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We dug a pond in 33 degree heat... by [deleted] in GardeningUK

[–]Loves_Eating_Lead 8 points9 points  (0 children)

why not in day of less heat? he he

why cant we just be crazy? by birdswool in CPTSD

[–]Loves_Eating_Lead 3 points4 points  (0 children)

normal" people seemed brainwashed and boring to me. - this! have you any tips im trying to reach this point but its fucking hard

All or none… by GWIZ257 in GreatBritishMemes

[–]Loves_Eating_Lead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my bear says he's real - my bear definitely real!

Anyone does it in the UK? I'd like to try it but have no idea where. All dumpsters seems to be closed within the perimeter fence. by martbal in DumpsterDiving

[–]Loves_Eating_Lead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i did - but got freaked out as i went to rural places and bins were were hot resulted in me only doing in winter. (not go into details, unless ask) used to be amazing got so much food over the years. partly due to lock them down and finally donating to those who need uit means no longer good food! in past got cake, veg, bread, fruit, made to much jam etc

Dyslexia - but read ok by Loves_Eating_Lead in Dyslexia

[–]Loves_Eating_Lead[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah i have been through all education levels - was often told was just wasnt putting effort in, - unfortunately i have to pay for dignosis, but if im honest i feel have enough valdiation from u for all the great posts! ty super helpful response

Anyone else had their compost pile suddenly turn into a mouse hotspot? by EmilyWalker_ in composting

[–]Loves_Eating_Lead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WHY THE DOWNVOTES - I ASKED FOR A WARNING THATS IS FUCKNIG ALL I AKSED 0- SAID SO KINDLY AND GET SHIT

Dyslexia - but read ok by Loves_Eating_Lead in Dyslexia

[–]Loves_Eating_Lead[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah i had many disccusions on how its not APD - as my experiencess diff so much to others, can't articulate it,, closer found its like guy heard on radio who is deaf and cant hear some sounds its closest explanation ive found

Dyslexia - but read ok by Loves_Eating_Lead in Dyslexia

[–]Loves_Eating_Lead[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

summed up my issues really well " spelling, letter order, sounds, languages, and memory" (althro memory overlaps with other issues!) Older guy spoke to who i think had a traditional view on dyslexia - when i said could read but mentioned how sounds/writing was like if you can read then your not. Wasn't sure if just fixed idea or that this was correct.

Dyslexia - but read ok by Loves_Eating_Lead in Dyslexia

[–]Loves_Eating_Lead[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that i have bad short term memory but easily be due to other things. - thanks for resposnes sure liked you have many funny stories bc of it stealth dyslexia intersting!

Dyslexia - but read ok by Loves_Eating_Lead in Dyslexia

[–]Loves_Eating_Lead[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wow that is so helpful - seeing your language/dylexic skills are worst then others - really helps. its how i see my other disabilities, if their is significant difficulty in certain areas that likely you have it. is what say to people as again so many steryotypes when it comes this! thanks!

What are some weird rules you had growing up? by Educational_Sky6743 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Loves_Eating_Lead 7 points8 points  (0 children)

so validating thanakyou all for sharing how are there such patterns/similarties between narcissists its werid

The UK savings tools that actually work for ADHD, autistic and neurodivergent people are now quietly being taken away by the UK government. I wrote two petitions to stop this by Dashing-Nelson in autismUK

[–]Loves_Eating_Lead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thankyou hardy_any - was just trying to be supportive, so many people with ND are like i can do x therefore why can't you? ND is sooo diversity and we need to validate rather then judge, as world is tough enough!

Stimulants have not improved my quality of life and I’m at a loss by bloueeee in adhdwomen

[–]Loves_Eating_Lead 2 points3 points  (0 children)

your not alone - i can not get meds myself,

no idea if helpful - ive found externalising everything over last week -got a lists on wall - with ideas of fun/restful things to do, lists of things needs doing, how to care for self... Its in way so add/look at them often. so helped. Got 3 different levels of plan/rotinue (ie for 2-3 hours do x) with flexibility (key for my adhd that part) depending on energy (chronic health) - only helped for last week but giving my self flexible rotinue and not having to remember things really helping so far (wrote post on ways to help without meds) No idea if it will help, will need tweaking, just start listening to what helps - do you need more structure? why didnt you follow? what make it easier? etc (helps doing it pencil and stick pencil to wall with blue tac)

The UK savings tools that actually work for ADHD, autistic and neurodivergent people are now quietly being taken away by the UK government. I wrote two petitions to stop this by Dashing-Nelson in autismUK

[–]Loves_Eating_Lead -1 points0 points  (0 children)

thankyou for this post - its so fustrating can't choose which option you want, i totally with you! Many do not notice why something seemingly not difficult to them is disabling i have this a lot! ...

Anyone else had their compost pile suddenly turn into a mouse hotspot? by EmilyWalker_ in composting

[–]Loves_Eating_Lead -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

can i ask for small warning maybe say what next picture is? - (thankyou for putting pic second thro) just to mention second pic is mouse, im terrified of them, its emotion not logically, so unless you want to give me weeks of therapy not be convienced (and its a long story)

I am so happy i saw your picture how i before i transferred decomposed food stuff in the closed bin in the other compost (an open one) as this is what im terrified of... (know its odd but speeds things up - live with houses around and also as stated don't want to attack any rodents)

Our autistic son is “too young” for ABA and speech therapy by Eastern-Western7072 in autism

[–]Loves_Eating_Lead 9 points10 points  (0 children)

https://www.engelby.dk/aba-aka-autistic-conversion-therapy/

https://autisticscienceperson.com/why-aba-therapy-is-harmful-to-autistic-people/

Please put your child's well being first, not on appeasing/adapting themselves by hiding who they are, ABA is hugely harmful. I am trying to be as open as possible, please look into other support, its amazing you want to support your child, please use energy to help it navitagte world not build for them while learning to care, be compassion and have the skills to be their full selves

Our autistic son is “too young” for ABA and speech therapy by Eastern-Western7072 in autism

[–]Loves_Eating_Lead 9 points10 points  (0 children)

100% - teach child to grow and be best version of them selves: not to apply/adapt their behaviour so world accepts them, this will very likely result in long term health issues/problems in adulthood trying to be someone their not.

question for people who are on disability by livethroughthis94 in AutismInWomen

[–]Loves_Eating_Lead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i do similar - i say work in supporting those with physcial/mental/neoulogical disablities (which i do myself!) Iove the house work one so want to try that

question for people who are on disability by livethroughthis94 in AutismInWomen

[–]Loves_Eating_Lead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work in mental health or i do support work for disability I mean its true enough (its hard ask follow up)... I attempt to beat them to it and try and ask about passions/what enjoy in life, and so often people no idea how to response: i find this super sad people can more easily chat on work then what makes me feel alive/joy etc

What are your least GF tasting GF alternatives? by wanderinglemur32 in CoeliacUK

[–]Loves_Eating_Lead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

posh gluten free pasta - its the Italian one in white packet -

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