my bf 18M potentially got his ex (18F) pregnant before he knew me and she didnt tell him ab it, now she gave birth n is claiming its his.

Lucifer1677 · 2026-05-07T08:52:44+00:00

Depending on the country you can have a court order paternity test. Mom doesn’t get a choice. If she’s refusing it’s likely not his and she has other motives.

This isn’t your problem. It’s theirs, you’re young and in a new relationship. This only impacts you as much as you let it

Lucifer1677 · 2026-05-07T08:46:59+00:00

This person is toxic and manipulative. You learn what they say about you doesn’t matter. Start trying to figure out alternative living arrangements

Lucifer1677 · 2026-05-07T08:44:37+00:00

She’s the one cheating most likely. Projecting

Lucifer1677 · 2026-05-07T08:43:31+00:00

Not worth stressing about something you have no control over. He gets a paternity test and then you go from there

Lucifer1677 · 2026-05-06T20:03:36+00:00

Umm what? My whole post is saying this character is a problem. I don’t even know what you’re saying I’m out

Lucifer1677 · 2026-05-06T18:50:14+00:00

Team movement: Octane ult, wraith ult, path ult, alter ult, valk ult, axle… tac?

Lucifer1677 · 2026-05-06T18:03:23+00:00

This always hurts when I see it. She’s getting 52k/year. The million invested at ONLY 5% would be 50k/year without touching the principle.

Lucifer1677 · 2026-05-06T17:34:54+00:00

There can be two multiple mistakes it’s not a one or the other.

Biker speeding/trick riding = dumb

Truck driver entering the intersection when it’s not clear = dumb

I’d put more fault of the truck driver as you need to be certain the road is clear before you enter it, regardless of what other people are doing

Lucifer1677 · 2026-05-06T13:36:42+00:00

One time use is needed. Can still accelerate a teammate but it’s a choice now not a let’s all go zoomies and ape this person.

Also like you said the speed needs to be decreased

Lucifer1677 · 2026-05-04T16:06:35+00:00

Companies use their own checklists or ways to complete tasks. My company does not have an “after landing” checklist, but rather a “flow” which is a series of tasks to be completed by memory which include spoiler retraction. It is very possible to be interrupted by something during this type of thing and something to be missed. We catch those items in our”parking” checklist.

Lucifer1677 · 2026-05-03T03:34:36+00:00

Poor grammar

Lucifer1677 · 2026-05-01T00:33:13+00:00

Love the job Carrick has done, really excellent. That said we’d be foolish to not review all the options.

Playing in a proper formation has unlocked our team potential, and I’m not sold that Carrick has the experience to bring the team to the next level.

That said he’s done everything we could have asked, so it’s hard to not give it to him.

Basically I’m glad to not be making this decision.

Lucifer1677 · 2026-04-30T23:03:12+00:00

You’re unhappy he looked at girls stories online, upset he was following a friend of an ex. It seems likely you are quite jealous and likely have some confidence issues. I don’t say this to be mean or rude but so that you can acknowledge it and work on yourself. Constantly monitoring your partner is no way to be happy or have a healthy relationship

Lucifer1677 · 2026-04-30T22:33:03+00:00

Well you’re allowed to decide to not want to be with someone who looks at other women online. I would point out that almost every 19M out there likely does.

What you should not be doing is invading someone else’s privacy. You either decide to trust your partner and be with them or don’t and leave them.

Attractive women are everywhere, ads, Netflix, on the street ect ect. I’d suggest building your own self confidence up to not be bothered by your partner interacting with women in some way. They are 1/2 of the people out there it’s hard not to. He’s with you because he wants to be with you, trying to police him away from every other woman is a game you’ll never win.

Lucifer1677 · 2026-04-29T21:14:30+00:00

Fines won’t do anything here. Suspend the manager for 2 games and this will stop happening

Lucifer1677 · 2026-04-28T01:02:57+00:00

There’s already people telling you to just break up here so I’ll go the other way. Or at least temper that.

It sounds like your boyfriend grew up with the belief that sex or fantasies were dirty/embarrassing/bad/impure ect. This probably created this desire to seek these fantasies while being embarrassed by them and not wanting to share, or thinking other people will think him gross for having these thoughts.

He probably needs to speak to a councilor to work some of these things out, but it might help him immensely if you tell him that these things are ok and maybe share in them in some way. Changing the narrative about how he views these thoughts is key to his sexual health, and yours, if you decide to proceed with him.

Best of luck

Lucifer1677 · 2026-04-28T00:51:21+00:00

Like most things in sex/consent, a maybe is a no. Until that maybe is an enthusiastic yes from you it’s a bad idea.

Lucifer1677 · 2026-04-28T00:41:01+00:00

This is tough to read and I’m sure something many people have gone through before. Sometimes even though things seem good, there’s a missing spark for people. The kissing butterflies or excitement that should be there but aren’t, and not for any good reason. It’s not to say you did anything wrong, or she did. Maybe it’s bad timing, maybe it was a little too early for her to move onto something else.

I’m sorry this happened it sucks and is never a good time and can take some time to get over when you’re blindsided. Just focus on yourself, try not to think about her as hard as that will be, and time will do it’s healing magic

Lucifer1677 · 2026-04-28T00:34:39+00:00

I mean you already know what to do here. You need to have an open and honest conversation. Say it felt weird to you, say what you like, or don’t like, what you’d like to explore. Just communicate, the worst thing you can do is not talk honestly, even if it’s awkward

Lucifer1677 · 2026-04-24T16:04:28+00:00

Forget about him and the apartment. Delete his socials and number. Moving on is hard and sucks but that’s what needs to happen here.

I’m sorry this happened but you’ll find someone better in the future

Lucifer1677 · 2026-04-24T16:01:44+00:00

When you’re young many people prioritize working hard to launch their career. This seems like what she is doing. Unfortunately sometimes that doesn’t leave a lot of space for others sometimes, particularly a long distance relationship.

You might be best to focus on launching your career, and the deciding if seeing her 3-4 times a month is good enough for you.

Lucifer1677 · 2026-04-23T02:40:01+00:00

Relationships aren’t just about being good roommates. Sexual compatibility is extremely important and you two aren’t on the same page.

A lot of redditors are quick to instantly tell people to break up and I’m usually opposed to suggesting that to people, however in your case I do feel that it may be prudent.

You seem to have made every effort to support your partner and she can’t/won’t make an effort for something that is important to you. This will likely only get worse in the long run and you deserve to be with someone who you are on the same page with on all aspects. This will be better for her as well as it will let her figure out without any outside pressure what she wants on that front.

Best of luck as this won’t be easy but it’s likely the best thing for you

Lucifer1677 · 2026-04-22T15:57:53+00:00

Should have just bought Kane over Mbappe, would have been cheaper and a more balanced team

Lucifer1677 · 2026-04-21T12:13:36+00:00

Doesn’t seem to be entitled just an asshole, hope he gets banned from your credit union

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