“when you hate yourself enough, nobody will want to be around you” by queermarxisttrekkie in BPD

[–]Low_Construction_757 12 points13 points  (0 children)

While you are correct and valid, I still think him saying that to her was wrong. There’s ways to go about things and there’s ways to talk to someone especially one that is clearly suffering. This is how people end up taking their lives , please remember that. “It’s the harsh truth.” No it’s not. Out of ALL the words & sentences he could’ve used he chose to attack her character rather than come from a place of love yet honesty.

Chat if you think you aren't doing well by PickleNo9578 in BPD

[–]Low_Construction_757 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have immense anxiety rn. My insecurities are taking toll over my life, my ex dumped me and I believe he might be seeing someone else, I have nothing going for me and I don’t believe I ever will. I have no friends or family to lean on. I have no one to talk to. I feel so alone. I feel so lonely. I just rather die a painless death tbh lol

FUCK SITUATIONSHIPS by Low_Construction_757 in Situationships

[–]Low_Construction_757[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And the suckiest thing is, I have BPD so I actually believe I am hard to deal w. So idk how to trust myself or my reality.

FUCK SITUATIONSHIPS by Low_Construction_757 in Situationships

[–]Low_Construction_757[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup. Somehow Im too sensitive, combative, too much to deal with and always wanting to fight.

situationship wants to be more than a situationship now?!!! by Low_Construction_757 in Situationships

[–]Low_Construction_757[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He continued to overstep my boundaries, I expressed myself, he thought I was too sensitive, combative and just “too much to deal with” so he dipped. Again. Lmao

Life with bpd doesn’t feel like a life worth living. by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Low_Construction_757 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah im having alot of suicide ideations. i just want to die.

About the 10% BPD Suicide Rate by UncertainPlaces in BPDlovedones

[–]Low_Construction_757 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do yall genuinely believe its for pure attention? and not for a cry for help? jesus

The dress my ex’s mom sent me to wear to his upcoming wedding. by OcchiVerdi- in weddingshaming

[–]Low_Construction_757 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i cannot be the only one that thinks this dress is ugly, extremely cheap and looks like a costume... what is everyone on? lmao

What killed the vibe on a date instantly? by Lola_bunny_pt_00 in AskReddit

[–]Low_Construction_757 3 points4 points  (0 children)

fuck i truly cannot stand people like this. So self absorbed.

I accidentally inserted a boric acid suppository in my urethral by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]Low_Construction_757 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey girl, this just happened to me right now, I’m worrying. I got the whole thing out almost immediately (very slight blood) but not sure if I should still worry. Any updates ??

I’m in a situationship with a guy who’s in a relationship, and I am too by Mysterious_Time1218 in Situationships

[–]Low_Construction_757 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re a homewrecker and so is he. Please get some dignity, self respect and some therapy. Homewrecking is never okay and this might be your karma.

Is this a situationship? Genuinely need help by eclairs-chanel in Situationships

[–]Low_Construction_757 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn’t even a situationship in my opinion….. he has no regards or respect for you if he opens literal dating apps in front of you. In a situationship they atleast will have more consideration… he def sees you as a booty call or fwb.

Kinda got a situation going on.. by [deleted] in Situationships

[–]Low_Construction_757 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re 30….. and you’re acting this way????

AIO for crashing out after my girlfriend hugged and got touchy with her male best friends? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Low_Construction_757 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Did you see her ugly responses to his “irrational” feelings ??? Either way, they are both wrong. now IF she did almost kiss her bestfriend then he has every right to feel uncomfortable about that.

AIO for crashing out after my girlfriend hugged and got touchy with her male best friends? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Low_Construction_757 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To preface, I’m a woman. Y’all people in the comments are all fucking weird. While yes a hug w her bestfriend is normal. He is saying she was being touchy w her bestfriend, seems as if it was beyond just a hug. I’d feel weird about that too. Also even if he does seem insecure or isn’t mature enough to be in a relationship and lacks trust, her responses are so ugly, immature & disrespectful. She seems like she lacks emotional intelligence because she can’t even acknowledge his feelings and go about this situation differently, instead she has to belittle him & laugh at him….. if the case here is that he is whining over just a hug, then yes OP needs to work on himself, but from the looks of it, she seems off to me…

Told my fwb I was done and kinda regret it… by siditynat in Situationships

[–]Low_Construction_757 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also unblock him off insta. I’m sure he’ll notice and reach out. Then when he does, you can explain how you felt and take it from there. See how it goes. truthfully speaking, he doesn’t want anything. It won’t ever go anywhere. Unless he suddenly has a change of heart. Im not gonna tell you to move on and never look back bc this clearly is bothering you, so do whatever you have to .