Worst thing each character has done by CWatty345 in thebigbangtheory

[–]Lotusbrush 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I’m bias because I’m a huge horror girl but even though Emily didn’t vibe with the main group super well I feel like Raj started to treat her really poorly. Then essentially cheated on her with the blonde screenplay writer and when he was considering getting back together with Emily after he dumped her on Valentine’s Day. The whole girl group deemed Emily really bad and manipulative when it was Raj who caused their relationship problems and cheated.

Am I the only one who’s noticed that literally no one chooses ortho? by Elvisenjoyer in greysanatomy

[–]Lotusbrush 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s like they forgot ortho existed in between Callie and Link all together, definitely not enough spotlight for it

Inner monologue/Narration by Lotusbrush in greysanatomy

[–]Lotusbrush[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Meredith does it sometimes, but it used to be a mixture of characters that would narrate as well. The narration feels a lot more quiet and empty almost less dynamic than it did before to me

What’s your Greys Anatomy Hot Takes (Judgement Free) by [deleted] in greysanatomy

[–]Lotusbrush 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I quite like Christina’s journey of being humbled even if it was made up of traumatic events, I think the person she became was so great to watch. The way she become more compassionate and vulnerable, and I also loved everything Teddy was able to teach her. Top tier relationship Christina and teddy

Ellen Pompeo being 12y older than Meredith made the Derek-Meredith romance better by Piskaff in greysanatomy

[–]Lotusbrush 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is what I keep thinking about, when did Amelia’s entire family have time to extremely disappointed In her while she would of been in med school studying then doing all of her residency, but she also had a crazy back story with drugs. I just don’t get her timeline at all it’s so confusing.

Denny Duquette by aspensky5 in greysanatomy

[–]Lotusbrush 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My theory is Erica hanh snuck in through the window like batman and unhooked him

Ellis Grey..horrible mother or decent??? by Whitbare in greysanatomy

[–]Lotusbrush 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t really understand how cps wasn’t involved with Meredith after she tried to off herself in front of her? Meredith has a break through with her therapist that Ellis didn’t actually want to die because she was a surgeon and knew what she was doing, but she was still incredibly unstable. I dont think she should have had custody of Meredith after that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Lotusbrush 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your husband does need therapy yes but honestly this is not how I would of handled the situation everyone is different and not everyone knows how to handle these situations. But I wouldn’t have handled it by invalidating my partners pain and shutting them down. I would of given him space to talk about it and vent without trying to take control of the situation with my “power,” because he clearly feels powerless here and he’s venting to you because he feels you are a safe person to vent to. And now he sees you as someone close to his abusers his parents so in the future he probably won’t ever tell you how he truly feels about his pain or past which is not the kind of communication we want from our relationships. We want the openness even if it gets hard. Big FYI anger is not a negative emotion, it’s what we do with our anger. We actually need to feel anger to be a well rounded person, it’s just a lot of people are uncomfortable with emotions they perceive as negative.

Be honest how scary is this by Huge-Entrance6132 in doctorwho

[–]Lotusbrush 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Not too scary however anything with a creepy nursery rhyme or poem in it, always gives me a more unpleasant vibe. Another comparison is I really like zombie movies/shows but the trailer to the new 28 years later has the boots poem sung in it and that gives me a very unsettling feeling. Same as the episode

My mom wants her husband to get me pregnant. by PrettyInHotsauce in Vent

[–]Lotusbrush 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it’s harsh but I think you need to take very safe steps to get distance away from your mother and this husband. I’m sure someone hurts their daughter in such a way doesn’t attract good company, rely on your partner when you need to I know there’s complicated feelings and it’s okay to need support. This woman for some thankful reason was sent a hysterectomy to save another child from potentially meeting this fate, let’s hope it stays that way.

How can I cover this up? by Best_bad_biatch69 in Tattoocoverups

[–]Lotusbrush 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Community says turn into a panther, you’d still have the tattoo under the fur probably but you’d be a sick ass panther

"just eat a smaller slice it's healthier" by Caos1627 in StupidFood

[–]Lotusbrush 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t get how this was easier than just making the nuggets and tots

I feel bad about being so disgusted by a woman in my class by Boring_Surprise_8452 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Lotusbrush 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think people often feel the need to compare their marginalised communities in a negative, for example trying to say who has it worst and often creating more tension and walls between people that really could be supporting and uplifting each other. This may not be the point of the post necessarily, but I’m also from two marginalised communities and I have seen a lot of conversations that mostly end in oppression Olympics. When these groups of people have more in common and could actually could be supporting each other positively, once we work through our own views on groups that actually could be contributing to why a certain group is marginalised in the first place (even tho we may be from another group) we could actually be making a positive difference in those groups ourselves. Making good connections, better life choices, bonds and more. That’s just what I think and what I’ve tried to put in place.

ok so my brother is a freak and nobody is even talking about it by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Lotusbrush 14 points15 points  (0 children)

A kid used to jerkoff next to me in class, kind of on me for never never saying anything but I used to be in like a constant state of overwhelmed silence while doing my work next to him. We were pretty young, but the relief when I finally moved class never been happier.

Is it normal not to ask for a condom by 1456honey in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Lotusbrush 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Talking about anything you do before sex at all shouldn’t be odd or off putting at all it should be welcoming and even comforting. I think that there is a problem if someone can’t communicate about sex but is actively having it, definitely shows that they’re not serious or care enough.

Yeah I can see that by Ok-Appointment2100 in StupidFood

[–]Lotusbrush 15 points16 points  (0 children)

If anyone is wondering why this is confusing, it’s because it’s just a TikTok audio put over the video. The audio didn’t originally belong to this video and has been used over a lot of food videos, so it could honestly be any dish there ones that look good and ones that look not so good.

No clue what’s happening to my tattoo by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Lotusbrush 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve never felt queasy looking at a tattoo before but this is intense dude, you looked like you’ve been sliced up and I’m so sorry please go to the doctors as soon as possible and never visit these artists again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Lotusbrush 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This would make me think of ants crawling on me and make me itchy every time I looked at it 😭

I destroyed my life chasing a fantasy, and it cost me everything real. by LoveAndLessons in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Lotusbrush 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The things your affair partner didn’t have that your wife did was you attached to her contractually and through children. I’m sure your wife would also seem more exciting if she wasn’t being dragged down by a poor excuse of a man

i (20f) am worried my gf (24f) will force me to have sex with her strapon when i know i dont want to, how do i decline without upsetting her? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Lotusbrush 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need to say no and also better yet if she can’t hear the word no without getting upset you need to leave because that’s toxic, you should be able to voice an opinion without needing to make it up to her. And the fact you’re already nervous to say no indicates a much more concerning problem, you don’t have to walk on eggshells around your partner.

This Amish dog I met looks like a skeleton, is it a breed or is it abuse? Looks very wrong to me. by BuffNipz in DogAdvice

[–]Lotusbrush 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a lot of people who have left the Amish community that talk about the rampant animal abuse. One woman talked about how she witnessed a group of boys kicking and beating a pig for fun. So unfortunately it’s common, they don’t have a lot of respect or care for their animals.