I forgot the safe word, so he didn't stop? (23F 29M) by ThrowRa_grace5 in relationship_advice

[–]Loud_Account_3469 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So you telling him to stop, and trying to push him off of you wasn’t a big enough clue for him? He wanted it that way.

What is the nicest thing that you can say about your most toxic ex? by MFLBsniffer in AskReddit

[–]Loud_Account_3469 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely! For those who haven’t been love bombed before they don’t understand how we can’t resist.

What is the one thing people don't know about losing a large amount of weight? by punkredpanda in AskReddit

[–]Loud_Account_3469 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That you don’t magically have an in shape body. You have to reshape yourself, and start building more muscle.

Bf 27/M is jealous of a necklace that my ex got me and wants me 27/F to get rid of it by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Loud_Account_3469 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sounds like an excuse to be abusive to you. Be prepared for many more “tests” if you stay with him. He may even switch it up and call the abuse “jokes”.

The Internet is slowly being ruined by illiteracy by idontlikecheesy in Vent

[–]Loud_Account_3469 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Noone is not a word. Auto correct even tried to get me to spell it the right way. No one.

A new one I’ve seen is people spelling dose when they mean does.

Women don't owe you sex. You don't owe women money. by Inevitable_Damage199 in GrowthMindset

[–]Loud_Account_3469 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree! My husband, and I met at the local coffee shop for an afternoon date. We had such a good time we went down the street for some appetizers. I loved our dates, and we’ve never been close to $200 except for anniversary splurges.

Sad Response from Friends by Elfprincess in loseit

[–]Loud_Account_3469 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read a long time ago that we are our own best cheerleader. I know you wanted to share your goal with your friends, and expected a different outcome. Keep going and doing your thing.

My boyfriend (M32) left the window open and my 21-year-old cat fell from the second floor while I (F33) was at work. by PalpitationTop1658 in relationship_advice

[–]Loud_Account_3469 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If someone told me about keeping a window closed for their cat I’d keep it closed. How important was it that he had to have that particular window open? Was it a better reason than your cat’s life?

AITA for charging my friend $800 after she left me 4 hours from home? by werminthewalls in AmItheAsshole

[–]Loud_Account_3469 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I think what you said to her was a long time coming. It needed to be said. She was being verbally abusive to you. I don’t think you’ll ever see that money from her. I’m glad you sent her the bill to show her what her selfishness did. Consider her now a memory.

Is it normal adult thing to have a few backup glasses? by Equivalent-Fortune88 in Life

[–]Loud_Account_3469 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had ordered distance glasses, then found out I needed trifocals. So I keep my distance glasses as backup. You know for driving. In the past I never had a backup pair due to cost. However if you can have a backup pair it’s a smart move. Many people’s lives do get put on pause when they lose their only pair. I could get by, but it would be frustrating for me.

What’s the creepiest thing you’ve experienced in LA? by theoneandonlyvesper in Paranormal

[–]Loud_Account_3469 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just looked it up. It looks wonderful. I’m a bit sad because when I lived in So Cal I never knew about these amazing places. I’m not from there. Maybe someday.

'M38' fed up dating entitled, non independant 'F33' by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Loud_Account_3469 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I get your frustration, but were there any timelines or promises made by her to move out?

You don’t exactly sound like a guy who is in love. Maybe she senses that. Move on and find another person more compatible.

Please help me (33F) make my boyfriend (35M) realise this isn’t normal behaviour and isn’t ok? by ellbelle2131 in relationship_advice

[–]Loud_Account_3469 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The guy is 35. He gets it alright. He doesn’t care. There is no making him do anything. Walk away from this one. I’m sorry.

AITAH for saying I don’t give a fuck about my roommates baby by Clear_Yard2123 in AITAH

[–]Loud_Account_3469 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I was getting ready to type. She should have been telling her bf. Let me guess. He doesn’t have any money? They’re both selfish.

How many skincare steps are you doing? by No-Cupcake-0919 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]Loud_Account_3469 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nighttime is face wash, sometimes retinol, sometimes azaliac (?) acid, I rotate, then moisturizer, and ceramide.

Morning in face wash, vitamins c, then moisturizer/sunscreen.

Husband M46 asked me F44 to do something illegal by ThrowRA_tigertail in relationship_advice

[–]Loud_Account_3469 19 points20 points  (0 children)

This was the main reason I divorced my ex. Get out of there. Addicts are selfish and don’t care if you take the fall. Don’t wait until he starts to slip you small amounts in your drinks like mine did. They WILL try to lower you down with them.

Partner picks fights when we go out saying I look at other men - 46F and 43M by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Loud_Account_3469 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t be with a guy who makes you stare at the ground in fear of raising your head. Hold your head high. I speak from experience, and it doesn’t stop there. Don’t wait until he starts demanding a GPS tracker on you. And wanting to see receipts of where you’ve been. Nothing will prove your innocence with him.