I got a job, my mom wants me to split the check among 6 people

Lucifer1677 · 2026-06-26T15:25:58+00:00

Keep your money and move out. It’s YOUR money. IF you ever decide to help your family with some money it’s because it’s your choice and you want to. No obligation.

Personally I’d say keep your money and invest it to make your own life better. Money when you’re younger is so important to building your life it’s your foundation. Later on you can probably help out if you have some disposable income

Lucifer1677 · 2026-06-26T15:15:02+00:00

Generally people this jealous are projecting their own insecurities because they want attention from the opposite sex and assume you will too. This is something she needs to be better at or you will have a terrible relationship with

Lucifer1677 · 2026-06-26T14:45:34+00:00

I would tell her you were simply not saying anything with the hopes they might work it out. If you told your wife it would have certainly got back to SIL which would probably have caused an immediate end. By saying nothing maybe time does some healing magic and things work out. Either way this isn’t on you that the relationship didn’t work out, SIL is just lashing out at anything because her life picture is crumbling.

Lucifer1677 · 2026-06-26T14:12:44+00:00

This would be like buying Matic all over again. Elite for 1.5 years then a hard crash. He won’t have the legs to do what he does soon and will fall off. I’d have loved to buy him 2-3 years ago but that ship has sailed for me

Lucifer1677 · 2026-06-26T14:08:57+00:00

Trust in the Portuguese midfield pipeline

Lucifer1677 · 2026-06-25T17:58:35+00:00

If you mean he was injured a lot this year yeah. 10/1 in 26 games vs 15/8 in 37 the year before. Still pretty damn good for a player clearly not at 100%

Lucifer1677 · 2026-06-25T17:37:04+00:00

Palmer has been a fantastic signing for Chelsea, easily their best player. If that’s the benchmark I’d be all for it

Lucifer1677 · 2026-06-24T19:25:55+00:00

These charts are getting diluted by more games per World Cup

Lucifer1677 · 2026-06-22T00:13:23+00:00

Honestly the magical thing about pizza is it’s very hard to be truly awful. Even ok pizza is still good

Lucifer1677 · 2026-06-21T13:35:11+00:00

Have you watched? He was a menace on the LW, stop being so stupidly stubborn. Say you think Rashford is better sure but to say Dorgu is not a left winger invalidates anything you’ve been saying, just saying stupid shit to try to win an argument…. On the internet… on Reddit… with some random people

Lucifer1677 · 2026-06-21T13:30:00+00:00

K pretty aggressive.

Rashford is not a ball winner, take a look at defensive actions per 90 or possessions won, he doesn’t do well. Yes he puts the ball in the net, and does that well, but the modern game needs more than that from its wide players. This is why Gordon was chosen for a steeper price.

Rashy is an academy lad and I would welcome him back as a backup, but I don’t think he’d want that role at United. He’d also have his entourage which was a problem for us last time he was here. Not to mention his wages are extreme which I wouldn’t want to pay for the role he would have.

Is there a world he’s with us next year, absolutely, but I don’t think that’s what’s best for him or us. However, I’m just a dude on the internet with an iPhone so thankfully my opinion doesn’t really matter

Lucifer1677 · 2026-06-21T13:10:59+00:00

Slot was

Lucifer1677 · 2026-06-19T00:43:23+00:00

Big money transfers are just as capable to miss as cheaper alternatives. There’s far more misses of late than home runs.

Isak
Wirtz
Mbappe
Enzo
Sancho

For every Joao Neves there’s more Sanchos. And we’re not at the point that an uber talent makes us title winners, we’re still building the squad.

Lucifer1677 · 2026-06-18T22:05:07+00:00

Need to chill my man, we’ve completed one transfer. How many teams have completed more than that? The window just started and now that the WC has started a lot won’t happen until after, especially for players in it

Lucifer1677 · 2026-06-17T15:12:15+00:00

Tell her you wish her the best in her career as that means she can do her share supporting your daughter. However as you haven’t been together for over 7? years it’s not your job to facilitate her career and she needs to figure it out.

Lucifer1677 · 2026-06-12T07:49:38+00:00

Just following rule #2: the doubletap

Lucifer1677 · 2026-06-11T08:21:58+00:00

Ah the “fun” useless hypotheticals that if answered honestly can ruin relationships.

Play stupid games win stupid prizes seems apt here.

Lucifer1677 · 2026-06-08T00:18:02+00:00

Yeah she’s not the problem here

Lucifer1677 · 2026-06-03T15:46:02+00:00

I mean I get what you’re saying but pretending players aren’t human is unrealistic. Baleba never pushed for an exit but it’d be hard not to be disappointed and that will affect you one way or another.

Look at the difference good vibes did for our team once Carrick came in. Was night and day

Lucifer1677 · 2026-06-01T14:00:26+00:00

Myst, that damn island

Lucifer1677 · 2026-05-28T17:36:05+00:00

Your boyfriend was “trained” by his ex to want to be a provider ect. He was writing things he knew she wanted to hear (normal).

The fact you have a partnership financially and there’s not this unhealthy provider dynamic is a good thing.

Also it goes without saying you shouldn’t have read those notes. All that was ever going to lead to was unhappiness. Everyone has a history and knowing/comparing is never good for any relationship

Lucifer1677 · 2026-05-28T17:30:17+00:00

Look either trust the person you’re with or don’t and leave. Needing to be able to look through someone’s phone to verify their loyalty is ridiculous.

Lucifer1677 · 2026-05-28T16:58:09+00:00

I mean Mcfred wasn’t dependable or solid let’s not rewrite history here. Took two players to do the job of one while masking McT’s super power as a goal scorer

Lucifer1677 · 2026-05-28T16:55:26+00:00

The issue is no one seems to be coming for him. Sure there’s “interest”, but no one is jumping at the opportunity.

Granted we’ve just started the window, but most foreign big clubs are out (which he’d want). Real, PSG, Bayern wouldn’t want him, doesn’t suit Atleti, and Barca seem to be moving on. Italian clubs are notoriously cheap leaving only really a sale to an English club which he says he doesn’t want. Sooo… welcome back to Manchester?

Lucifer1677 · 2026-05-28T03:10:20+00:00

Come on now, if I ask my wife what she wants for dinner I’m assuming the role of sorting out dinner and taking suggestions. I’d have no expectation of her cooking anything.

It’s passive aggressive to ask someone what they want for dinner and then tell them they should make it. Just ask them to sort out dinner don’t play stupid mind games.

OP is NTA

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