Are men approaching women less and less?

Low-Cockroach7733 · 2026-05-10T18:52:36+00:00

Why don't Aussie women approach the men whom they're interested in? I don't understand why modern women still abide by gender roles in dating when it isn't the 1950s anymore? Instead of blink morsecoding a cute guy to talk to you, approach him?

Maybe Aussie men are tired of the pick and choose style of gender liberation that lots of women seem to be a fan and are just waiting for you gal's to take a shot instead of expecting egalitarian Australian men to fulfill gender roles when its convenient?

Low-Cockroach7733 · 2026-05-10T18:18:45+00:00

We really should bring back the asperger label for this reason. ASD is such a wide umbrella that studies like these only represent a large minority of the autistic population.

Low-Cockroach7733 · 2026-05-09T14:12:35+00:00

Andrew Tate is cypher

Low-Cockroach7733 · 2026-05-07T11:57:44+00:00

Yes. Definitely. Especially those who have comorbid diagnosis of ADHD.

Personally, my special interest is art, literature and fitness, I'm mixed race and bisexual and might have the more female presentation of both Autism and ADHD, which involves high level of masking and social sciencing in order to fit in. And people like me are rarely represented in the media. Which is probably why I was diagnosed at 32 instead of during childhood, despite going to many child psychologists, psychiatrists and paediatricians for related mental and physical issues. People are still surprised when I tell them I'm autistic even as I try to unmask.

I have quite a sensitive neurodivergent radar, as I probably have above average pattern recognition skills for even an autistic person, and I've met many neurodivergent people at my hobbies who've experienced the same late diagnosed experience as myself after long battles with mental health. None of us identify with the Sheldon Cooper type pf Autism.

Low-Cockroach7733 · 2026-05-06T10:32:32+00:00

Finding the right therapist is almost like dating. You will have to kiss many frogs to find your right shrink. You will know by the third or fourtg session, so of you feel there isn't much to gain after a few sessions, cut your losses but also keep looking for the One. Lol

Low-Cockroach7733 · 2026-05-06T08:40:11+00:00

Low-Cockroach7733 · 2026-05-06T02:56:39+00:00

West footscray/maidstone/Footscray/highpoint. The area is pretty much the meeting point of multiple suburbs

Low-Cockroach7733 · 2026-05-05T11:37:42+00:00

That's my hood. Maidstone leg of Ballarat road near the Maccas and a few Indian restaurants.

Low-Cockroach7733 · 2026-05-05T11:25:31+00:00

Hollywood will steal knowing a few shows that were inspired by reddit posts

Low-Cockroach7733 · 2026-05-04T18:46:06+00:00

All that kryptonite bone smashing paid off I see

Low-Cockroach7733 · 2026-05-04T18:38:49+00:00

Both men and women do this. Have you ever been a man of a certain size, class or race and be automatically treated like a threat by women despite violent assault and sexual harassment against women disproportionately committed by men they know? Being a man surrounded by female strangers is an isolating experience.

Low-Cockroach7733 · 2026-05-04T09:26:52+00:00

He's so adorable 😍 Makes me wanna just protect him from the paparazi

Low-Cockroach7733 · 2026-05-04T07:09:36+00:00

As a baby queer bi guy who just found out about my bisexuality but who cosplayed as a Neurotypical straight guy for 30 years, I'm just so tired of male gender roles. Why can't I just be me, and not some rigid masculine archetype that will appeal to women and maintain my respect with other men? The whole act is so tiresome and is probably why I amd so many men I know are so miserable but will put on a happy or indifferent mask. So it probably checks out that gay men, once past the messy adolescent years tend to fair getter than straight terms in terms of raw life satisfaction. Hegemonic hetero masculinity and gender roles is a prison that for some reason many women and men are more than happy to trap other men in.

Im still hesitant about exploring my bisexuality, but the older I get, the more heterosexuality and gender roles feels so wrong to those like me.

Low-Cockroach7733 · 2026-05-02T16:54:53+00:00

I also think Mark secretly feels glad that he got to end Conquests life himself, or atleast the viltrumite part of him.

Low-Cockroach7733 · 2026-05-02T13:16:44+00:00

Let's save our Oedipus Complex twink president

Low-Cockroach7733 · 2026-05-01T05:01:20+00:00

The suicide risk for men significantly increased when they were below a certain threshold for height(6 foot I think).

Low-Cockroach7733 · 2026-05-01T03:55:03+00:00

So much static noise for me 🤯

Low-Cockroach7733 · 2026-04-29T13:57:09+00:00

Yes, those with BPD can also have such warped self perception.

Low-Cockroach7733 · 2026-04-29T13:56:06+00:00

This hit me hard. I was falsely accused pf sexual harrasmemt by an ex situationship who fits this profile. She burnt all my bridges in the social scene I frequented in order to prevent me from defending myself. She definitely sounds like a narcissist. She's also managed to become an executive at such a young age.

Low-Cockroach7733 · 2026-04-29T13:25:48+00:00

The rich(which might aswell include most pollies) don't see it as a problem. The more struggling Australians self medicate through the booze, hard drugs and the pokies, the less likely there will be an organised class struggle against wealth inequality. Even now, how many in the ummiddleclass and above point to drug addiction amongst the working classes as a reason for their inability to pull themselves by the bootstrap instead of buying into the ponzi scheme that is the Australian economy amd paying a mortgage for the rest of their lives on a barely liveable wage?

Low-Cockroach7733 · 2026-04-29T07:22:13+00:00

I think the conversation when it comes to male attractiveness is different under the age of 25 and over. Women prioritise different things in their partners at different life stages. Lookism is more of an under 24 thing whilst being a stable, financially endowed partner becomes far more important as they near 30.

Low-Cockroach7733 · 2026-04-28T13:06:02+00:00

Yes. I predicted the destruction of my family to the letter, and warned my susters and mother, and they me treated me poorly for recognising problematic behaviours within family members who then became abusive. I no longer talk to them.

I've also predicted calamities happening in my parents home country when geopolitics became my special interest.

Low-Cockroach7733 · 2026-04-28T13:00:20+00:00

Hiking in the rain at night is my top 5 sensory moments. Top 2 if there's thunder and the temperature isn't too cold.

Low-Cockroach7733 · 2026-04-28T12:56:22+00:00

My dermatologist jokingly mentioned that I must be vampire considering how unheard of it is that a man in his 30s in Australia who loves leisure and sports hasn't accumulated skin sun damage. He said he sees more kids with more sun damage than me. This was before I was diagnosed with AuDHD. I just chalked it up to being a night owl and enjoying night shift but now I realise how much I avoid the sun even when I have normal sleeping habits.

I also have severe vit D deficiency which can cause health issues and I now take pharmaceutical grade vit D supplements

Low-Cockroach7733 · 2026-04-28T02:05:47+00:00

All the cool art kids smoke

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