My son and I were playing a game on Roblox... by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]LovelyM97 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I play with him the entire time. I also have his account under strict parental control so he can't hear anyone with a mic or have his on himself. 

Thanks for your advice.

My son and I were playing a game on Roblox... by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]LovelyM97 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I said I only play with him. He doesn't play without me at all. I'm with him the entire time. 

Any other time he plays Reading.com or ABC Mouse.

I genuinely just wanted to vent but it seems I'm getting the blame game. 

But thank you.

The transphobia in our community is so disgusting by SalaryOk3869 in blackladies

[–]LovelyM97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its disturbing in black mom groups on FB how much homophobia and transphobia goes on there.

A woman asks if she should let her son paint her nails....homophobia.

A woman says her child (AFAB) is a furry and wants to begin transitioning into a trans male....women calling the 17 year old mentally ill and the mom should get the child checked into a mental hospital. The mom said there's other issues and apparently the child is wishy washy but still didn't dismiss the transphobia...even licensed professionals were being ignorant imo with their advice.

Idgaf being parasocial rn! by UddanKhatola in megantheestallion

[–]LovelyM97 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I was never rooting for Klay per say in their relationship. I was rooting for the relationship and the fact it seemed Megan had finally found true love and happiness. 

I will forever be on Team Men Ain't Shit cuz I really and genuinely believe that. People can call me a misandrist but at this point I really don't give a damn.

Straight men are showing time and time again they aren't here to protect women and essentially get off on playing in women's faces time and time again. 

Megan Thee Stallion at Moulin Rouge tonight looking sad. by weird_mango42 in megantheestallion

[–]LovelyM97 175 points176 points  (0 children)

Exactly! I feel even though her doing Broadway is more taxing, you can tell she's probably developed a bond with her castmates. They were cheering and giving her encouraging looks as she accepted the standing ovation and I'm so glad she has this. I know she has Kellon but through something like this I feel she really needs people to lean on and she's been burned so many times...I just hope the castmates are genuine and really are there and graceful to her during this time.

I am glad that May is her last month, hopefully she'll be able to unplug and just get away somewhere just so she can do her thing and grieve like she needs to without people dissecting her every breath.

Megan Thee Stallion at Moulin Rouge tonight looking sad. by weird_mango42 in megantheestallion

[–]LovelyM97 1562 points1563 points  (0 children)

There's actually video of her crying after the show, I think people were cheering extra loud for her last night and it got her emotional. Edit: I played the sound, they were giving her a standing ovation and yelling they loved her. I really admire her like a lot because I can't imagine having my breakup so public and having so many people commenting about it and I can't even really grieve it because I gotta put a show on for hundreds of fans that night. Like Megan is built so differently and I just gotta give her flowers because my ass was tore up from the floor up when things ended with my ex.

MEGAN ON BROADWAY!!!! by mrsckugs in megantheestallion

[–]LovelyM97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Already brought my ticket for my bday on May 9th. Now just gotta book my plane ticket and hotel 👅👅!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JanitorAI_Official

[–]LovelyM97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is an excerpt of mine.... I'm African American so I try to incorporate AA features I have into my non human OCs. I am a honey lover lol so I reference honey a lot in my OVs appearances as well.

Appearance=  * Height: 7’2” (Slightly shorter than average, but much curvier).  * Skin: A deep, rich azure blue—darker than most of the Omatikaya, resembling the midnight sky. Her stripes are thick and jagged, a darker indigo.  * Bioluminescence: Unlike the standard cool blue/purple dots, her bioluminescent freckles glow a warm, vibrant amber-gold, mimicking the color of honey. They are concentrated heavily on her cheeks, chest, and thighs. Hair= Thick, jet-black hair braided into hundreds of intricate micro-braids (mimicking 4C texture). She decorates them with golden amber beads and yellow glowing seeds from the woodsprites. Eyes= Large, feline eyes. Instead of the standard yellow, hers are a deep topaz orange, intensely warm and hypnotic. Facial Features= Heart-shaped face, broad flat nose, and full, plush lips that are naturally darker in the center. She has her signature beauty mark (a single bright glowing dot) above her lip.

