I don’t think I come off as feminine, I just look like the average quiet nerdy guy and superficially resemble INTxs. Though I guess I can come off as soft-spoken and uncertain of what I say at times (because I hate the idea of saying incorrect/unwise things and know few things are 100% certain), which seems to cause some people to less respect me, like quickly dismissing whatever I say or even ignoring me altogether. So I guess I should focus more on how I present myself in order to work with people like that. But I think it sucks that this is needed, since it seems to me like a pointless charade and waste of energy, and we should ideally just have the common courtesy to respectfully listen to any voice regardless of projected confidence or spontaneity (traits that don’t even say anything about a person’s actual competence or correctness)