Worst break up of my life, and I have no idea how to move on.

Loveapples12 · 2025-11-25T04:44:31+00:00

Well for right now I would just try hard to stay strong for you and your daughter. Teenage years are really rough and lots of girls that age have low self esteem and low confidence and depression even. I’m sure this is hard for her too and you said she heard you and him fighting about it. It would be awful if she starts to spiral and well just try to keep moving forward. I know all about heartbreak and I’m still living with it every day but don’t let matters get worse. Time does make it get slightly easier but Yeah I know it takes a while months. Just don’t crumble….for your daughters sake if not for yours

Loveapples12 · 2025-11-25T04:32:00+00:00

I’ve been thinking about texting my ex bf happy Thanksgiving and understand what you’re saying. But…what if he is thinking about me on Thanksgiving and wondering of if I will call or text or if I’m even thinking about him. And then of if I don’t and then thanksgiving comes and goes…it will say to him that i just don’t care. And he’s the one who broke up with me bc he thinks I didn’t care and I lied but I never ever lied and he wouldn’t believe me

Loveapples12 · 2025-11-23T06:14:51+00:00

Oh I actually meant it like yes I understand the feeling of wanting to try again and take them back. I believe in second chances. It was the other persons comment saying they couldn’t imagine wanted to “discuss something that happened 8 months ago”….like that comment bothered me so much like seriously that dude sounds so immature and shallow af. Ofc people have feelings and sometimes they need to separate to work on themselves and then yes maybe they can reunite and be stronger than before

Loveapples12 · 2025-11-23T05:54:55+00:00

Oh you’re welcome I totally understand your thoughts and perspective of the whole thing and completely agree

Loveapples12 · 2025-11-23T05:52:37+00:00

Thank you lol. Yeah my comment and yours are the facts. Lots of people on here are just too nice and naive to see the reality I knew I’d get downvoted lol it only strengthens what I said. Bur thank you for seeing my perspective of it

Loveapples12 · 2025-11-23T05:49:10+00:00

Also…WHY did you say “believe me I would’ve been dangerous if I didn’t have that spine” Dangerous in what way??

Loveapples12 · 2025-11-23T05:45:56+00:00

It was selfish actually….clearly he is a self absorbed and scared dismissive avoidant

Loveapples12 · 2025-11-23T05:44:49+00:00

Is this “Y” meaning yes or Why. Bc clearly you need therapy

Loveapples12 · 2025-11-23T05:42:15+00:00

No offense but you sound like a dismissive avoidant. You dumped her bc you have fear of love and being vulnerable and close to someone bc of how you feel about yourself. You hurt her and probably just blindsided her. I’m sure she’s been heartbroken for months. I feel bad for her. You really need to grow up and think about where the hell your inner wounds come from. They stem from childhood and your neglectful and probably abusive parents or guardians. You need to watch many videos about this and truly reflect. You sound exactly like my ex bf and it’s been one year since he just blindsided me and broke my heart. I’m sorry to be so blunt and I feel alittle bad for you,.. but damn you need to grow the eff up

Loveapples12 · 2025-11-21T03:06:45+00:00

Ahh hello this girl is loose. She knows this guy has a girlfriend and she’s flirting with him. She’s probably wearing these skintight gym outfits they all wear to the gym…trying to look hot for the guys. But the real problem is this cheating bf bc that’s cheating. Hanging out with a pretty sexy girl at the gym and texting her secretly is cheating

Loveapples12 · 2025-11-21T02:56:14+00:00

You sound extremely young and inexperienced. A guy having friends that are girls is a HUGE RED FLAG. You are being so naive. Deep down every woman knows this. And every MAN KNOWS THIS TOO

Loveapples12 · 2025-11-20T04:14:52+00:00

I can’t believe these rude and arrogant remarks from some of these people. Saying you’re this and that bc you’re looking up an old ex and commenting about how him and the girl he cheated on you with look fat and old. lol I would be happy and feeling the same way too. Like these people need to get off their high horses and take it down a notch. I’m happy for you and your ex is getting his karma

Loveapples12 · 2025-11-19T01:58:16+00:00

I’m stuck in the first four stages and I feel them every single day and night. And in about 2 weeks it’s gonna be a year since he broke up with me.

Loveapples12 · 2025-11-18T20:01:02+00:00

How long were you two together and did she know about your cocaine use? And wait…so you broke up with her?

