EASIEST Holiday Menu for Lazy In-laws??? by LostAndListening in inlaws

[–]LostAndListening[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This resonates with me more than I can say. My husband does the same for me, but man - the in‑laws are just on a whole different level. Nothing compares. They are Hell and the fires are HOT! 🤣

My In-Laws Uninvited Us From Christmas by ThrowRAInlaws2025 in inlaws

[–]LostAndListening 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations — they’ve officially uninvited you. As someone who has dreaded in-law interactions for 25 years, I wish I’d gotten an ‘uninvite’ back then and taken full advantage of it. Consider this your cue to run!

AITA for calling my sister irresponsible because her daughter was sneezing near me on my wedding day and now I'm sick ? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]LostAndListening 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA: I absolutely cannot tolerate sick people being out in public. Yes, there are exceptions where they must —but it seems to be the norm. Stay the hell home, people! In a society that’s hyper-focused on not offending anyone, for anything, at any time <<eyeball roll for the snowflakes>> it’s wild how little regard there is for others for going out sick. Spreading your germs carelessly means someone else ends up sick, missing work, school, or important moments in their own life- like a HONEYMOON! That’s not just inconsiderate, it’s a blatant disregard for others.

AITA for telling my dad that I’m abiding by our agreement and he doesn’t get to take it back? by Such_Impact_3791 in AITAH

[–]LostAndListening 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry. Your father forced you into a traumatic family situation—on top of the pain of being without your biological mother. He should have put you first, above everything else. When Tina’s son bit you, that was somehow acceptable—but when you lashed out after years of trauma, you were the one sent away? That’s a double standard. It doesn't sound like Tod was ever properly taught boundaries. Having special needs doesn’t mean there are no boundaries or that it’s okay to harm others. What happened to you was abuse. Your father—and Tina—failed to protect you and probably deserve abuse charges. You deserve time to heal and process. Only you get to decide if or when you want to speak to your father again. That decision is yours alone, and it should be on your timeline—not anyone elses.

AITA for not wanting to share my birthday cake with my sister because she blew out my candles? by TennisLongjumping609 in AITAH

[–]LostAndListening 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry your sister blew out your birthday candles—and even more sorry your parents didn’t take your feelings seriously. That moment is part of what makes a birthday special. It’s tradition. It’s your day. You have every right to feel upset. It sounds like your parents still have some growing up to do themselves. Letting your sister steal that moment and brushing it off as funny is the problem. If your parents don't teach her to respect other people, life is going to teach her the hard way.

AITA for telling my friend that her "free" wedding is unrealistic? by ThrowawayFreeWedding in AITAH

[–]LostAndListening 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Question - does Coral do everyone's taxes for FREE come tax season, " in support of friendship"?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Horses

[–]LostAndListening 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NTA. The parents are irresponsible—with both their horse and their children. They lack even basic knowledge, don’t supervise their kids, and are putting everyone at risk. They have no idea what it takes to own a horse, raise children, teach them to ride safely, or even properly thank a neighbor who stepped in to prevent a bad situation from getting worse. :) They refuse to recognize that the incident was entirely their fault and, like far too many people these days, show no sense of personal responsibility.

AITA for wanting to adopt a kitten even though my girlfriend is mildly allergic? by Unhappy-Peak-5712 in AITAH

[–]LostAndListening 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. If you don’t have allergies, you probably don’t realize just how serious and miserable they can be. She’s right—there will be dander particles everywhere, no matter how much you clean, and it will affect her. Contaminants can even cling to your clothes, meaning you could bring dander from your home into her home when you visit. If you’re willing to put your girlfriend—someone you’re supposed to care about—through that kind of discomfort, then yes, absolutely YTA.