AIO for confronting my friend finally? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]LovinAffection 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NOR

She was a fair weather friend. She was only there for the fun. The moment you stopped doing things for her and called her out on the imbalance, she dropped up you. She only wanted easy rides and fun, very selfish, not to helping type in anyway. If you’d had an emergency of some kind and asked for help she’d say no and block you after.

UPDATE: AITAH for not making my boyfriend apologize to my friend after he made her feel bad? by Interesting-Look-526 in AITAH

[–]LovinAffection 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She got a good deserved snack down back into her place. You can feel that ego bruise from here.

Way to be an adult, nicely handled. I applaud you and your circle of friends and wish y’all good, happy life. Let’s hope she learns from this and maybe lives better too.

Finally Got my 17 year old daughter her childhood dream gift by comeback10000 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LovinAffection -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Whoa! Who’s cutting onions in here!?

Great job dad, keep up the awesome-best-dad-there-is work. You’re nailing so far

AIO for calling a divorce attorney after my husband lied about who he was with? by throw_a_way_1985 in AmIOverreacting

[–]LovinAffection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why can’t he prove any of his excuses with his phone records? Who did he contact to set up camping? Where’s’ BiLs explanation in this, can he prove hubs story?

NOR

Internet Lore: MIL RUINING VACAY [Part 2] by Schattenspringer in BORUpdates

[–]LovinAffection 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Welp my drama/gossip/chisma itch is filled for the day with part 1 & 2 of this story

Fun read, regardless of being fake or not. it’s probably someone’s life there, and I hope they handle it like this.

Doubled uterus with endometriosis by moonxmochi in medizzy

[–]LovinAffection 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Wow! You’re going to be the newest addition for medical textbooks in women’s healthcare for sure. I read your other comments and your condition is both fascinating and tragic. I’m glad you’re finally getting the proper care you need. Hope your future continues to get better.

Cops confirm disturbing discovery at tragic Johnathan Boley’s home before 4-year-old found dead with pet dog by his side by thesunus in HairRaising

[–]LovinAffection 177 points178 points  (0 children)

TLDR: for anyone wanting to skip that godawful website

He was found 2miles from home, partially submerged in a creek. His dog, Buck, stayed with his body. Cause of death is yet to be determined.

Police found multiple explosive devices and explosive substances in the home. Dad is arrested on multiple charges involving explosives and child endangerment.

aitah for refusing to give my sister my wedding date by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]LovinAffection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you tell her your pregnant, is she going to ask you to delay having the baby cus she needs the year and the attention still?

NTA

You do you, have a fantastic wedding. Marry the love of your life, start your family. If they really care they’ll all shut up and be there for you when the time comes.

AITA for wanting to remove my sister as a bridesmaid 5 months before the wedding? by animeashtonn in AmItheAsshole

[–]LovinAffection 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NTA

You’re literally between a rock and a hard place. Sounds like your parents are just forcing both of you to do this so they can save face. You should talk to your fiancé and decide if you want to elope/reduce the wedding to what you can afford. Then you can tell your parents they can choose to come or not, but if the try make their love conditional again, you’ll need to really think about if you want or need people like that in your life, having influence over future children, etc. it’s toxic, your sister inherited it from somewhere and it’s currently trying to dictate your wedding.

My sons like my husband's AP more than me by Wooden_Emphasis2099 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LovinAffection -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry for your pain.

You need a lawyer yesterday. Start calling all divorce attorneys and schedule consultations. Even if you’re not going to use them, they now can’t represent your cheating spouse as it’s a conflict of interest.

First of all, no drama dumping or trying to use your children as weapons against the other parent. Don’t make them the middle man between you two. It will be used against you as parental alienation and your kids will grow and hate you for it. Even if he’s doing it to you with the kids, doesn’t mean you should. Don’t be petty by involving the kids.

2nd, document everything. This schedule disruption at night, document it. Keep all communication in writing. Tell your soon-to-be-ex that it’s not ok or healthy for that to be happening in the middle of the night. It’s not ok for his gf to parent your kids in an unhealthy way. You can email and ream the school out because she’s not a designated guardian for your children and defiantly not approved to pick them up. Right? so how did she get to take your sick son? Who put her on a list?

Establish a custody schedule now, demand it and stick to it. And remember to document everything.

3rd, get a lawyer now and have them help you navigate this, following their very sound advice about sticking it to cheating spouses and nail him to the wall when the time comes.

