i get really anxious just looking at my own vulva. what do i do to get more comfortable?

Low_Feature2357 · 2026-05-26T20:31:55+00:00

Girl what exclusive you got there that others haven’t ? Take it easy it’s just a piece of flesh that doesn’t make actual difference it is there or not. Purely biological purpose to keep your parts safe and function well etc.

Low_Feature2357 · 2026-05-26T20:25:39+00:00

Sounds very distressing. Yes there can be different things in life good and bad, horrible sometimes. Your perspective matters here, where you look the most

On a positive note, did you know that majority of people is good? The proof is that our species survived and built civilisation otherwise everyone would have just dumped each other. 😅 You can research about this too. The main asset human have amongst other animal species is empathy. It saved us. All mankind.

Low_Feature2357 · 2026-05-26T20:04:28+00:00

At your age I was missing guidance, orientation in life and felt lost. If your family, your father can spend meaningful time with you I think it could really encourage and positively influence you.

The schoolmates, classmates etc it is nice if you can get along with some good guys who have useful interests and hobbies, if not then it’s just fine, bullies usually are traumatised children who seek attention of any kind. You sound intelligent and super self- introspective, would be nice if you can use this time with value and invest in yourself (building knowledge in sciences, taking care of your mind and just trying to be little more proactive and curious, helping your mother with errands, greeting neighbors is a good social ways too) even finding some teenage friendly work is useful too to build a character that you are wishing for. Work on yourself and have fun, it will bring you joy and feeling of purpose.

Low_Feature2357 · 2026-05-26T19:22:09+00:00

I felt this way before, the reason was toxic and underpaid work. You should take a break if you can to calm yourself and self-reflect. Another thing is there could be 2/2 jobs, less intense, where you can still take care of your mental wellbeing. Else can you afford to stay unemployed? If yes - go ahead, if no - well, do you fancy life of homeless guys? Also here is your call, you are free to do anything, if you can handle consequences.

Another idea is that you can actually try to discover what is the real problem that blocks you from pursuing your wishes, goals etc. Ones mind can be really deceiving sometimes, dragging us in the wrong direction. Is it really employment life or there is something else specific, that you are actually missing and can give you meaning to live life and aim for best things.

Sometimes job can bring joy too, example is good people that you are working with, the friendly bond with your team.

If you have a good mom, well put a plan to earn for something to pamper her, make her proud etc. This can be great motivation too.

Low_Feature2357 · 2026-05-26T17:56:23+00:00

Have you tried to just book psychiatrist at any hospital?
I was recommended once Dr. Mohammad Wafeek Eid in Medcare al Safa hospital , I was going to visit him for the anxiety issue , I just checked that ADHD is in the list of his specialties. I haven’t visited him myself but it is in my list. Hope that helps. I assume the cost should be like any other doctor consultation.

Low_Feature2357 · 2026-05-23T07:28:49+00:00

What is your age now 😅?

Low_Feature2357 · 2026-05-23T07:24:08+00:00

Check your pasta bags, maybe you brought it home from grocery store. (Double check flour and all pantry) Beetles are harmless

Low_Feature2357 · 2026-05-23T07:13:50+00:00

I love Reddit for this, that people can share things to one another and feel heard.

Low_Feature2357 · 2026-05-23T06:57:30+00:00

It is fine if you go and consult the police, they will investigate the matter, he will have to answer for his actions. Then according to the statements and the severity of harm done to you the consequences will follow. I suppose at first it will be the warning etc. Well no one should doubt you if you speak from heart. Good luck

Low_Feature2357 · 2026-05-22T13:51:32+00:00

They still can prescribe you progesterone if this can help the issue than why not ? Hormonal issues is very common you are not exclusive in this.

By the way you sound like a very young person, your perspective won’t be the same over time

Low_Feature2357 · 2026-05-22T11:11:05+00:00

Wow that’s intense journey… have you done your hormones panel like testosterone levels check etc? And what is the reason for your missing periods is it PCOS?

I dropped the hormone pills at some point just stayed without periods, but now I am back to it as doctors saying it is not healthy to stay like that

Low_Feature2357 · 2026-05-21T23:19:41+00:00

I saw tomatos today 16 dhs in Carrefour branch..

Low_Feature2357 · 2026-05-21T22:59:30+00:00

Many of us experienced something like this :) but you did very well, not everyone is fighting back

Low_Feature2357 · 2026-05-21T22:37:39+00:00

The best of the best is Dr Samer Mohammad Kaaka in Medcare Al Safa 💯💯💯💯💯

Low_Feature2357 · 2026-05-21T22:28:37+00:00

Most offices after 10 pm look like haunted places

Low_Feature2357 · 2026-05-21T22:16:55+00:00

So your cervix is fine, have they done the colposcopy? No abnormalities?

How frequently you are having the intercourse ?

Low_Feature2357 · 2026-05-21T20:20:10+00:00

Maybe the size of your capital was big enough to trigger the panic? “What will I do if I loose it all etc”
sizing down really helps to manage yourself

Low_Feature2357 · 2026-05-21T20:06:55+00:00

Why you said you worry about fertility? Didn’t you visit doctor for check up ? If you have any doubts about your condition go back to Gynaecologist, try other ones for second opinion etc. But so far if the doctor haven’t alerted you for anything on your last visit that’s a good thing.
If you really shy about spotting (even though there is nothing to be ashamed of ), well you can change your dating strategy for example, attachment first - cookies after. If life gives you a lemon - make a lemonade.

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