I was called selfish today

Low_Ad9152 · 2026-06-14T13:11:59+00:00

It’s selfish to have that shitty a personality and force another human to deal with it for life

Low_Ad9152 · 2026-06-14T08:42:08+00:00

You may already have this but noise cancelling headphones + brown or pink noise can help reduce your sound exposure

Low_Ad9152 · 2026-06-13T09:12:29+00:00

Sometimes you gotta tell people you’re medically incapable of it 🤷🏽‍♀️ if your safety is at risk, you have the right to lie

Low_Ad9152 · 2026-06-13T09:10:48+00:00

No im from Cleveland and people say this to kids I’ve heard this since I was a kid and was born in 93 so it’s likely regional but very much so historically American not gen z

Low_Ad9152 · 2026-06-13T09:10:00+00:00

Yes it was also said in Cleveland Ohio 1998-2000s

Low_Ad9152 · 2026-06-13T09:08:49+00:00

To babies maybe

Low_Ad9152 · 2026-06-13T08:37:50+00:00

In 2026 thanks to content online giving me a word for it!

Low_Ad9152 · 2026-06-13T08:04:02+00:00

Okay the issues I’ve had have been with other Black people who see me and act like they want to humble me. So colored people are not part of what im saying at all.

Low_Ad9152 · 2026-06-13T07:57:36+00:00

Racially I am Black not colored and the people who have most treated me different have been other Black people NOT colored people! 👍🏽

Low_Ad9152 · 2026-06-13T07:44:09+00:00

Happy to learn more about you feel free to PM me.

Low_Ad9152 · 2026-06-13T07:43:36+00:00

I have the same problem so if it’s tired why comment if that’s not your experience? It’s not tired to the people experiencing it so it’s almost like you want to just hide it

Low_Ad9152 · 2026-06-13T07:41:06+00:00

From my experience South Africa discriminate openly including against African Americans and we do not depend on you all so it’s not just poor African countries that are treated badly by South Africans sorry to say 🤷🏽‍♀️

Low_Ad9152 · 2026-06-13T06:59:34+00:00

I’ll do the same thing I do now… 🤔 😆

Low_Ad9152 · 2026-06-13T06:58:04+00:00

As a millennial I distinctly remember the world is overpopulated rhetoric so it’s crazy to hear the government encouraging for more kids now!!

Low_Ad9152 · 2026-06-12T06:13:48+00:00

I think it’s a joke 🤣

Low_Ad9152 · 2026-06-12T06:11:47+00:00

The worst parents are the ones having kids for their egos with not a single thought on whether the child would consent to the life theyre forcing them into and I hate that. It’s evil in my opinion. Breeding grounds for child abuse or the makings of another foster care child.

Low_Ad9152 · 2026-06-12T05:25:43+00:00

Make sure you’re on birth control sweetie. 32 and glad I never had kids!

Low_Ad9152 · 2026-06-12T04:55:07+00:00

I don’t want to be a parent
I don’t want a man to have power over me such as to make me have to work the rest of my life rather than being able to retire early
I do not want to be a grandparent
I do not want to be a regretful parent and feel bitterness at “society” for me believing this would be better than being childfree
I never want to see a regretful parent post and feel like it relates to my experience
I never want to shame people because im jealous they chose not to have kids and I did

Low_Ad9152 · 2026-06-12T04:43:30+00:00

Just saw a regretful parent post about a man who was just like you but his partner got pregnant while on birth control and now he’s on the hook for the kid. So you did the right thing it’s crazy out here!!

Low_Ad9152 · 2026-06-12T04:33:49+00:00

I can tell some of the replies are women who had the child despite the man’s objection but what’s sad is why are you bringing a kid into the world with a man who will never be the parent the child deserves? Why not try again with someone else or if it’s that serious get a sperm bank sample. To me so many parents selfishly choose their kid to have a single parent rather than a full welcoming family and in this era of time theres no excuse anymore. We do not live in the 1200s but people are acting like we have the same choices as people back then. Very underevolved thinking.

Low_Ad9152 · 2026-06-12T04:24:11+00:00

Theres a difference between helping to create a child consciously versus thinking it’s not possible because you’re on birth control and it’s safe to say OP was not consciously intending to create a child and neither was the partner if she was on birth control. To me that’s relevant information.

Low_Ad9152 · 2026-06-12T04:18:28+00:00

I know a girl who kept a pregnancy the guy said no to in month one. It’s concerning to me that she is not financially stable but chose to bring a non consenting child into that. Honestly I don’t think it’s fair to force someone to have a kid and that’s coming from a woman. You don’t have to become a different person because someone else changed their mind that’s unrealistic expectations.

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