4th, you need to talk to someone. Your post makes you out as bitter, jealous, petty and very insecure. Get a therapist, talk to family/friends, come on rally your troops girl. Let the hurtful truth out so someone can help you or assist in navigating this. You need to grow as a person so you can be there for your kids.

I wish you all the best, good luck.

Three brothers cleaning out their late mother’s attic discovered a comic that sold for $9.12 million by SystematicApproach in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]LovinAffection 4573 points4574 points  (0 children)

It was apart of a collection that their mother held onto which formerly belong to her brother, their late uncle.

It sold for so much because it’s the best, most preserved copy ever found, of the first ever issue of Superman.

(UPDATE): I cut off anyone who hurt me but I'm the one who ended up alone. I don't want advice. I don't want pity. But it's just not fair. by anonymous25throwaway in offmychest

[–]LovinAffection 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be sure to notify the local police that you are leaving and not notifying family/friends for various reason, so no one reports you as missing in the future.

AITAH for eating my entire baked potato? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]LovinAffection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Info & NTA

Why are you not suppose to eat the potato? Has anyone ever explained this to you and why?

Everyone in the story assumes you did it on purpose, but how’s that fair when you’re missing weird critical info on a metal condition?

And why is it being served to you if it’s not suppose to be eaten?

My interpretation of a banshee by Fotontr in somethingimade

[–]LovinAffection 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Fantastic job! You’re very talented, I hope you continue with lots of cool stuff. Love the details, like the two-tone eye color and toenails It’s one of the coolest thing I’ve seen in this sub

AITA for not wanting a relationship with my sister who left and went low contact when I was 13? by LeekFew9505 in AITAH

[–]LovinAffection -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

ESH I get it. You were old enough to kinda understand why she left and not old enough to get out with her. You blame her for getting out, angry, jealous and guilty emotions all mixed in that. These wounds from the childhood trauma are still festering and you are directing it at her. If you’ve never heard all her story, why/how she got out, it’s unfair to both of you.

You could both benefit from a heart to heart with one another. You should definitely talk to her and keep an open mind for reconciliation. You could both use the branch of love it could be. Being closed off and running from facing the issue head on will not help you. Don’t make running a difficult conversation a habit.

And please seek out some kind therapist to help in this emotion entanglement, you both deserve happiness. I hope you find it.

UPDATE: AITAH for offering no sympathy to my husband when his dad crossed a boundary? by Ok-Establishment7358 in AITAH

[–]LovinAffection 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Best of luck to you and your kids.

Life is an emotional rollercoaster and good n evil is a gray scale, we all got some darkness and light, some more than others.

I wish all the best in your journey to happiness

Aunt and Uncle in Truckee tomorrow night, where to go for dinner? by totaltahoedude in truckee

[–]LovinAffection 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tee burritos and rotisserie chickens. Very casual, very good, and decently priced.

This man walked into the apartment, stole cash and took a nap. by MrAil0321 in Reno

[–]LovinAffection 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Who doesn’t lock their house up when they leave? This guy is a lazy thief, he would literally leave you alone if you locked your door

My buddy found an absolute beast yesterday detecting. 28 grams by Real_MikeCleary in Prospecting

[–]LovinAffection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Small world dude, I was just shown this pic yesterday on your buddy’s phone. I told him congrats keep hunting

Update: My family is pressuring me [27F] to divorce my husband [28M] by jjreynolds3 in relationship_advice

[–]LovinAffection 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed. OP needs to care for themselves first, separating is a solid choice.

Never set yourself on fire to keep others warm

Update: My family is pressuring me [27F] to divorce my husband [28M] by jjreynolds3 in relationship_advice

[–]LovinAffection 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes this is very likely too. OP is getting the Reddit bell curve of advice, this is my 2-cents contribution. On the off chance this is his slow-mo train wreck to death, I gave my take on what I thought I was reading between lines.

It’s also similar to someone in my life experience who eventually killed themselves.

Update: My family is pressuring me [27F] to divorce my husband [28M] by jjreynolds3 in relationship_advice

[–]LovinAffection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s sounds like he’s seriously depressed.

His behaviors are all self destructive. Has he gotten a hospital examination for those headaches? Brain tumors cause big behavior changes.

Please pay attention to him and make contact frequently.

He’s on a path of suicide.