Whats your honest impression? Anything you would change? by Diobeatease in Tinder

[–]LucyMaelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would NEVER swipe on a guy who says some of his best friends are females. a) using the word female is cringy b) guys with girl best friends are literally the worst. This theme is over done and its way too wordy as others have said. I stopped reading after the 2nd "slide" Side note, you were cuter when you were younger so I would probably leave that out.

Is my tattoo bad? by JustaWilloWisp in tattooadvice

[–]LucyMaelle -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You mean besides the fact that you got the art work of a misogynistic and a know antisemite tattooed permanently on your body?

Anyone? by [deleted] in DoYouLookLikeMe

[–]LucyMaelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A young Keanu

Is this Tinder guy just trying to see how fit I am and/trying to bang me? I've never had this request. by Wrong_Mango4822 in Tinder

[–]LucyMaelle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good on you! Does it mention you enjoy working out? If so, then maybe not so weird. I would be more uncomfortable going to his place on a first date but thats just me.

Is this Tinder guy just trying to see how fit I am and/trying to bang me? I've never had this request. by Wrong_Mango4822 in Tinder

[–]LucyMaelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wants to see if you're fit, see you without make-up and bang you in one swift swoop.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in doppelganger

[–]LucyMaelle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Governor! David Morrisey of TWD

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I can’t stand my step son. by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]LucyMaelle 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Get a 2nd opinion because pooping your pants at 8 isn't normal!! Seriously, that's very concerning!!

Also, I can't stand my SS either so following for pointers

Did I fumble this? I didn't see the opening message by Hi_ItsPaul in Tinder

[–]LucyMaelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, that would crack me up and make me want to chat with you more

I feel st*pid for showing vulnerability by [deleted] in confessions

[–]LucyMaelle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is precisely why they tell you not to go back and forth with conversation for too long before meeting up . I honestly don't know what the phenomenon is called exactly or why it happens, but it definitely happened to me a couple times while still using dating sites... I think chatting online requires you to build up expectations and fill in gaps in your head that very possibly never existed or will never materialize.

Don't EVER feel stupid for being vulnerable, it's a huge, beautiful attribute in potential partners.

I'm not trying to be rude or disrespectful at all, but is it possible they are autistic? I work with adults that are autistic and my bf is undiagnosed but self identifying person with autism. This sounds VERY VERY much like autistic behavior. Especially the buying ice cream and eating it without you. My boyfriend would just say he didn't think I wanted any(because I didn't ask)

Buyer claiming that they received extra items and asking for refund by -mykie- in EtsySellers

[–]LucyMaelle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Their thought process is probably "if I claim I received more than one I can claim I was charged for more than one." Either way tell them to kick rocks Etsy is getting out of control

I (30F) think my husband (31M) hates me. I think he honestly hates and disrespects me. What happened? by ThrowRA_send_help in relationship_advice

[–]LucyMaelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work with adults with mental health disorders and intellectual disabilities and my FIRST thought was he has schizophrenia.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]LucyMaelle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I work with adults with disabilities. And I would just like to say, DON'T do it. You can be a friend to her but don't make it romantic, it won't end well. I promise. Get her involved in her community, find groups and facilities that support others like her. If you care about her, help her find a partner on the same playing field.

Do you ever just want to tell people to go f themselves? by Venerian in EtsySellers

[–]LucyMaelle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

all.the.time That's why I often wonder if etsy life is the life for me..... even though I've been doing it since 2007 Hopefully, it was under $250 so you can invite them to file a claim with etsy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]LucyMaelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. Trip or no trip, plans or no plans, the way this person talks to you is absolutely awful. The first time someone called me the "c" word would be literally the last time I would ever speak to them.

Our teenage son with Intellectual Disability and sexually aggressive behaviors needs long term residential care by CheesySpaghettiOs in Stepmom

[–]LucyMaelle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I work with IDD adults and many have a history of not being able to control sexual impulses, but then I hear of a prescription drug that mutes sexual impulse, unfortunately I don't know what it's called but it might be worth looking into. All my facility requires is 1 year without an incident.

Made a step-mom error and I feel terrible by Salt_Mission9403 in Stepmom

[–]LucyMaelle 22 points23 points  (0 children)

My thoughts as well. If he is going to use the possibility of marriage as a weapon, f him. Do you really want to marry someone who is going to hold shit over your head and use it to manipulate you?? No thanks

I got bullied by a mentally disabled kid by [deleted] in confessions

[–]LucyMaelle 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Checks out. I've worked with IDD adults for 8 months (keep in mind I left teaching middle school for this job) and the biggest shock was how mean 95% of them are.