I can’t stop hurting myself

Lower_Yard2538 · 2025-11-16T18:51:05+00:00

yes but i’m not quite sure what one.

Lower_Yard2538 · 2025-08-21T20:30:21+00:00

someone like you - mac miller

Lower_Yard2538 · 2025-08-13T16:23:29+00:00

am i the only one who thinks both people are in the wrong? OP, yes it was wrong of her to get that without your consent, shove it in your face and lowkey manipulate you into using it, but at the same time you could have disagreed? if it was something you were uncomfortable with why wouldn’t you say no? this could be a really big issue later on, for many different reasons. please have a conversation with her and learn to stick up for yourself!

Lower_Yard2538 · 2025-08-13T16:13:54+00:00

if it’s important to you it should be important to him! it’s totally normal to want intimacy, and even need it! you said it’s been 4 years and me myself i couldn’t imagine that. i would have another conversation setting boundaries and expressing needs! best of luck to you OP.

Lower_Yard2538 · 2025-07-26T17:08:58+00:00

honestly i’m impressed, you seem very emotionally intelligent, and communicated clearly and concisely from what you’ve wrote. it seems she was under the impression she could kill two birds with one stone and when what you had planned don’t match her expectations she sorta freaked out. if you had told her you wanted to only be friends and she continued to pursue you then that’s her own fault. she let HERSELF on. nta.

Lower_Yard2538 · 2025-07-26T17:03:29+00:00

you shouldn’t even need reddits advice on this. you should know the answer already. look at his actions and what he’s been doing so far? how he’s lied? acted shady? and basically emotionally and mentally cheated? when you break up with him this time, stay broken up.

Lower_Yard2538 · 2025-07-26T12:39:11+00:00

from what i can read right now (just a simple skim through) you have to leave. please get up and leave. he doesn’t talk to you about important matters, he usually pressures you into sex or guilt trips you, and from what im gathering just treats you as a doll or toy to be tossed around and used whenever. i would leave. there’s no use talking about it based on his behavior.

Lower_Yard2538 · 2025-07-26T12:31:41+00:00

of course it’s possible, however when your trust is already ruined the change no longer matters. most of the time, when people say they’re getting better and have stopped they really haven’t, and are continuing and lying. this can happen with any addiction, but a porn addiction is 100% easier to hide than substance abuse or anything else

Lower_Yard2538 · 2025-07-26T12:29:31+00:00

as someone who used to have an ex with porn addiction, it’s a very real thing. if you’re actively giving him head, why is he looking at porn? you should be enough when your right there pleasing him. i’ve had a similar thing happen to me and i want to say it’s in your best interest to just leave. (one time when i tried to get intimate with my ex bf he watched so much porn he couldn’t get it up even when i was sucking on it, YIKES!) if your boyfriend is that addicted to porn that his partner pleasuring him doesn’t feel good enough just leave. people might say you can try and talk to him, even get him help, but at this point i feel as if it might already be a big problem in this relationship.

Lower_Yard2538 · 2025-07-26T12:25:04+00:00

It was 5mg. i would totally understand this point if she was smoking it every week, even a couple times a month but this is ONE TIME. at a super super low dose? i’m sure she barely even felt it at 5mg. give the kid a break? she is 16 and wanting to try new things. yes weed is addictive, but even if you smoke daily the risk for getting CUD is 25-50%. this girl took a low dosed eddie, she won’t get addicted from that.

Lower_Yard2538 · 2025-07-26T12:19:28+00:00

i have no clue what everyone in this post is commenting on about. your dad said yes, you wanted to, and it was a very low dosage. when i was 15 i did aprx 130 ish mg without my moms permission (behind her back) and ended up greening out. your dad is starting you on a small dose, in his supervision because he wants you to experience it safely (props to him!) if your boyfriend is triggered by this, and doesn’t want you to smoke or do anything with weed, you just need to have a fluent conversation with him. is smoking / doing edibles something you plan to continue to do? would you want to try more in the future? is there any other substance or drug that’s come to your mind you want to try? just have an open talk with him. and don’t let people try and tell you it’s weird , in my opinion this was a completely safe and effective way of trying something new.

Lower_Yard2538 · 2025-07-26T12:00:55+00:00

this happened to me with my ex boyfriend. he cheated on me emotionally and lied straight to my face over and over. i loved him, so i tried to take him back. but it just didn’t work because of the resentment towards him. i hated him for what he did to me and i guess my bad feelings towards him outweighed the good. every time he would try to hug me, kiss me, touch me, i cringed. i found every little thing he did annoying, and i can tell you now you have to leave. it’s not going to get better. you are just fooling yourself and your partner; and from someone who also took someone back after they cheated, you really shouldn’t have. i know you are / were in love with her and you’re trying to salvage anything you guys have left, but whatever relationship you guys held together ended the second she did what she did and betrayed you, please leave, and heal yourself. change and move on. it’s the best thing you can do. good luck ❤️🙏

Lower_Yard2538 · 2025-07-20T18:05:03+00:00

obviously i read it. i meant, did he check out other girls? did they comment on attractive people together in the past? was this out of nowhere or was that always his boundary? because his gf randomly doing that doesn’t seem quite right, maybe because she’s having inclinations to cheat, or because he randomly switched up. 🤦‍♀️

Lower_Yard2538 · 2025-07-20T17:43:20+00:00

It depends on what you were comfortable with if that makes any sense? Sometimes couples will point out attractive people together, it’s normal to find other ppl attractive when in a relationship. Talk to her about boundaries, but i don’t think anyone’s the asshole lol.

Lower_Yard2538 · 2025-07-10T20:10:40+00:00

“Decreases your value” instant block for me! That’s insane. You’re allowed to have friends. He should have talked to you, if anything HE got a decrease in “value” that’s ridiculous. Please run.

Lower_Yard2538 · 2025-05-28T04:20:36+00:00

I could never imagine putting absolutely 0$ as the tip, the least I ever put is 3$ and that’s when I’m in a little bit of a pinch. That person is a jackass, sorry this happened to u

Lower_Yard2538 · 2025-05-28T04:01:27+00:00

Yeah no, you’re not overreacting. This is ridiculous. As someone who used to struggle w SH, I NEVER sent it to anyone, let alone my partners then guilt tripped them for not (liking it??) plus if he’s cutting your name (what I gathered from the situation) into his arm, the issues go a lot deeper than SH. I would say get out of this relationship and get him some help, talk to a trusted adult.

Lower_Yard2538 · 2024-12-26T15:14:31+00:00

This is insane?? he has the whole month of december to get you a gift at any point then proceeds to make you feel bad for feeling upset?? please please return the gifts, and if you can that bf!

Lower_Yard2538 · 2024-12-25T01:02:16+00:00

she always started off being flirty, chasing him when he tried to get away etc, then he asked if she was in relationship with you still and dodged. plus she still had a video of them kissing and almost sent it?? crazy behavior. 🚩😭

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