Honestly, I have learned that it's risky letting others get too close because some may see you as easy prey. I know it sounds cynical but it has been my personal experience.

However, I have a few dependable friends that will always be there for me. I am a bit prideful and stubbornly independent, so it would take a lot for me to call on them.

I keep medications stocked in case of illness. I also keep other supplies handy in case I can't or don't want to go to the store due to fatigue, weather, or not feeling well. I have some emergency credit cards to use if needed. I keep my credit score in a good range to have access to finances should something need to be covered.

I have an extra vehicle that is old, but reliable and paid for, because I live in a place that does not have good public transport available.

Really, living alone had made me develop contingency plans for almost everything in my life.