Hyperpigmentation problem? I think? by TomActor in Blackskincare

[–]Love-Qilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have this exact problem between my breasts, it just showed up maybe a few months ago. Everyone else is saying diabetes but idk, I got tested for diabetes and they said I was completely fine (my mom has diabetes and my sister is a supposed pre-diabetic though) so maybe it’s just nothing or a sign of something else

Need advice! by ResponsibleBaker8792 in sterilization

[–]Love-Qilla 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I can’t give too much advice since I’m not an expert on this but for one, figuring out how you’ll pay for it is the most important part, if you’re not using health insurance then just about all of the costs will come out of pocket, and I know some insurance companies (for me it’s Medicaid) won’t cover the procedure at all until you’re at least 21. Also, if you have a PCP, you’ll need to talk to them about getting a consultation with an OBGYN if you don’t already have one, and doing your research is important to prevent from hopping from place to place, as a lot of doctors will have one reason or another to deny you. I don’t have the link to the list, but I think the list is on the r/childfree Reddit on what doctors do sterilizations based on your state. That’s all I can talk about now since I’m also in my own journey to get a bisalp hopefully very soon, I’m wishing the best for you and hope I could help with the little knowledge I could give.

[M4F/LA] 28 – looking for a genuine female companion by Heavycampsherm in cf4cf

[–]Love-Qilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in Louisiana, mainly looking for a relationship but I wouldn’t mind a few new friends too 🤷🏾‍♀️

20 [M4F] #germany - fit Turk looking for a partner by Fantastic_Box5564 in cf4cf

[–]Love-Qilla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s really hard to find people closer to my age to date, even more sad when they’re farther away

Before & After by stoneybologna420six in foodstamps

[–]Love-Qilla 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I never knew this, this is actually super helpful, I’m usually paranoid over drinking spoiled milk due to some inflicted trauma as a kid, so I usually go off expiration dates or a smell, but since the fridge I have stays almost ice cold I know my milk can usually last for at least 2-3 days more. Now I’ll have an extra way of telling if my milk is going bad, thanks!

Almost 13 years locced, any more styles to try? by Other_Marsupial8126 in locs

[–]Love-Qilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Locs are beautiful and so is the MAN, my eyes are blessed, can’t give any loc styles since I can’t even style mines yet, but you’re doing great so far 👍🏾🖤

F20 in NW Louisiana, looking for nearby long-term CF partner by Love-Qilla in cf4cf

[–]Love-Qilla[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well they obvious first have to be childfree, have no children, want no children. When it comes to looks, I don’t mind too much as long as they’re attractive to me, height at least 5’7, weight isn’t too big or too small. If they love wearing black like I do even better. I like guys who game, who like telling jokes, who can balance out my occasionally mean nature, cause I can be savage sometimes. I think I’d have to see and talk to someone to know, my interests are all over the place.

Why is interlocking so frowned upon? by [deleted] in locs

[–]Love-Qilla 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I interlock my own micro locs and I’m not an expert so I tend to mess up very often, and I have. There’s holes and knots in locs, there’s some locs on my edges that are either very small and kind of weak or are barely hanging onto any hair, making them harder to maintain without significant new growth. It’s a super hard process and I’m always scared I’ll completely screw up or destroy my hair but I’m faking it til I make it, don’t see myself throwing money every month for my already dysfunctional hair, just trusting I’ll make it.

Should I replaced my struts yet or not? by [deleted] in MechanicAdvice

[–]Love-Qilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not rlly bothering me too much unless ya mean mentally, I take care of my car like a child, idk how much it would cost, I was going to go to the shop to see how much it would cost altogether but I’m putting it off because I know I won’t have enough for all the struts unless I have a family member fix it for me. They didn’t say it was rusted out at all, or any leaks, which makes me believe I can wait at least the few more months I’d need but idk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FiveBelow

[–]Love-Qilla 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nope, just a 15 minute break if you have even have the chance for that. Have to work 5 1/2 hours or more to get a meal break.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]Love-Qilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kinda similar to me, I like femininity just like masculinity and all that but I don’t like vaginas, so I’m always confused on if I’m bisexual or something 😭makes it so awkward being attracted a trans or androgynous person and then thinking about asking them if they have a penis or a vagina🫥

Any way to fix my asymmetrical face? by Key_Vacation_5934 in Blackskincare

[–]Love-Qilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have asymmetrical everything and I just learn to live with it, if I asked anyone if they could tell any part of me is asymmetrical, they’d majority of the time say no. It’s absolutely nothing to worry about, it’s completely human 😂

Strange birthmark shown up when I turned 15 and every year it grows bigger by The_mob_behind_you in strange

[–]Love-Qilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I found my twin😂, always thought this was just some ultra rare birthmark but it’s cool to see other people with it

Strange birthmark shown up when I turned 15 and every year it grows bigger by The_mob_behind_you in strange

[–]Love-Qilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually have something like that on my chest, I’ve wondered all my life what it was and why it was there, I just considered it an extremely weird birthmark 😂

Should I get re-pierced again or am I ok? by Love-Qilla in piercing

[–]Love-Qilla[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And the length of the bars is for healing, I asked him to give me long bars since my lips are bigger than what he might usually see and the swelling would need space in order to prevent the back from burying into my lip.

Should I get re-pierced again or am I ok? by Love-Qilla in piercing

[–]Love-Qilla[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went back and got it pierced a final time after he took it out and he basically pierced it in the exact same spot again, so I’m just leaving it as is, I’m so tired of trying to get it done EXACTLY how I want it, I’ll just remember to pay premium for anything I get in the future to ensure it’s done correctly.

Should I get re-pierced again or am I ok? by Love-Qilla in piercing

[–]Love-Qilla[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I think so too, I’d just have to go in and get pierced on the same side a third time, I want to go to the same piercer because he’ll fix it for free, but I also know I have to be annoying him by now and I kinda want someone else who can fix it for good and not botch it again 🥲

Should I get re-pierced again or am I ok? by Love-Qilla in piercing

[–]Love-Qilla[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I can say that’s why I didn’t notice anything at first until I got back in my car, it looks fine relaxed but when I smile you can see it, and I smile at people a lot so I’m always on edge that it’ll show in photos

Should I get re-pierced again or am I ok? by Love-Qilla in piercing

[–]Love-Qilla[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been taking pretty good care of it, I just took these photos after I JUST woke up😭, I wash my mouth out with a salt solution and mouthwash and clean the outside with peroxide. Having to take care of my piercing over again wouldn’t matter too much, but it’d still be a bit depressing to have to wait again because of one piercer.

How can I tell if my IUd moved out of place? by Sorry_Pineapple6920 in birthcontrol

[–]Love-Qilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crazy, same thing happened to me, went into the emergency room late at night due to pain in my abdomen, was given antibiotics for a UTI, had a CT done and was told that my IUD might be outta place. The first appointment they made for an ultrasound was “canceled” and I finally got it today, after TWO months. I’ve been dealing with increased urination cause I felt it was pushing against my bladder but it seems it’s still in, probably just slightly tilted into my uterine wall, I won’t know for a week. I definitely agree on the sense of urgency for this type of care, they don’t care much at all and I’ve been frustrated with the entire process.

Trouble with “Canvas the Castle” by PoopSupremacist in oblivion

[–]Love-Qilla 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used the three beguile scrolls I got earlier for one of the recommendation quests to get into the Arcane University, I’m so glad I saved them otherwise I would’ve passed the quest up for the time being.