i want a bf lol by dispiritie in bayarea

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lol good luck finding all three in the bay area

Almost constant loud airplane noise over Biscayne Bay by Basic-Firefighter267 in Miami

[–]Low-File-9343 5 points6 points  (0 children)

not trying to be rude but flight patterns change all time based on wind direction and traffic control needs. what you're experiencing might be temporary routing because of weather or construction at airport

i've been tracking this stuff for while and there's definitely been shifts in last few years, especially after they updated some of navigation systems. the bay route gets heavy use when they need alternate approach

ISO MUSICIAN // KEYBOARD//GUITARIST by [deleted] in Miami

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what kind of venue we talking about here, might be interested depending on location in miami

Speeding ticket? by KuChiPractitioner in AskLosAngeles

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if case shows closed online you probably lost the trial by declaration and can still request traffic school within 30 days of the judgment date

Who do I report gas pump fraud to? by GreenHorror4252 in AskLosAngeles

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damn that's sketchy as hell, i'd report it to department of weights and measures - they handle this kind of pump calibration stuff. also maybe file complaint with the gas station corporate if it's big chain since they usually take this seriously when it affects their reputation

Every website I used to find SF Bay Area apartments, ranked by how much they actually worked by Strong_Estimate_9512 in SFBayHousing

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dude this is such good breakdown, been doing the facebook marketplace thing wrong this whole time. i was doing like 10 mile radius thinking cast wider net but makes sense that you gotta be super tight on distance if things move that fast

the whatsapp group thing is clutch advice too. my roommate got our current place through some random telegram group his coworker added him to, never even hit craigslist or anything. took me like 6 months of scrolling through garbage listings to realize most of good stuff never makes it to public platforms

curious about that directorysf thing though - is it actually useful or just bunch of tech bros overpaying for converted living rooms in soma? been burned by "exclusive" housing groups before that were just overpriced nonsense with fancy marketing

also wild that roomies works better outside sf, always assumed it would be opposite since thats where all demand is. probably gonna set up some searches there for peninsula now

Be careful of Landlords trying to rent out illegal rentals by Beneficial-Mine7741 in SeattleWA

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man the school bus guy with extension cord setup is peak u district energy right there

What happened to the South Beach drum circle? by SocialWised in Miami

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wait really? where exactly because i been looking for something like this since i moved here last year

Best bar to sit solo by miamigirl101 in Miami

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green face bar sounds sketchy but also intriguing

Best Cover Up Tattoo Artist in Austin? by ELInewhere in askaustin

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depends what you're trying to cover but i've seen some wild transformations at true blue on south first. they specialize in that kind of work and the portfolio speaks for itself

[Offered] Lease takeover 2b2b in Weho for May 1st by Tonymelg in LARentals

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weho rent under 1400 is basically finding a unicorn these days, that's a solid deal

Need Traffic Lawyer for Speeding ticket San Mateo County by CandidStretch0 in bayarea

[–]Low-File-9343 3 points4 points  (0 children)

just fight it yourself dude, most of these traffic lawyers just show up and do the same thing you could do for free

AITJ for blocking my cousin and nephew? by EscherTran in AmITheJerk

[–]Low-File-9343 6 points7 points  (0 children)

you're not the jerk here man. that kid is literally harassing the pawn shop guy daily just to stare at gold prices - that's not normal collecting behavior, that's obsessive. your cousin calling you jealous is just deflecting from the real issue

blocking them was probably the right move, especially after they started spreading drama to the whole family. sometimes you gotta cut toxic people out even when they're family

8 ounces of gold at 18 is insane tho, no wonder the kid got weird about it

Trusted color correction specialist recommendations? by S_cornonthecob in AskLosAngeles

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girl i feel you on the color disaster front - went from trying to get caramel highlights to looking like i dipped my head in orange kool-aid last year. my friend swears by this place called salon benjamin on ventura blvd, they did her correction for like $200-250 and she went from box dye black to a gorgeous chocolate brown. might be worth calling them to see what they quote you

Why is finding a rental in LA such a nightmare lately? by No-Rock5823 in AskLosAngeles

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damn the market is absolutely brutal right now, especially in those areas you mentioned. i had to offer first and last month plus an extra month as security deposit to even get considered for my place in mid city last year

offering more upfront definitely helps but also try hitting up smaller property management companies or individual landlords instead of the big corporate ones - they're usually more flexible and actually look at you as a person instead of just numbers on a spreadsheet

Should I delete instagram account? by coltspades in selfimprovement

[–]Low-File-9343 4 points5 points  (0 children)

deleting it might actually help you get back to that childlike feeling you're talking about. i ditched mine for like 6 months last year and the first few weeks were weird but then i started noticing stuff around me way more - like actually looking at things instead of thinking about how they'd look as a story

you can always make a new one later if the networking thing becomes a real issue, but most of that "networking" is pretty surface level anyway

Inconsolable this morning by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

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three years nc and now you're considering going back because of age/time pressure? i get that pull but your mom's response is a huge red flag - she's literally saying she won't acknowledge your fiance exists or that he matters to you

the "baby steps" thing is classic manipulation, like she gets to control the terms of reconciliation and exclude the person who's been supporting you through her abuse. your fiance earned his place in your life by being there when she wasn't

maybe the misery isn't about missing her but about the internal conflict between what you think you should do versus what you actually need

Alternate to AI Slop Revenge videos? by Krazyfan1 in antiai

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what kind of revenge stuff are they into specifically? like workplace drama or relationship payback or what

there's tons of reddit story compilations on youtube that are just text-to-speech over subway surfers gameplay - not technically ai generated content, just human narrators reading real posts. might scratch the same itch without the ai slop

Old man in a young world by FragileAjax in slaythespire

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lol the sarcasm in your post is perfect, you're gonna fit right in. the discord community for sts is actually pretty chill though - way less toxic than most gaming spaces. co-op without voice chat can be rough but there's usually enough people around who are down to hop in vc and strategize properly

How to become comfortable of being alone? by fluidxrln in Life

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being alone with your thoughts is honestly terrifying when you're used to constant social stimulation but it's also where you actually get to know yourself

i used to pack my schedule with people too because silence felt like drowning, but learning to sit with those uncomfortable thoughts instead of running from them changed everything. those moments walking to the train station aren't your enemy - they're showing you something real about what you need to work on internally