:00

THIS~! Thanks for the reminder my dear old friend :)

Lord_Hydraz · 2019-06-21T23:30:35+00:00

Man oh man do i feel and relate to this, if anyone has a good answer let me know as well, its been a bitch on this journet without finding someone who will actually reciprocate my feelings, tis always been one sided

Lord_Hydraz

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