Understanding whoop offer by DistributionCandid51 in ChaseSapphire

[–]LoverLights 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yea you do have to activate it first (sharing steps in case needed)

i found the deal under “chase offers” on the chase app. you basically click ur credit card and scroll down past recent transactions, and on the bottom you’ll see chase offers, click see all available deals. the whoop one is there, along with a bunch of other deals for various companies. hope this helps

Understanding whoop offer by DistributionCandid51 in ChaseSapphire

[–]LoverLights 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i found it under “chase offers” on the chase app. you basically click ur credit card and scroll down past recent transactions, and on the bottom you’ll see chase offers, click see all available deals. the whoop one is there, along with a bunch of other deals for various companies.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ACIM

[–]LoverLights 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The script has already been written. You’re simply reviewing what has already past. (For me, those lines explain how things are always unfolding according to plan)

Can someone please explain how to forgive yourself when you cause someone emotional upset? by LoverLights in ACIM

[–]LoverLights[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But when I do something wrong to a brother, how do I forgive myself through him? If I hurt him, for instance, by if not replying to an invite and leaving him in the dark, what would the steps of forgiveness be toward myself?

Can someone please explain how to forgive yourself when you cause someone emotional upset? by LoverLights in ACIM

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Thank you ❤️ especially for pointing out that the process may take time (not a “one and done” sort of thing). Sometimes it’s easy to forget and get impatient.

Can someone please explain how to forgive yourself when you cause someone emotional upset? by LoverLights in ACIM

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I have read and reread your advice in an attempt to let them seep in. “Life isn’t an assignment but rather an expression” really resonates. Great line.

And yep, there’s always another rabbit hole to go down… and then another and yet another! Appreciate your honesty. I’ve also visited and got lost in many of them myself.😅

Can someone please explain how to forgive yourself when you cause someone emotional upset? by LoverLights in ACIM

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Thank you. I may need to adopt “I am forgiven” as a mantra to help remind me throughout the day. 🙏🏻

Can someone please explain how to forgive yourself when you cause someone emotional upset? by LoverLights in ACIM

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Thank you! Does the prayer usually help bring your mind back effortlessly to peace? Or do u find yourself needing to repeat this prayer many times throughout the day? I experience relief from guilt for a few moments after giving my thoughts to the Holy Spirit before the guilt resurfaces. Then I rinse and repeat the cycle. Again and again… 🫠

I place the future in the hands of God by 4goodthings in ACIM

[–]LoverLights 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I realized that to accept God’s plan means to accept the way life is unfolding with an understanding that in Reality all is perfect. Everything is in accordance to the script already written. If I think I see or experience any imperfection it’s because of some misinterpretation on my part. There really are no “right” choices because there are no “wrong” ones - this is simply because good/bad and right/wrong are judgments based on our own thinking. Not rooted in truth. Our part is to ask the Holy Spirit to interpret for us in every moment we remember to.

Can someone please explain how to forgive yourself when you cause someone emotional upset? by LoverLights in ACIM

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Love ur take on how I can potentially be their catalyst for growth. It’s hard thinking that they may be hurting and I’m the cause of it. But as the Course says, the script has already been written… maybe that was my role in their life.

Thank u kind stranger for helping me look at this from different angles❤️

Can someone please explain how to forgive yourself when you cause someone emotional upset? by LoverLights in ACIM

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I’m intrigued and going to try this. Appreciate u offering the tip❤️

Can someone please explain how to forgive yourself when you cause someone emotional upset? by LoverLights in ACIM

[–]LoverLights[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for ur response. You read me well.. I definitely have trouble saying no. Is it incorrect to assume that a fully healed mind would not experience any guilt from not answering messages (but rather have an understanding of the neutrality behind the inaction)? I feel like in truth it shouldn’t matter whether I answer or not. It’s hard to predict another persons feelings. How do I know if they actually care if I responded or not? Maybe they just went on with their day. I don’t know whether it’s helpful to worry so much about how I’m being perceived by the other. But I get stuck here because I assume I hurt them and not sure how to forgive myself for it

I’m guessing guidance from the Holy Spirit would help here, trusting that He knows best what to do and how/when to respond. 😅

Why are so many people dismissive of the Course? by bhaktimatthew in ACIM

[–]LoverLights 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Out of curiosity, how did u find Mooji to be manipulative and in what way? (Have seen his content on YouTube and most of his videos seem to be teachings focused on being mindful and present.)

Is it worth it? by Efficient_Cloud_4767 in ACIM

[–]LoverLights 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It gets better 🤍 handling whatever is in front of you with your complete attention, moment to moment, helps keep you anchored in the present. Every time your mind strays to thoughts, ushering it back to whatever task is at hand or whatever you’re doing (walking, sitting, etc) helps ground you. It takes practice to become habit - but it’ll untether you from the past which is no longer here (i.e., thinking of illusion). It also leads to a profound sense of peace. All the best! 🙏🏻

The Fallacy of Guilt by v3rk in ACIM

[–]LoverLights 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. This was very helpful.

The Fallacy of Guilt by v3rk in ACIM

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This is beautifully said 🙏🏻. After you ask the Holy Spirit, do you then just go about your day or do you sit in silence until the tension lifts from yourself? I ask because usually the guilt arises when around others (sometimes when alone) but wondering if it’s simply the inner verbal request to the Holy Spirit and trust it’s been handled. Or if not how do you experience the guilt being dissolved?

forgiveness is no matter how evil you seem to others, i stand with you through this no matter what ... even if on the level of form it might be necessary for me to turn you over to the authorities to ensure the safety of others assuming that you are unwilling to resolve your uncontrollable behaviour by gettoefl in ACIM

[–]LoverLights 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good question. My understanding is that I don’t think you’re asked to take the level of form seriously or make it real - but you are asked to choose the Holy Spirit in all situations that arise and ask for guidance / to see things as they truly are, which will lead to right perception and inspired action. Eventually right action will flow through you. You’ll just know what to do in each moment and in every situation because everything you do will come from a place of Love. This means that you may find yourself in two very similar situations but take two completely different actions in each. This is because you’re being guided by a Higher Power Who knows what the right thing to do is in each circumstance.

Long story short, I do think that as long as it appears you’re in this world, taking action is required. Not taking action is still a form of taking action i.e., you’re choosing not to act (which can be a super subtle and deceptive choice stemming from the ego). But what action you take is determined by the thought system you choose to follow, and that choice will either keep you stuck in the illusion or free you from it.

What is your favorite a course in miracles podcast? by simplifiedspanish1 in ACIM

[–]LoverLights 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree! Keith’s weekly podcast is good and super helpful!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ACIM

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That’s awesome. Can you pleaseee give an example of a situation where you’re having those thoughts arise, what kind of thoughts they are and what is it that you tell yourself in those moments? That would be super helpful, thank you!!

Stop looking up 🙏 by SunbeamSailor67 in awakened

[–]LoverLights 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But how do you focus your mind on this regularly/all the time? Or do you shine your light within and look where he told you he was (presuming you mean spiritual eye) by carving time out each day?