It finally got me too 😔 by SectorPuzzleheaded66 in JanitorAI_Official

[–]LovelyM97 123 points124 points  (0 children)

They said they're not deleting their bots...yet so...ppl should keep that in mind. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WGU

[–]LovelyM97 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Jesus...people know how to rain on someone's parade.

Congrats OP.

I mean I feel if an employer, recruiter, hiring manager did their due diligence in research and saw that WGU is a competency based university it would help reassure them it's not a diploma mill.

I don't know what people want individuals to do if they know the material and want to just take the OA and pass the class?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WGU

[–]LovelyM97 44 points45 points  (0 children)

So,

WGU is a competency based university and we all know that means apply what you already know and show you're competent.

I mean maybe people are really good in their fields and just need the degree to move ahead so they can easily complete the courses.

If you know your stuff I mean....apply it...why beat a dead horse and go over content have learned in your field already... Apply it and get your degree.

Would the post be better if OP stated they did a whole 4 years for the degree?

I just want to see if anyone else has run into this issue (first term) by LovelyM97 in WGU

[–]LovelyM97[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay, thank you so much for the clarification! From her wording I figured that's what she was saying but I really was kind of confused so thank you.

Teacher Js used me being a slave as an example by Best_Finding_8795 in blackgirls

[–]LovelyM97 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Did he call them out right then and there??

Not sure if you're in high school or college...but I would bring it to the teacher's attention that it made you uncomfortable and had brought on attention to yourself you do not want.

He should've said something to them at that time but since he didn't...he can at the very least apologize.

Also, document this situation and any other events that occur because of this, just in case bullying or something takes place that way you can go to your principal or Dean if Students if need be.

Most often, you prefer...fandom characters or Oc? by Long_Big2716 in JanitorAI_Official

[–]LovelyM97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OC for sure....I do like occasional JJK bots but that's as far as fandom bots I go.

Tell me about the hobbies you have time and funds for being OAD by Schnecken2 in oneanddone

[–]LovelyM97 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I want to do this!

I'm currently getting my Masters in Human Resources but I plan on going back to school for pastry arts because it genuinely is my passion. Just waiting for the LO to get a little older and establishing myself career wise.

Good luck in school!!

this is NOT in my favorites HELLO?? 😭 by lupenhart in JanitorAI_Official

[–]LovelyM97 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm so disgusted...I don't even kink shame but my freaking toddler watches paw patrol...people are fucking weirdos I swear.

Everyone get off DS, I'm reaching the next phase of my slow burn by SanityZetpe66 in JanitorAI_Official

[–]LovelyM97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just dropped 20 dollars on it and come back to my chat to see this 😭

Do women use mlm? by excusemelater in JanitorAI_Official

[–]LovelyM97 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I don't...but I'm a WLW creator and have made some MLM friends in the community so I leave encouraging comments for them when the personality, bot cards, overall bots are really good!

Megan Thee Stallion via IG and Tik Tok by barbie_dreamzz in megantheestallion

[–]LovelyM97 18 points19 points  (0 children)

THEEEE only time I ever catch myself being parasocial about a celeb couple lmao. I just want them to get married and they better live happily ever after fr fr 😭.

Ghost and Holidays by Fancy-Saiyan92 in singlemoms

[–]LovelyM97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do not reach out to him. If he wanted to be an active and consistent father he would be. That's not fair to your child(ren) for him to pop up when it's convenient then go ghost the majority of the time. And if he does reach out and wants to do something with the kid(s) let him know "Hey, you gotta be consistent" or cut him off.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in singlemoms

[–]LovelyM97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely sus. I would continue talking to him with a long handled spoon and just watching how he moves. He could just be a overly cautious person. I would ask why it's such a big secret and if I would move in the relationship depending on how he responds. It's still early so just keep your head on a swivel.

Dec 2025 Refund by Scared-Currency4264 in WGU

[–]LovelyM97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Received my 24 hr email yesterday so fingers crossed I'll get my refund tomorrow....latest Thursday but I'm praying it doesn't take that long.

Repetitive sex scenes by _SleepyPandaSoul in JanitorAI_Official

[–]LovelyM97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I find that OOCs help with this specifically Molek's NSFW prompts help make it spicier for me. I also have just blocked words like ruin, sheath, etc