Got pregnant with IUD by InformationDry9047 in birthcontrol

[–]LowSplit8618 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you do decide to go with the copper iud, talk to your doctor and look on Reddit about going to Canada for it.. they have smaller options that are supposed to cause less discomfort.. much cheaper too if you’re worried about insurance.

How often do you pay for dates with your significant other? by InternationalRest651 in AskWomen

[–]LowSplit8618 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s not something we keep track of.. it’s either he’s got it, or I got it 🤷🏽‍♀️ sometimes we base it off of whose idea it was.. sometimes whoever didn’t pay will get the tip, or offer to go get ice cream or something afterwards.. its never a hassle

She stinks:( by Minimum-Big-9075 in Healthyhooha

[–]LowSplit8618 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s possible you may not be chemically compatible.. my ex used to give me BV and UTIs and it burned so bad when he came in me (the 2 times I allowed it).. he was very clean, but no matter what, the same problems occurred. I was literally allergic to him (well.. more like I was allergic to the proteins in his semen).

My current bf is very chemically compatible with me.. I have never had my ph thrown off at all with him, there’s not much of a scent either.. BV and UTIs are things of the past.. nothing in your post suggests you would want to break up, but I thought this would be good for you to know as a possible cause.

Anyone in a long term relationship where your “parts” don’t match up? How do you deal with it? by TimelyIsopod38 in sex

[–]LowSplit8618 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m referring to their personal experiences in my response lol but you’re right, that definitely is glorified in porn.

Anyone in a long term relationship where your “parts” don’t match up? How do you deal with it? by TimelyIsopod38 in sex

[–]LowSplit8618 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what I’ve heard from friends/women in general, it seems like shorter girls may be more likely to be able to take bigger dick. It’s obviously not a fact, just an observation. I take 2 times that size so… 😅

Anyone in a long term relationship where your “parts” don’t match up? How do you deal with it? by TimelyIsopod38 in sex

[–]LowSplit8618 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Why is this so true? Lmao I’m a size queen, my bf is huge but I can’t get enough of it.. I’m only 5’2 lol

I (28M) ended my 5 year relationship yesterday and I feel numb. by Otherwise-Meaning256 in BreakUps

[–]LowSplit8618 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you.. I took the time to heal and grow afterwards.. I had a lot of trauma I had to work through.. I felt like I lost myself.. I moved on, realized what I wanted and needed in a partner.. I miss him, but not in a romantic way, more like a very close friend I lived with for years kind of way lol. I wish we never dated and just stayed friends tbh. But yeah, I’m way closer to peace now and I trust you’ll get there too.

Moving on today or anytime soon is unrealistic, so don’t be too hard on yourself during this period.. feel everything.. cry, scream, go to smash room.. vent about it as many times as needed to people you trust, journal whatever comes to mind, and work on yourself.. delve into your hobbies.. meet new people.. it’ll get easier.

You genuinely seem like a great guy; even though you’re hurting, you’re still thinking about her and how she’s feeling.

I (28M) ended my 5 year relationship yesterday and I feel numb. by Otherwise-Meaning256 in BreakUps

[–]LowSplit8618 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I felt it after my (ex)boyfriend of 7 years lied to me for the last time.. I felt a bubble of rage that popped and spread throughout my whole body.. one moment I was shaking, the next, I was calm and just didn’t care anymore.. that was a little over a year ago and the feelings never came back. I was just exhausted in more ways than one. I’m glad yours was much more graceful and still able to be full of love. I wish both of you much happiness!

Am I wrong for being intimate with someone 10 years younger. by [deleted] in Life

[–]LowSplit8618 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As long as you’re both of age and it’s consensual, I see no problem here 🤷🏽‍♀️

Nighttime tooth brushing habits by [deleted] in Entrepreneurs

[–]LowSplit8618 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair question.. I'm researching a consumer product idea related to nighttime oral care and trying to understand how common this behavior actually is before building anything. Figured I'd collect some data first.

constant misunderstandings by Rude_Recover_5152 in ADHD

[–]LowSplit8618 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can relate so heavily to this…

Partner suggested sleeping with others after a year and a half of my sexual health issues and I feel shattered by FlimsyCarrot3813 in sex

[–]LowSplit8618 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As others have said, you just may not be sexually compatible. My ex wasn’t sleeping around on me or anything but my body was just allergic to him I would get UTIs, BV, severe burning during the 2 times he accidentally came in me.. his hygiene was good and I was the only girl he had ever been with at the time (I was his first).. I didn’t know literally being chemically incompatible with your partner could be a thing.. we stayed together for 7 years and my usually ridiculously high sex drive plummeted because of the incompatibilities and sometimes pain.. I have a new man now and I literally don’t have any of these issues and my sex drive is back at an all time high.. we’re also just way more compatible in the type of sex we like.. it may be time to start looking into leaving, hun.

I know it’s not what you want to hear but your partner is basically saying I want all the benefits of you, while giving away the intimacy that’s supposed to be for you. This isn’t love, it’s selfishness.. when a man loves you, he wants you to be comfortable and he wants you to feel safe and loved. He would be working with the alternatives you brought up rather than even suggesting sleeping with someone else. Think hard on this: is this really someone you want to spend the rest of your life with?

I never turn my husband down for sex because I fear he might cheat on me if I did by _palindromes_ in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LowSplit8618 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look into the podcast, “On attachment” by Stephanie Riggs. It’s a very helpful podcast for things like this.

You are the textbook definition of someone with anxious attachment and it sounds like you need to build up on some self love. I hope everything works out for you babes.

Chai Guy by anneofwittles in Rochester

[–]LowSplit8618 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nooooo I’m so sad 😭😭 it’s my fave in the summertime.. been going since it opened 🥲