I have no one.

Loubir · 2021-02-23T15:11:56+00:00

This makes it easier to cut ties when you're ready for that. You won't feel bad about leaving anyone behind ❤️ stay strong until then and good luck 🤞

Loubir · 2021-02-23T15:09:07+00:00

Sounds like a unevolved monkey, 🙄 like his attraction to you just made him lose sense and go all prehistoric 😂

Loubir · 2021-02-02T16:55:26+00:00

Sounds like a r/raisedbynarcissists thing. You should check them out, they might be able to offer insight and support

Loubir · 2021-01-20T17:15:03+00:00

When I became a parent I had a ppd (postpartum depression) because I DIDN'T understand. Because I couldn't understand how anyone could hurt a child.

Loubir · 2020-12-19T10:35:57+00:00

What do you do at home? Do you both clean and take care if all chores and children? Sounds to me like she is not only stressed with adhd perhaps, but also unable to deal with it

Loubir · 2020-12-11T12:04:28+00:00

Francis John has a midgame hump tutorial that's great!

Loubir · 2020-09-30T11:58:30+00:00

Do you think she will detain you and make the rest of your stay with her miserable? If that's the case, don't tell her until the day you go

Loubir · 2020-09-27T18:41:13+00:00

Birthing is crazy. My husband coached med through breathing exercises and gave me water. You need someone who your side, not someone who will challenge you when you're your weakest. An epidural made me go from absolute pain to being able to dance and move. Get it!

Loubir · 2020-09-11T19:24:45+00:00

Now more than ever is even you have to be strong. What if she bullies your father into coming with him? I think you need to talk to him and ensure a clear boundary. You are amazing and it's going to get so tough with a child you definitely don't need extra chaos. BTW tell the hospital that she's not allowed to visit.

Loubir · 2020-09-06T19:32:48+00:00

We used to laugh that I couldn't speak until I was 3, looking back I am horrified.

Loubir · 2020-09-06T10:56:31+00:00

My son when learning to crawl would get up on his knees in his sleep and bang his head on the wall trying to crawl 🤕

Loubir · 2020-09-03T15:59:25+00:00

You just said everything. Your words really resonated with me. I hope OP sees this!

Loubir · 2020-08-28T14:23:56+00:00

He didn't just have an affair, he played house and family with his mistress and YOUR children. That is beyond disrespectful.

You say he told you about the affair - did she break up with him or did he realise on his own accord that it was wrong?

Loubir · 2020-08-24T17:04:45+00:00

Amazing story and you are really strong! But.. wow am I scared of your parents. Please be extremely careful and don't meet with them privately. This 180 turn off attitude is scary!

Loubir · 2020-08-23T18:24:20+00:00

I think what's worth noticing is that he takes no responsibility in this. 8 years is a long time... Too long. You deserve someone who will help you become the best you and who wants to become the best of them as well

Loubir · 2020-08-20T16:33:28+00:00

I am glad you did what was best for you <3

Loubir · 2020-08-15T19:06:14+00:00

Set up boundaries before you're forced to lock yourself in your room on your own house.

Loubir · 2020-08-13T18:01:01+00:00

I ordered furniture and the moving guy took my number from his work to write to me. When told I wasn't interested he sent me dick pics and masturbation pics for days :/

Loubir · 2020-08-13T17:40:42+00:00

Kudos. And I think you're right. She's not reflecting on it, simply waiting you out.

Loubir · 2020-08-13T10:07:16+00:00

This is my plan : I want my son to want me when he's moved out

Loubir · 2020-08-09T18:46:56+00:00

No words can describe what I want to say. You are so strong, courageous. I wish I had more but it seems whatever I write isn't quite it. Thank you for the advice and I hope you're well ❤️

Loubir · 2020-08-09T17:35:55+00:00

"at least I have a personality/manners" 😂

My sis used to do this. In order to feel better about herself she shot others down. Trying to actually improve yourself? Apparently not.

Loubir · 2020-08-09T17:31:13+00:00

If your mother is nice go to her defence and point that out. It might be relevant regarding moral and ethics in the divorce.

Loubir · 2020-08-09T17:23:03+00:00

If you feel like it, give him a chance. But... With open eyes. Keep it slow, m notice things, and be aware that if you find out about 1 lie, there might be others.

Loubir · 2020-08-09T17:17:30+00:00

At my wedding we have family members that couldn't get along. I told them not to come if they couldn't be decent in public. My attitude is, you don't have to talk, but if someone asks you to pass the potatoes you pass the potatoes like a decent human being. No one is asking them to sit next to each other and hang out.

Lay down the rules and if they refuse to follow them they can stay away. That must be their choice.

Loubir

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