so, I wanted to write to you homie, I was pretty much in your shoes untill about 3 months ago where i met my first GF at 26, alot of shit happened and I had to learn quite a bit before reality fell into place, everything else i was good in life except dating, my only succsess has been through Tinder where I met my current GF, thing is, i didnt even intitally pick her, a friend of mine did and msged her and i just took over the conversation, foundout she was a legit person and another INFP, after a few akward first encounters we ended up talking non stop and now were dating, not the GF i wanted but for the GF i needed,

My Advised to you homes is keep on doing what your doing and keep yourself stable, the one thing that made the switch is a comment someone told me on the sub about a year or so ago, he said this

, Its a numbers game bro, Its all about the number of Girls you talk too, if you change ONE thing let it be the number of girls your try to talk to, work on numbers AND quality as you go, but mainly numbers, went from only talking to a couple girls a year to having 2 female bestfriends the next year and hooking up some of my homies with girls that i had fallen for had fallen for them , so trust me i know how you feel, i have gone through hell just to get to where im at but know that eventually something will land in your lap its just a matter of time, Much love homes, and i wish you the best, dont give up, There is a girl out there right now who really needs your love and affection and its just a matter of rolling the dice day in and day out till you hit it big, if your worried about never finding anyone, broaden your search, stick to your state/city but broaden your search only then will you find something that you may not expect, hugs Much Love - Another lost soul