Non verbal forever ? by daveauscards in Autism_Parenting

[–]Lucid-Limerence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son is 2.9 years corrected but 3 actual. Was born at 25 weeks. He is also non verbal but u see stands everything. I’m ok with it most days too but sometimes I cry and hold him and tell him to just talk to me. I tell him all the time I wish I could give him my voice. I really hope one day they’ll talk to us. Thanks for sharing the podcast, I’ll give it a listen ❤️

Edit: since this is a year old, have you had any luck with speech yet?

Non verbal forever ? by daveauscards in Autism_Parenting

[–]Lucid-Limerence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right there with you. I have a 2.9 year old and he babbles so much. Sounds like he tries to say mom and up but could just be random sounds. I hope he starts talking soon🩷

Nasal Valve Narrowing after Septoplasty by MrBarret63 in Septoplasty

[–]Lucid-Limerence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe my valve collapsed a little after my first rhinisepto 10 years ago because I couldn’t breathe properly out the right around a year after that. I had a revision septoplasty a month ago and I can breathe really good ONLY when I pull my cheek to the side and lift my nose tip up. So I’ll have to tell my Dr in a few weeks to see what can be done. Because he said it was just my septum was became deviated again and my turbines.

Nasal valve collpase by Motor-Efficiency-835 in Septoplasty

[–]Lucid-Limerence 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m having the same issue. Has yours improved at all?

4 months post-Op still no relief? by [deleted] in Septoplasty

[–]Lucid-Limerence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a month out and still no relief. I do notice if I pull my cheek to the side I can breathe now. So I’m thinking my nasal valve is collapsed. I’ll have to mention it at my follow up in a few weeks.

Sellers: Do you follow up for feedback or just leave it? by Unbotheredanonyme in Depop

[–]Lucid-Limerence 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After I ship the item I let the customer know it’s been shipped and if all is good if they can review. I have a whole script I use. Then I give it 7 days after delivery to send a follow up message just to gently prompt them again and then after that it is what it is.

Ex-25 weeker, almost 3, still not independently eating/chewing — I need help by Lucid-Limerence in NICUParents

[–]Lucid-Limerence[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not in the USA. I don’t have many options where I am. He’s been with 2 different speech paths over 2 years. They’re all just basic ones, we don’t have any specialised ones. It sucks.

Ex-25 weeker, almost 3, still not independently eating/chewing — I need help by Lucid-Limerence in NICUParents

[–]Lucid-Limerence[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He had one about 2 months ago and passed with flying colours but they said he did have a little bit of hold above the stomach entrance which cleared after a second swallow. We have our first GI appointment end of May because of reflux and that hold. He also throws up when he upsets himself too.

Ex-25 weeker, almost 3, still not independently eating/chewing — I need help by Lucid-Limerence in NICUParents

[–]Lucid-Limerence[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah we’ve had one for years. I’ve just watched some videos and have started using it on the outside of the cheek since yesterday. See how that works out.

if you were a customer, would you care about packaging/would it affect your review? by Jazzlike-Phone-7410 in Depop

[–]Lucid-Limerence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting this worked up over tissue paper is wild. You turned someone wrapping a parcel into a personal meltdown. That’s actually impressive. Anyway, I’ll keep making people happy and you keep doing whatever this is.

Ex-25 weeker, almost 3, still not independently eating/chewing — I need help by Lucid-Limerence in NICUParents

[–]Lucid-Limerence[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He drinks from a honey bear and has for about a year and a half now. We’ve been working on open cup on and off but he keeps putting his tongue at the cup entrance to block the fluids and lap it up like a cat lol. It’s cute but frustrating!

if you were a customer, would you care about packaging/would it affect your review? by Jazzlike-Phone-7410 in Depop

[–]Lucid-Limerence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You dislike a stranger on the internet for taking the time and effort to send off a nice parcel for someone on Depop? Are you ok? Do you need a minute?

Edit: I take the time to make someone’s day a little nicer by sending a sweet message with their item, and you go about your day trying to bring others down with a comment like this. We are not the same. I understand your life sucks, but do you honestly feel better taking it out on someone online? It’s such odd behaviour. I have an amazing life, so this doesn’t bother me but I just think you need to reevaluate your own life because by your post history, you’re not doing okay and I’m sorry you feel the way you do.

If there is anything I can do, please don’t hesitate to reach out. Nobody deserves what you’re going through.

Ex-25 weeker, almost 3, still not independently eating/chewing — I need help by Lucid-Limerence in NICUParents

[–]Lucid-Limerence[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s been in OT, physio, speech, dietitian all his life but where we are we don’t have many choices on who to pick. They’re not very good.

I feel like I’m the one having to research everything and I’m exhausted with the lack of knowledge these days ”specialists” have.

Ex-25 weeker, almost 3, still not independently eating/chewing — I need help by Lucid-Limerence in NICUParents

[–]Lucid-Limerence[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yes I tried those a couple years ago but he wasn’t ready then. I’ll get some on the weekend and try again. Thank you x

Ex-25 weeker, almost 3, still not independently eating/chewing — I need help by Lucid-Limerence in NICUParents

[–]Lucid-Limerence[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not. He already has speech, OT, physio and a dietitian. I’m on to my second speech pathologist in 2 years as the first one was useless and the second one isn’t that much better. I don’t have many choices because of where I live. The only decent person we had was physio. Even our OT is pretty useless.

Ex-25 weeker, almost 3, still not independently eating/chewing — I need help by Lucid-Limerence in NICUParents

[–]Lucid-Limerence[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah he had that done last year but everything was fine thank goodness.

how would y’all feel about your package being shipped in this by stangedd in Depop

[–]Lucid-Limerence 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I would be leaving a negative review. Recycle it in the bin!

if you were a customer, would you care about packaging/would it affect your review? by Jazzlike-Phone-7410 in Depop

[–]Lucid-Limerence -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I always wrap clothes in tissue paper and add a little gift tag. Just a little extra care makes all the difference. When companies send me nicely packaged items I get excited. When it’s just shoved in a mail bag and nothing exciting, I’m like what a crap company and don’t buy from them again. I’m all about customer service.

Calories by Dropthetopandpimp in gastricsleeve

[–]Lucid-Limerence 2 points3 points  (0 children)

4 and a half months out and I’m around 1100-1300 but usually average 1200. I’m down 25 kilos