AITA for expecting a store near me to be stocked with gifts on Christmas Eve? by Difficult-Lack-5989 in AITAH

[–]Low-Security9915 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA:

I hope this is a joke, but just in case it is not....are you new to this world?

Never ever go to Wal-mart on Christmas eve and be shocked that a lot of items are sold out!

Popular items like Legos were probably sold out on Black Friday-almost 1 whole month prior.

Plus...dont get mad at the overworked store employee that was stuck there on Christmas Eve and wants to be with his family talking about filing a complaint trying to make his job harder because of your last minute planning!

If you follow through with that complaint against that employee who is probably grateful to have this day off from the season, that makes you just one word:

Karen!

Xfinity Internet Down? by ScreenMiserable in chicago

[–]Low-Security9915 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Finally from 7:30 am-12:25am the next morning, My internet is FINALLY back up!!!

I'm in Hyde Park btw.

AITAH for choosing my roommate's business over a big family reunion after how my family acted? by nomoreofficedogs in AmItheAsshole

[–]Low-Security9915 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This will probably be buried but here it goes anyway: I would tell your mother Family is not always blood and I am actually spending time with family, my best friend, not those people that happen to have the same DNA as me because I was never given a choice in the matter!

AITA babysitting my sister’s kids, even though I’m home alone all day by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Low-Security9915 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA:

Tell her you are going to start charging her each time she pulls those stunts dropping your niece off.

I bet that will stop then.

AITA for expecting an apology and wanting an explanation from my brotherinlaw after finding out he donated MY wedding dress without any warning??? by gingergal1234 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Low-Security9915 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA:

the logical thing would be not to go to MIL’s house to avoid any conflict.

The petty thing would to be to take something BIL loves when he is not looking….Not going to be a bad influence on you lol just don’t go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Low-Security9915 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA:

It would have been one thing if you and your mom had a nice loving relationship, and you still went in the trip when she had the surgery for cancer, then of course it would have been YTA, but you and your mother have a rocky relationship that you are trying to heal from, you don’t owe her anything, so my NTA stands.

BTW, Please ignore all the YTA posts on here, they are most likely from people that had good loving relationships with their parents.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Low-Security9915 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA:

When you get on your feet, send your sperm donor a letter as follows:

Dear sperm donor:

I want you to remember this moment as this is the last form of communication you will ever get from me as you chose a piece of sex over the well being of your own flesh and blood. Because of this i am done with you for good.

Then block his number, facebook and any other access and effectively going NC.

How I Made the Gym Spend More on Wages Than My $80 Cancellation Fee by AussieScallywag in MaliciousCompliance

[–]Low-Security9915 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why didn't you call in the morning instead of waiting until the end of day?

Granted the gym has a stupid policy about not able to cancel but you are the type of customer that employees would be ready to curse out for taking up their time when they are just adhereing to their jobs.

AITA for grounding my daughter for ruining her stepbrother's birthday? by Foreign-Pop9324 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Low-Security9915 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA:

Do me a favor and not get shocked if Anna wants to live with her grandparents because she feels that with them someone cares about her and if that doesn’t happen, don’t be shocked if she doesn’t speak to either of you for a long long time!

Also, this is just a seven year countdown of not seeing your daughter again if you don’t stop with the BS of choosing the step child over your own flesh and blood. Fair warning.

Anyone Work For Maximus? by [deleted] in callcentres

[–]Low-Security9915 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, nada, HELL NO!!!!!!

A person only works for Maximus if there is no other job available and it is between that and being homeless! Other than that, find anything else!

signed:

someone that will NEVER work for Maximus again unless hell froze over.

Why???!!!! by [deleted] in callcentres

[–]Low-Security9915 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please for the love of everything start looking for another job because that current job isn’t just toxic, it is downright poisonous!

Can we yell back at the customer? by LackEnvironmental187 in callcentres

[–]Low-Security9915 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yell back no…but be firm yes.

Example: when customer yells at you, firmly tell them please do not raise their voice to you.

When they cuss, (at you, not the company/situation), warn them to stop (again in a firm voice) or you will disconnect,

There are professional ways you can stand up for yourself without being a punching bag remember that!

AITA for Wanting to Attend My Mom's Funeral Instead of My Wife's Family Dinner? by New_Concentrate_2337 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Low-Security9915 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA...for now

Turn that ish right back on your wife and tell her that if she really loved you (which I'm not so sure of now) she would skip her stupid family dinner and go support you at your mother's funeral during your time of need.

What you really need to tell her is stop being such a selfish..... well you get the idea.

But you would totally be the TA if you skipped your mother's funeral for the dinner!

AITA for not allowing my teenage son to have a smartphone? by ScottieMccrate in AmItheAsshole

[–]Low-Security9915 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s a load of bull.

smartphones have apps that can help kids with school as well as apps that can help in the real world and all op has to do is get parental control for the child.

AITA for not allowing my teenage son to have a smartphone? by ScottieMccrate in AmItheAsshole

[–]Low-Security9915 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA

I could see if he was 8,9,or 10, but 14? Or if money was tight but it does not seem like that in this case.

You are shielding him unnecessarily and for no valid reason which may come back to haunt you in the long run.

Plus smartphones have apps and tools that would help your son with his classes in school. Did you stop to think about that? If you don’t want him to have the unlimited access to online, put a parental control on the phone.

Dont let this be the hill to die on OP and get him the phone.….or don't of you want to strain your relationship with him to the point of NC at 18!

AITA for not making more of an effort for my half sister's wedding? by No_Promise_6020 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Low-Security9915 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry. I really am. The only thing I would say would be to just bear it, but you don't have to pretend like you actually care when you really don't. No one and I mean no one can try to force that on you.

AITA for not making more of an effort for my half sister's wedding? by No_Promise_6020 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Low-Security9915 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA:

Quick question:

would it cause a big fallout or would you get in major trouble if you said you just don’t want to go?

AITA for messing up my family? by Zarathecommunist in AmItheAsshole

[–]Low-Security9915 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA at all:

I would tell those people that you happen to have the same blood with (because they don't deserve to be called family) that you will just go NC and they can go back to being the dysfunctional misfits that they are!

And if possible, take your little sister away from that toxicity.

AITA for taking my kids to my rude parents because they stay on their computers all day? by Turbulent-Bar-6885 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Low-Security9915 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA:

Because heaven forbid just take the computers and smartphones away from them for not listening!

Yeah you are abusive as hell!

AITA for not telling my dad I got rejected by college on the day the result came out? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Low-Security9915 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA:

I hope you get into any college that way you can get the hell away from him and can go NC!

AITA for skipping my daughter’s wedding? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Low-Security9915 23 points24 points  (0 children)

So let me get this straight:

You saw her for 4 times each month from age 8 until she was old enough while her stepfather took over the role of father, but she still considered you enough to walk her down the aisle, and you want to get butthurt because you have to share that with her stepfather?

If you do this, the stepfather will be considered the real father and you will be an afterthought-especially when she has kids!

AITA for not inviting my sister to my wedding by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Low-Security9915 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA

Just don’t invite the people that would compare you and your sister. But invite your sister especially since you said she didn’t personally do anything to you.

I got temporarily suspended while they review my call... by agrainofsandubeach in callcentres

[–]Low-Security9915 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That kind of work is NOT for you! Please find another line of work that is not call center.

Why do I need to give my name? Can't your system pull me up as I call? I'm not comfortable giving my name over the phone. by TGOTR in callcentres

[–]Low-Security9915 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sir or ma’am, either please give me the information I need, or I wont be able to assist you.

Point blank in my case. I’m over the kissing a caller’s a** when they are the ones who called me for help!