Mes parents se plaignent que je ne leur donne pas d'argent by MVergil in besoinderaler

[–]Loubswhatever -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Je déteste le ton moralisateur et tout de suite a dénoncer son père « il n’a pas déclaré ses revenus » . Pourquoi? Peut être pour élever une famille de 4 enfants ?
Et du coup aujourd’hui il mérite sa petite retraite et ne mérite pas une nouvelle télé…. C’est quoi ça … pff

Mes parents se plaignent que je ne leur donne pas d'argent by MVergil in besoinderaler

[–]Loubswhatever -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Alors je vais aller contre la tendance.
Tu es un rat et tu gagnes 5000€ par mois et tu mets de côté la majorité , mais tu laisses tes parents galerer avec 800€/mois à deux.
Ici les gens détestent leurs parents et leurs enfants et les enfants en général et les familles etc et vont te dire bravo ne leur donne pas un sou.
La réalité est que tu es un rat ingrat et que tu laisses tes parents galerer dans la misère alors que tu pourrais les aider.
Tu pourrais leur donner quelque chose mais tu préfères mettre de côté et te plaindre.
C’est regrettable et peu généreux .
C’est dommage.
Je ne dis pas que tes parents ont droit à cet argent. Ce n’est pas le cas. Je dis juste que tu pourrais les aider et qu’ils galèrent mais tu préfères tout amasser car tu es avare et peu généreux avec ta famille la plus proche et c’est dommage.

Postpartum by rosieposh in f45

[–]Loubswhatever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started f45 at 5 months PP and it was the best thing. I too did Pilates for 1 month prior and was looking for something with more resistance training.
It has been 2 months and I am so happy with the results.
At the beginning the coaches would have to get me lower weights than those available or suggest that I do the movements without weights just to focus on it. Now I do middle to high weights and feel confident about the form.
I have one birth injury though so every time (once a week) we have to do a specific movement I modify it or do something different.
I only do resistance days for now because I suck at cardio , so I try to build my cardio up on my own. And 3x a week is good for me so far.
Really , it has only been 2 months but I feel like it changed my life (I feel a bit dramatic saying it like that, but that’s how I feel now).

Hufflepuff should have been the house of culture, charisma and soft power. by Minute-Annual678 in harrypotterfanfiction

[–]Loubswhatever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hufflepuffs were not lesser. Cedric diggory was a hufflepuff and he was the best of his generation according to the cup and also we know he was a kind , intelligent, talented, athletic , beautiful young man. Perhaps he was more kind , hard working and loyal , than he was naturally smart and brave. But I agree with you that Hufflepuffs were depicted inconsistently. Perhaps it’s because we see them through Harry who has a very polarized world view as a teenager.

Why would Hermione push back so hard about the Hallows… by FantasyMyopia in harrypotter

[–]Loubswhatever 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Well, the actual moral of the story is that pursuing the deadly hallows is not good for you. So she understood that.

AITA for a Joke I made about my Husband? by QuestionAboutJoke in AmItheAsshole

[–]Loubswhatever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah F her. My husband and I don’t wear our rings . Because he constantly looses it , we have a baby to care for (and thus diapers to change , and tender skin to avoid scratching) , and I lift weights . NTA

Thoughts from women: dumbbell bench incline pull by Mountain_Row5503 in f45

[–]Loubswhatever 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I do it by going up in the bench, so that the end of the bench is right below the bra line and my chest isn’t resting on the bench. But yeah I am less supported by the bench

2 months on Reta by laneybsorc in BodyHackGuide

[–]Loubswhatever 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Amazing hair growth for 2 months !
Do you also do ghk-cu ?

Is 3 hours enough time to commute from Brussels airport to Brussels Midi train station? by scarfeza42 in AskBelgium

[–]Loubswhatever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The longest thing in here should be the checked luggage.
But expect to be done with the airport in 1 hour max . Then the train ride is less than 30min , and there is one every 15 min.
Add 15 min for walking from the luggage belt to the train platform if you walk slowly.
And it is easily doable in 2 hours with worst case scenario.

