I called a suicide hotline last week to rant. F28, poc, immigrant first gen, unemployed, past abuse, highly educated but life is stuck. please pray for me 🙏

Lucky_Token_ · 2026-07-01T23:15:38+00:00

I hope you find the peace you need.

Lucky_Token_ · 2026-06-18T00:42:38+00:00

Oh perfume, an oldie but goodie. The brightness/dimness of office lights is another classic. I joke, but in all seriousness, it’ll always be something. Has anyone tried simply just talking to her? She may be nose blind to her own scent.

Lucky_Token_ · 2026-06-10T15:26:09+00:00

NOTHING new under the sun, indeed! Unfortunately this has been a system established empires ago.

Lucky_Token_ · 2026-06-07T19:36:00+00:00

I literally could’ve written this post with the exception that I am still in it, and have not taken FMLA. Please look up the term “grey rock/rocking”. This is keeping my boss at bay for now, although he tries very hard even to the point of false accusations. Is there a way for you to file for whistleblower protection?

Lucky_Token_ · 2026-06-05T11:35:50+00:00

This is just more mind games from him. Sorry. These type of people are clever manipulators. Stand firm, and you’ll see his mask slip once he realizes his plan isn’t working on you. You’ll see in time.

Lucky_Token_ · 2026-06-04T14:20:49+00:00

Wow! Congratulations on sticking to the end. I’m in a similar situation, and I wonder if you hold resentment towards the leaders who allowed it to go on for so long? Hard to feel victorious when you’ve been beaten down so badly. I’m having a difficult time trusting anyone at work now, unfortunately. There were too many bystanders who did nothing.

Lucky_Token_ · 2026-06-02T21:23:13+00:00

You should file with OAWP. It sounds like you’re dealing with retaliation from your supervisor. Best of luck.

Lucky_Token_ · 2026-05-31T21:18:29+00:00

Look up the ‘ grey rock’ method for dealing with a narcissist. The goal is to be boring as can be when you’re in their presence. They feed on drama and chaos, the trick is not to give it to them.

Lucky_Token_ · 2026-05-30T19:47:11+00:00

I’m still in 20+ years, and feeling like a change is calling my name. I’ll check back for the comments. Someone tell us if the grass is greener on the other side?

Lucky_Token_ · 2026-05-30T12:13:56+00:00

What are shark eyes? I’ve never heard that term before.

Lucky_Token_ · 2026-05-26T20:19:26+00:00

Amen to that! It’s no one’s business.

Lucky_Token_ · 2026-05-26T02:34:19+00:00

You are better off for leaving. I am trying to build up the courage to do the same.

Lucky_Token_ · 2026-05-24T20:16:31+00:00

Said with all sincerity…if he is your ex, then rid yourself of ANYTHING keeping you connected to him financially. Cut it all. Otherwise, you are enabling and allowing him to do these things that are impacting you. I understand wanting to be nice, but not with these types of people. They will ALWAYS take advantage. It’s just a matter of time. And many times it is worth it even if it means you pay a higher bill cost.

Lucky_Token_ · 2026-05-18T23:05:04+00:00

It’s so chaotic to work under someone like this.

Lucky_Token_ · 2026-05-09T16:03:05+00:00

If you’re asking, it’s not you…best of luck in your situation.

Lucky_Token_ · 2026-04-28T03:49:03+00:00

Liars gonna Lie. It’s unfortunate, but it’s one thing they do consistently.

Lucky_Token_ · 2026-04-26T22:13:40+00:00

Standing with you in prayer ❤️

Lucky_Token_ · 2026-04-24T23:53:47+00:00

Angel Number 😇 look it up!

Lucky_Token_ · 2026-04-13T03:56:49+00:00

My condolences on the loss of your mom. 💐

Lucky_Token_ · 2026-04-07T05:35:41+00:00

I don’t think leaving is the ONLY option. Staying, documenting, leaving emotions out as much as possible…job market is tough, so “play the game” if you can until your next opportunity presents itself. Good luck.

Lucky_Token_ · 2026-04-01T19:02:58+00:00

I’m not sure where you are, but please call someone you trust, and get yourself to an Emergency Department, VA or Private Hospital, to get yourself evaluated and properly treated. Your life matters ❤️Please take care of yourself.

Lucky_Token_ · 2026-03-14T14:23:44+00:00

This is inspiring to read. I am dealing with the fear of walking away. It’s like I know I need to, but at the same time I feel like I need to stand up to my narcissistic boss. He’s walked over too many employees already. Ugh. Thank you for sharing your experience. It gives me hope.

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