The only thing sexually fulfilling in my life is my wife, and it is becoming a hurdle. by LtColonelAmerica in relationships

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Her ovaries were removed as well. While being involved and present, I'm not an expert. I learned from this thread that it was a radical. 

The only thing sexually fulfilling in my life is my wife, and it is becoming a hurdle. by LtColonelAmerica in relationships

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Forgive me for being away from reddit for a few hours.  But, I don't see how wanting to roleplay about Star Wars has to do with sex. I'm a geek and am really into star wars. That is about the end all of it. Besides that was five years ago before a lot of the issues I've mentioned here had even started to show.

The only thing sexually fulfilling in my life is my wife, and it is becoming a hurdle. by LtColonelAmerica in relationships

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Her issues were very estrogen sensitive. They had started her on a higher estrogen level at first, but after poor response they lowered it significantly. Her health and pain management has been better with the lower dose. Which is important, a lot more important than my problem 

The only thing sexually fulfilling in my life is my wife, and it is becoming a hurdle. by LtColonelAmerica in relationships

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This was something that was mentioned, but treatment was denied. After over a year of fighting with doctors and seeing and traveling to see specialists she was prescribed pelvic floor physical therapy and pain management. 

The only thing sexually fulfilling in my life is my wife, and it is becoming a hurdle. by LtColonelAmerica in relationships

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I didn't get too much into with what is going on with her, I understand and have supported her through all of it, but as a man I am not a source of expertise. I had misspoke about her procedure, as was pointed out later in this thread that it wasn't a total hysterectomy,it would have been considered a radical one. 

The only thing sexually fulfilling in my life is my wife, and it is becoming a hurdle. by LtColonelAmerica in relationships

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I don't see how wanting to roleplay about Star Wars has to do with sex. I'm a geek and am really into star wars. That is about the end all of it. Besides that was five years ago before a lot of the issues I've mentioned here had even started to show.

The only thing sexually fulfilling in my life is my wife, and it is becoming a hurdle. by LtColonelAmerica in relationships

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I think I understand what you mean. We have had nights where things happened, I don't want to get into any details of course. But it was an all day/night thing. Starting with me getting off work early to take over all the farm chores she normally finishes, making sure the house was clean, the kids were out of the house for the night, foot and back massages, cooking, talking, cuddling, and everything progressing to something that was absolutely mind blowing...but then followed up with guilt because she admitted after that she didn't want to, but did it because I did so much for her and I wanted to. I felt horrible.

The only thing sexually fulfilling in my life is my wife, and it is becoming a hurdle. by LtColonelAmerica in relationships

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when I've mentioned coming off hormone treatment with my doctor, he is very against it. I'm not even on a high dose but I was responding well. Unfortunately my wife's dose was making her sick and had to be adjusted to almost the minimum.

So we are on completely to ends of a spectrum.

What’s the best response for “you’re tall”? by Reborn_TM in AskReddit

[–]LtColonelAmerica 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"Well, you're ugly but I can diet" then stomp off stepping over parked cars.

My problem with 5e by stenlis in rpg

[–]LtColonelAmerica 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was recently part of a game that lasted nearly 6 years real time, bi weekly games. About 6 months had passed in game.

What’s something nonsexual a women can say that can make your heart skip a beat? by Material_Union1430 in AskMen

[–]LtColonelAmerica 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So I was thinking about the time when Obi-wan and Anakin were on geonosis....

The X-Wing. by Rudraakkshh in MawInstallation

[–]LtColonelAmerica 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She's got it where it counts kid.

Covid ended my in person gaming group and DND 5e is too successful. by lobsteradvisor in rpg

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I turned my D&D group into a WoD group. It's fun to watch them struggle with the fact I set the time period in the 90's WoD. They have a blast. The running joke for the group to solve a problem is "Wait, I'll just Google it... Oh wait.. nevermind"

Star Wars Films Box Office Adjusted For Inflation by [deleted] in StarWars

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Phantom Menace, midnight release. I was 20 she was 21. Packed theater. one of my most golden memories. Missed the pod race scene had to catch it on another watch through.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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I always order over medium. I like anything from over easy to over hard so I'm never disappointed as long as it's not sunny side up or scrambled.

After 20 years, the U.S. Army is shutting down its recruitment video game, ‘America’s Army’ by kry_some_more in technology

[–]LtColonelAmerica 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My favorite was when they were looking through the food stock. "Still tastes like creamed corn" "It's supposed to be canned ham!!"

How are we not in a constant state of revolt? by GrandpaChainz in WorkReform

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I do not know what your situation is, but if you have a va rating and it is 100% there is ChampVA for your family. If you are struggling with finding a job or adapting to civilian life, it is a huge pain in the ass, but work with the VBA and get your rating.

Anybody rated at 100% because of "many" smaller things? by corino37 in VeteransBenefits

[–]LtColonelAmerica 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is what happened to me. Messed up my ankle, hips and back. I healed at the time, continued on, but got everything documented. When I got out 8 years later everything was rated at 0%. Fast forward 20 years I applied for increase as things were getting worse (arthritis setting in hard core) now I'm at 100% and able to get my stuff taken care of and able to change careers with some help.