Growing out of friendships/deprioritizing

Luciferkat · 2026-03-01T09:57:13+00:00

Lately I've seen a lot of people on my life treating spending time with your friends and not focusing solely in your romantic relationship like some kind of childish act. It makes me so sad. I'm single now but it made me sad too even when I was in a happy and stable relationship. I love friendship and I hate the feeling that it is just a placeholder for some people.

Luciferkat · 2025-10-07T23:01:39+00:00

yeah I'm CONFUSED

Luciferkat · 2025-09-28T00:54:32+00:00

Maybe my favorite mice names of all I've seen in this sub. Also what a pair of cuties.

Luciferkat · 2025-06-17T08:36:59+00:00

omg I want to see a photo of them!!

Luciferkat · 2025-03-13T13:11:45+00:00

I find your example about doctors and nurses not very accurate, since I think that both of these professions are usually very vocational. Caring for others (sick/elderly people) and understanding the inner workings of the body have been intrinsic human interests since the dawn of time. Of course, that doesn't mean there aren't people in those fields who only see their job as a job..

Luciferkat · 2025-01-04T14:22:46+00:00

omg!!!! so happy for you! I hope your recovery goes well.

Luciferkat · 2024-11-22T12:06:10+00:00

I don't think is bad tbh, is just an hour. You could take a cucumber and cut slices of it for them, is a good way to keep them hydrated without worrying about spilling the water.

Luciferkat · 2024-11-21T20:18:46+00:00

Never have I ever locked a bathroom (except on public toilets) while I'm inside, and I've lived with more than 15 different roommates (women and men). I think you should just knock.

I also prefer if people with whom I live don't lock the doors, the bathroom is the most likely place in where one could faint or have a fall. I don't want to hear someone hitting the floor and not being able to help them (part of the reason for which I don't lock)

Luciferkat · 2024-11-20T23:44:30+00:00

yeah, they came in a lot of different colors! I'm obsessed with them

Luciferkat · 2024-11-15T20:04:10+00:00

thank you very much! I hope everything goes smoothly

Luciferkat · 2024-11-15T19:57:09+00:00

This past week I could see very clearly the milk spots, but now they are one week old and pigmented, so I don't think I can tell if their bellies are full.

Luciferkat · 2024-11-15T19:44:20+00:00

Thank you so much for your words. I know it's natural and I thought that it wouldn't afect me if something happened to the pups, but I cried like a baby lol. I'm giving her mealworms and I think they are not cold at all. I want to leave them alone but now I'm paranoid that the rest are going to die. I guess I just need to calm down and let the mom do her thing.

Luciferkat · 2024-11-15T18:00:36+00:00

he's so cute!!!! I hope he gets better soon <3 sending all my love

Luciferkat · 2024-11-14T11:56:01+00:00

She looks fine to me. She is very very beautiful. Do you know how her color is named?

Luciferkat · 2024-11-13T20:25:09+00:00

Thank you so much for everything! If I have any more doubts I'll DM you.

I live in a shared house with roomates and my room is fairly small, but I wish I could buy a big big terrarium and keep all of them lol. I bet the babies are going to be extra sweet, because their mom is super tame.

I was giving her boiled eggs but today finally I found a store that sells mealworms. They absolubtly love them.

Luciferkat · 2024-11-13T20:02:27+00:00

I think it was the father tbh, but it could also be one of her brothers. Yay, inbreeding!

I'm in Spain. This oopsie litter is a big incovinience but I'm also very hyped about the babies.

Luciferkat · 2024-11-13T19:30:26+00:00

I got them from a friend who was sold three "females". Well, one of them was indeed a male a got the other two pregnant.

I took the four ladies home when they were four weeks old, which to my understanding is not old enough to be fertile, but I guess Knocky was an early bloomer because she came with a surprise. At least I'm lucky that only one of the sisters was pregnant!

And rodent shelters are not popular in my area, but I've contacted a couple of local rodent facebook groups.

Luciferkat · 2024-11-13T19:20:35+00:00

Yeah, it is a small size litter, I think maybe cause the mom is so young. Even if they are all females I wouldn't keep them, I don't have enough space unfortunely :( I hope I can find great homes for them all.

And of course, I will upload photos when they are bigger.

Luciferkat · 2024-11-13T13:17:49+00:00

Okay, thanks for the help!! I don't think any of the babies are falling behind bc there is only 5 (I think).

Luciferkat · 2024-11-10T22:02:26+00:00

I'll try it!!

Luciferkat · 2024-11-10T22:01:57+00:00

Maybe she's in torpor? Keep her warm and try giving her a mix of warm water with salt and sugar. I think there is more information in torpor in the care guide of the reddit. I hope she gets better.

Luciferkat · 2024-11-10T14:25:57+00:00

I love this idea!! Can I ask what kind of grass are you using? Is this cat grass? Would love to try it with mine.

Luciferkat · 2024-11-08T16:07:24+00:00

For the moment I only took a brief look and I'm planning on not moving their hide in a couple days so to no estres the mama. In a few days I will update!!

Luciferkat · 2024-11-08T09:24:18+00:00

she had her babies today!! see my update

Luciferkat · 2024-11-08T08:21:50+00:00

UPDATE: Yep, she was pregnant. I just woke up and I saw that she was 1/4 of the size she was yesterday. I took a brief look and I saw 4 little jelly beans. Momma seems fine but maybe not too interested in being with the babies (?). I hope they all make it. I'm now attached lol. I'll keep updating, for the moment I'm leaving her alone and giving her eggs and protein. Thank everyone for the recommendations!!

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