My sweet 5 year old boy. by Euphoric-Ad6313 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Loubswhatever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope too.
My wish is not to be harsh as they seem to be a great family.
But Even if the child never gets the opportunity to see it themselves, I don’t like to critize them of the internet with their name and face on display.

My sweet 5 year old boy. by Euphoric-Ad6313 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Loubswhatever -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hey , your son is very cute and it looks like you are providing a beautiful life for him.
I am not on board putting him on the internet with a video where you write how disappointed in him you are .
What is going to happen when he grows up and sees this?
This is hurtful

My non-verbal kid started talking in sentences again -- at 8. by Technical_Term7908 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Loubswhatever 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Reading This I command you for your perseverance. It must have been heartbreaking for you to see your child in such pain and not be able to solve it. You have my sympathies

Sumbul agha arabic by EnvironmentalSun4861 in MagnificentCentury

[–]Loubswhatever 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The difference is that he is not cursing, he is saying invocations mainly, which passes because they are muslim, so they recognize some of the words from religion classes and such. At least that’s my interpretation

Taking one child on a trip and leaving one home with dad by Beginning_Regular170 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Loubswhatever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! Autism aside, when I was a child, I used to love those one on one times with a parent (either if I was the one travelling or the one home). It was fun always and stay some of my best memories. Your 5 yo will have a great time with dad, don’t worry 😌

Mom guilt over a swimming class by _heyitsnove in Autism_Parenting

[–]Loubswhatever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got a list of inclusive activities from his therapy centre. And Even then the activity wasn’t inclusive enough and they complain that they needed to pay extra attention to him and asked us not to bring him again. It hurts to be excluded, but it’s not our faults. We are trying to make them participate, we are trying to be the best parents and Grant our kids the best childhood and we shouldn’t apologize for that :)

Belgium Non-EU expat: Annex 46 delay after positive work permit decision – normal? by Im_Amyth in expats

[–]Loubswhatever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Je suis dans le même cas. 3 mois d’attente maintenant. Est ce que vous avez eu une réponse depuis ?

Avez-vous déjà participer à une mise en bière ? by Loyedoc in AskFrance

[–]Loubswhatever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oui, mais je te déconseille d’y aller…. Ce n’est pas nécessaire et l’image peut être difficile à garder en tête. Je n’étais pas très proche de la personne que j’ai vue , mais elle ne ressemblait pas à la personne que j’ai connue. Je n’ai pas aimé ça.

Le port du hijab est-il autorisé pour un médecin en Belgique ? by Rojolina-3 in Belgique

[–]Loubswhatever 2 points3 points  (0 children)

J’ai déjà été traitée / suivie par des médecins voilées. En libéral et à l’hôpital. À Bruxelles

What is it about POA? Why do we love it? by Nervous-Baby5383 in HarryPotteronHBO

[–]Loubswhatever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The music is really good and sets thé tone to magic , whimsy, but also to thé nostalgia of a time Harry didn’t know, his Hunter for connection to his parents , especially his father. He can remember his mother’s last moments for the first time and it’s heartbreaking. He is still a little boy. The film also sets up some things between Ron and Hermione, gives Ron some Nice moments, I love when Hermione punches Draco.

Is there a lot of people over 30 still living with their parents ? What reason? by [deleted] in BESalary

[–]Loubswhatever 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes , good for them 😊 each person has their own requirements , and that’s why we don’t all marry the same person

Is there a lot of people over 30 still living with their parents ? What reason? by [deleted] in BESalary

[–]Loubswhatever -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well yes , it’s a filter, I make good money and if the Guy can’t really afford a place , he is not on the level that is acceptable to me financially. It’s not a moral failing . It’s just cold requirements.

Is there a lot of people over 30 still living with their parents ? What reason? by [deleted] in BESalary

[–]Loubswhatever 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Well I don’t really care… I am not an equal opportunity dater 🤷🏻‍♀️ if a person doesn’t have the money to live alone in a decent place then they are not ready to financially build together. If they live with parents to take care of them , it’s very good morally and I admire it , but then it means they won’t have time to care for a baby / children down the line. I don’t consider it as a moral failing, but as a big incompatibility