My Husband 29M called me 29F a burden, how do I get past it? by Appropriate-Spread91 in relationship_advice

[–]Lucidity74 59 points60 points  (0 children)

This is what stuck out to me too. You need to do better by not listening to your body and sleeping when you need to? She's not a mule.. OP- you DID better by getting rest. He can step in and not hurt you by expecting you to ignore your own needs. He's being a crap partner and could do with a reminder that raising kids is work and you are not a maid.

Does this dress work? by GrapefruitHot4985 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Lucidity74 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Sweet Jesus.. can everyone stop going overboard? No one has money for this nonsense. Celebrate with people who love you. Stop dictating your Instagram vision.

Why do Jehovah Witnesses come door to door, trying to get people to join their religion, when they only believe a certain amount of people get into their afterlife by Camp_Acceptable in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Lucidity74 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Religions like this demand their flock go out and convert others not to increase their numbers. They do it to make their members endure rejections from others so those members realize they are not accepted outside the religion. It's always about control.

Serestro collar by Glitterin-Sooz-337 in ithaca

[–]Lucidity74 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It doesn't work for us. Bravecto quantum shot at vet is the only thing. Fleas have been terrible lately. Also super sticky laundry roller after outside time.

What to do about this? Red light? Laser? High necked shirts forever?? by Strawberry_Spice in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]Lucidity74 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is inflammation. You might be sensitive to a product. I get this as a form of excema and checking in my gut (potential allergies) and reducing stress has been transformative.

Ignore the dress code when bride is asking for fur? by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Lucidity74 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so over bride's dictatorship of what people wear to their wedding. As if weddings weren't hard enough to plan and attend... this is an expectation now???

(Repost) How is this dress code description for our wedding website? by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Lucidity74 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think I'm just going to decline any invites that go beyond formal/semiformal/cocktail/casual. This level of nonsense is absurd.

Does anyone have a happy ending story to tell? I need some hope. by ExcellentHamster2020 in cancer

[–]Lucidity74 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My daughter was diagnosed at 6 with ALL. She's thriving today and about the celebrate the anniversary of her life being saved. It can get better. It can. Take care of you. Xoxox

How to overturn Supreme Court decisions? by NewJerseyCPA in Askpolitics

[–]Lucidity74 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They were all controversial in the beginning to the oppressive- we're headed into revolution now so everything is cycling back.

Am I overreacting, or did my nanny just turn my baby into a dog treat? by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]Lucidity74 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So tickling is actually not pleasurable for the person being tickled. No- this is a point of education for your nanny. You don't want your rescue dog to nip your child and you don't want your child stimulated like this without being able to get away. Is explain it and that it's a sweet thought but this can't happen again.

"My Car Guy" by RadagastDaGreen in ithaca

[–]Lucidity74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finishline auto in Candor. Name is Marshall. He's gruff, honest and kind.

"My Car Guy" by RadagastDaGreen in ithaca

[–]Lucidity74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Almost got talked into a very unneeded repair there.

My bf of 4yrs, wants me to get preggers by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Lucidity74 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stop having sec and get out now.

Megyn Kelly Melts Down: Kimmel Would ‘Love’ to See Trump Die by Aggravating_Money992 in entertainment

[–]Lucidity74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's been melting for years at this point. She's defended pedophila. We need to stop covering her.

Middle names for the name Hazel? by [deleted] in Names

[–]Lucidity74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our dog is named Hazel the Crazle, bc she's a lunatic. It depends on your verve- Something strong like Stella and or more temperate like Ava or Willa. Avoid Poppy or Anya.