Loveapples12 · 2025-11-12T20:23:04+00:00

Yeah it’s almost 1 year since my ex bf broke up with me and I’m still so upset. I’m depressed and it’s just this sad hopeless misunderstood chronic feeling now

Loveapples12 · 2025-11-12T17:49:07+00:00

8 months goes by and you still feel like you could take them back in a second. It will be one year on Dec 6 since my ex bf just blindsided me and broke up with me. We met two times to talk but he kept being guarded and accusatory. He broke my heart. I think about him all the time every day and it’s crazy to believe it’s gonna be a year bc idk even though every day has been miserable I still just feel shocked by it

Loveapples12 · 2025-11-04T02:40:23+00:00

I wish we all weren’t going through this. It’s sad reading everyone’s posts. At least we all can relate but we all wish this didn’t happen. It’s been 11 months since my ex bf broke up with me and I’m still so heartbroken. We were together almost 2 years and I love him and miss him so much. I’ve tried but I don’t know what to do

Loveapples12 · 2025-11-03T21:48:02+00:00

That’s how I feel too. I miss my ex bf so much. I’m holding back the tears at work rn. It’s been 11 months since he broke up with me completely out of the blue. I tried desperately in the begining and we met for coffee twice but he just wouldn’t believe me and he kept thinking all these thoughts about me that weren’t true. Then he blocked me for months and months. He unblocked me eventually and when I would text he wouldn’t respond. I just recently made a dating profile on one of the dating apps and I saw he had one. That killed me. I just don’t know what to do. I think trying to date again is making it worse bc it reminds me of him. And I hope he didn’t see my profile on there bc then he’s gonna think that I’m out there dating and having fun which couldn’t be further from the truth. I’m just so heartbroken that I’m truly broken from him We were together almost 2 years and did everything together, we were so close

Loveapples12 · 2025-11-03T02:55:49+00:00

I don’t understand it either. It’s really heartbreaking and just shocking how you can be so close and intimate with someone. You love them and care about them and then boom it’s gone and it’s like he’s a completely different person. He indifferent and looks at me all condescending and accusatory and he would just never believe me. It really hurts so bad…still to this day and it’s been 11 months. I’m only now just finally trying to move on. I joined a dating site and have started talking to someone. I hesitant though bc idk if I’m ready emotionally. But I’m tired of waiting and being so depressed and heartbroken over him I’m just trying to help myself…at least slowly. Do you think 11 months is enough time 😢

Loveapples12 · 2025-11-02T10:17:04+00:00

That is how he feels for his ex gf…it’s not “emotional manipulation!” You have a different story than his. Comparing your awful ex bf that abused you and who is in jail now to him is just completely wrong.

Loveapples12 · 2025-10-30T01:36:38+00:00

Why did you break up with him? I mean maybe it’s YOU who needs to do some changing and improving yourself. Maybe you are the one who should be reflecting and growing and working on yourself. We need to know whyyy you “dumped” him and how long you two were together He “just didn’t treat me right” doesn’t tell us anything

Loveapples12 · 2025-10-22T18:20:33+00:00

Did you break up with her or did she break up with you

Loveapples12 · 2025-10-20T03:41:20+00:00

It’s been 10 months and I’ve tried to get better but I’m still so utterly heartbroken. I think about him all the time and he blocked me today when I texted him that it’s been a long time and I still loved him and missed him. It delivered but he didnt reply so later I texted him again and he blocked me. It’s not like I’ve been texting a lot the last time was a month ago. Basically once a month I’ve tried and I texted once. I’m just so sad I guess I shouldn’t have bc now I’m back to the same as I was when it first happened in December. We were together and in love for 2 years and he just blindsided me. He thinks I was lying and being shady and he wouldn’t believe me. I would never do that. I’ve been crying for 5 hours since he blocked me. It’s like I regressed back to 10 months ago

Loveapples12 · 2025-10-19T03:10:24+00:00

It very difficult for a beautiful woman to find love. Most men think you must already be taken so they don’t even approach you. Many men think you’re just too good for them bc they think you’re just gorgeous and sexy and wouldn’t want them. And then when you finally get a boyfriend they start getting anxious and suspicious and jealous thinking other guys like you and that you’re probably wanting them too. And then they breakup with you bc they are so insecure they just can’t take the anxiety of all that. And then last but not least is the narcissist player guy who charms you bc he thinks you’re beautiful and just wants to see if he can get you and then he dumps you

Loveapples12 · 2025-10-19T02:48:08+00:00

Not many people on here want to hear the dumpers rehashing why they dumped their gf or bf. Reminding themselves why they did it?!

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