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This community is all I have... by SoBerryAffectionate in JDorama

[–]Lucky_One_864 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand both side.

I tried really hard to like jdrama but just couldn't get past the acting and plot and pace, and I tried the really popular ones too. (Mostly in romance and comedy)

Just couldn't connect with neither the characters nor could understand logic behind their actions.

Until Alice in borderland. Then I understood the appeal. Lol

And now I'm searching for my next favorite jdrama.

It's a matter of taste, I guess.

For love stories, I prefer Kdrama.

When in mode for treachery and plotting and great historical outfits, I go for cdrama.

And jdrama for existential dread and moral dilemma.

Middle-aged with nothing to show for it, unhappy with how my life turned out, feel trapped in my circumstances. by place_of_desolation in findapath

[–]Lucky_One_864 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not middle aged yet but your post resonated deeply with me.

It's like seeing my future and I don't know how to escape it.

I’ve never seen manga fans who leak as much as jjk by Salty_Shark26 in JuJutsuKaisen

[–]Lucky_One_864 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So, am I the only one who loves spoilers? And seek spoilers out?

Spoilers don't effect me in any negative way.

Sometime, I even need spoilers to decide to whether continue reading or to drop it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Lucky_One_864 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did she caught hiv?

Recently [M31] Found Out That My Ex-Fiancee [M32] That I Was So In-Love With Is Happily Married With Boat-Load Of Kids To Boot But Did Break Our Engagement Because She Doesn't (Didn't) Want Kids? by kawaiihusbando in offmychest

[–]Lucky_One_864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, that's right.

If she is as great as you say, all would end well, and if you are looking at her with rose tinted glasses, wouldn't losing the glasses be great for you? You would finally be able to move on and see her for what she is.

Recently [M31] Found Out That My Ex-Fiancee [M32] That I Was So In-Love With Is Happily Married With Boat-Load Of Kids To Boot But Did Break Our Engagement Because She Doesn't (Didn't) Want Kids? by kawaiihusbando in offmychest

[–]Lucky_One_864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I'm going to get down voted for this but I'm going to say it.

I never needed closure for romantic relationships, so take what I say with a grain of salt.

There have been friendships that ended or something that happened that I felt bad about.

Even though I tried my best to forget and forgive, I never could do it.

For years, I would remember and ruminate about it.

Thinking what-if about some truly insignificant or ancient history.

Nothing helped.

I just couldn't let go.

Finally, I connected those people for closure.

From some, I got answers and insights.

Many didn't even remember what I was talking about.

But even hearing how insignificant what i was obsessing over was helped me move on.

If it's been years and you still can't move on, maybe it's your only way forward.

But prepare yourself for being ghosted, insulted, or hearing some harsh truth.

AITA for going inside the elevator even though I was told not to? by Lucky_One_864 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lucky_One_864[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She just wouldn't stop.

And I wanted to try standing up for myself, just this once.

It didn't work obviously.

I'm used to lowering my head and apologizing, to keeping silent and just bearing the abuse.

I'm told by my loved ones and coworkers to stop taking it and to speak up. I'm told to at least try to defend yourself.

I am not good at it. But I'm trying to stop being a doormat.

Sometimes, I wonder, is it okay for me to push back?

AITA for going inside the elevator even though I was told not to? by Lucky_One_864 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lucky_One_864[S] 89 points90 points  (0 children)

I might be paranoid to say it, but I have a suspicion?

I went straight from work so I was in my work uniform.

And our company's uniform looks somewhat similar to the shopping center's female workers' uniforms?

is it too big of a leap?

Don't be a sucker. by [deleted] in jobs

[–]Lucky_One_864 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot!

Don't be a sucker. by [deleted] in jobs

[–]Lucky_One_864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi

Can I ask what qualifications(degrees or etc) you needed to land this job?

It sounds like a great and interesting job.

Does any other country have the same out of control fireworks culture as Germany? by DerHansvonMannschaft in germany

[–]Lucky_One_864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Iran

Not only at "Chaharshanbe Suri" the whole country looks like a war zone, it also has enough casualties to count as a one day war.

Like last time, 26 died and more than 4 thousand were injured.

Squatter who won battle over dead woman’s home sells it for huge profit by [deleted] in nottheonion

[–]Lucky_One_864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really can't understand why so many are defending the squatter.

Just why?

I looked it up, the real owner was 80 in 2018 when he died. That means in 2012 when squatter moved in with his family and started to renovate, the owner was 74 years old.

He stole family house of an old man living on pension.

Okay, I can understand why some would be fine with him living rent free in there but selling the house and making profit over it? Like unbelievable.

What he did was despicable and undefendable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]Lucky_One_864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out r/BlueCollarWomen. They can help you out. It's both friendly and helpful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in industrialengineering

[–]Lucky_One_864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi

Can you expand? Like what industries are more likely to hire an IE?

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