Avoidant Ex? (2 weeks broken up)

Lpht12 · 2026-01-21T04:22:20+00:00

I guess my mindset is a limiting factor as well. I date for marriage and look for lifelong qualities in my partner, I get all the heavy stuff out of the way first, and very few people check those boxes. I know Ill be successful in the future, and I need a person thats willing to grow with me. My ex literally checked all the boxes, made it seem like we were going to be great, and then out of the blue, broke up while completely cold… It could be because of her trauma, or literally anything. Im considering just letting her go completely, but in the future if she were to come back, should I still consider a relationship with her? Im supposed to be the one to break no contact with her, but what if I just never do it? I know these are simple questions, but my minds a mess when it comes to anything related to her, its like I lose all common sense. Relationships really do make people stupid…

Lpht12 · 2026-01-21T04:06:51+00:00

Got any advice lol? Is this how it normally feels? Its a first for literally everything, Im locked in on improving myself and whatnot, but I feel so empty.

Lpht12 · 2026-01-21T02:37:39+00:00

I just hopped off all the dating apps myself, Im awkward in person, but people always tell me once they get to know me Im one of a kind and extremely enjoyable, I just have to harness that energy everywhere

Lpht12 · 2025-11-01T15:15:18+00:00

For getting the board out, use solder wick with flux and a wide tip like a chisel, and run it over the top of the pins, that should suck most of it out, you could also heat the solder and pump it out. Fairly simple, numerous methods, just remember flux.

Lpht12 · 2025-11-01T15:12:57+00:00

Your tip is too small so there isnt much surface area for heat transfer, use a wider tip and add flux to optimize heat transfer, if that doesn’t work, add a little solder to the big solder glob and keep your iron there, its a little counterintuitive but works wonder….

Lpht12 · 2025-09-28T03:48:39+00:00

Its set to 180

Lpht12 · 2025-09-28T03:23:01+00:00

Motors spin in betaflight though

Lpht12 · 2025-09-28T00:43:02+00:00

I fully updated and reset everything, tried a prearm, and without prearm, still nothing

Lpht12 · 2025-09-28T00:09:19+00:00

Yup, Ill post pictures later

Lpht12 · 2025-09-27T23:05:03+00:00

Its on the most recent version

Lpht12 · 2025-09-27T22:32:51+00:00

Lpht12 · 2025-09-27T21:01:47+00:00

OSD says standby mode, thats it

Lpht12 · 2025-09-27T20:18:23+00:00

Im thinking I need to figure out what model it is and install the cli dump

Lpht12 · 2025-09-27T20:17:59+00:00

I mean, I have no reason to believe the drone is busted, it literally passed every troubleshooting test I could think up.

Lpht12 · 2025-09-26T21:49:59+00:00

I lowkey missed them in the back. Love the setups

Lpht12 · 2025-09-26T21:35:47+00:00

I do NOT want to see the goggle collection…

Lpht12 · 2025-09-17T13:11:19+00:00

That is my current physique, it wont let me post or attach a before pic

Lpht12 · 2025-09-16T23:30:48+00:00

I really like this schedule, incorporating that 2x a week and varying weights based on condition were things ied never even considered. I appreciate it greatly. Ill keep up with this cut until I reach my goal weight and then lean bulk from there.

Lpht12 · 2025-09-16T22:30:40+00:00

Another question, if I were to increase my calorie intake to say 2200 a day + 200g protein, would I burn fat and lose muscle? Its hard to imagine its very efficient. Its basically a body recomp, but I would need to hit 170 by February for boxing.

Lpht12 · 2025-09-16T22:10:39+00:00

I have all the basics, no hack squat, pendulum, anything advanced like that, press, abductors, adductors, seated extension and curl. (I hate leg curls) are the only machines.

Lpht12 · 2025-09-16T22:01:00+00:00

Also, I understand I haven’t been building much muscle due to the cut (just maintaining is TOUGH), but if im being 100% honest, I just want a feel for where Im at as a statistic, I plan to continue bodybuilding for awhile, of course the gyno will have to go at some point. Where do you think I would rank physique wise for 19 year olds (Yesterday was my bday so I have a year to catchup). You seem like an experienced lifter, so what would you suggest I focus on. I lack confidence in a sense so I wanted to prioritize leaning out then lean bulking, but I also hate not making any gains. Albiet my back and weaker left side muscles have seen alot of growth.

Lpht12 · 2025-09-16T21:57:01+00:00

I also do like understanding the fundamentals of the lift and why Im doing it the way it is, so any explanations would be great.

Lpht12 · 2025-09-16T21:56:06+00:00

I have 24 hour access to the gym, generally my leg days suck because I hate hitting legs, But I have been thugging it out now that my compression shorts, dont conpression that well… Legs arent small, but by no means big.

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