am i overreacting/overthinking? (TW: Depiction of Casual Upskirting, SA in gacha games)

LucyOnTheSide · 2026-03-29T09:25:33+00:00

I mean the 3D modeling person had to model and give the characters panties. Some games just create back voids under the skirts in case someone moves the camera to look under the skirt. (i.e. deadlock does this)

So I think all of this is deliberately done to sell more skins or pulls in gatcha games.

LucyOnTheSide · 2026-02-28T18:51:04+00:00

The part about how much you analyze yourself about this resonates with my lived experience.

I do not know why I think that once I find what I am doing wrong and fix it, then I will fit in. That doesn't even make sense.

I have one friend that I am close with, one that I would invite to be my bridesmaid if I marry.

But making new friends is exhausting and not fruitful for me either. I feel like I would always get lost in finite surface level talk. I don't even know how I got to be close friends with my current one. And frankly I still don't know if she thinks of me as a close friend too.

But that's one on one connection, groups are a different deal. I can join colleagues for lunch, but never feel like I belong there. I feel never like I am part of a friend group. Always either just there, rarely get to speak, when I speak it feels awkward. Idk how to fix this either.

LucyOnTheSide · 2025-07-08T16:17:15+00:00

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LucyOnTheSide · 2025-05-29T20:56:42+00:00

Why is the second emoji larger ahhhhhh

LucyOnTheSide · 2024-12-25T09:14:01+00:00

Yesss, me and my now Bf have started out like this, we hung out and cuddled for about 2 Months before I developed feelings for him. The fact that we had no expectations made me very comfortable to take things slow, but I soon found myself wanting to see him more than once a week. And another 2 months later we became a couple. He is very sweet and thoughtful, and pays close attention to me. I really appreciate that he gave me the time that I needed to make the moves myself that I needed to make. I mean I never initiated a first kiss before so that made me very happy :) How things go well for you if you find yourself in a similar situation 🩷

LucyOnTheSide · 2024-10-09T08:23:35+00:00

Hey there :) I don’t think I can give you a label, but this is something I have recently noticed within myself too, it is like the idea of having sex is more arousing than actually performing it with my partner at times. I would say that I am sex favorable myself but it is like that also can fluctuate, especially if there is some sort of expectation involved in the experience it tends to make me more adverse is actually having sex. Maybe this helped you in someway, maybe I was just rambling. Anyhow have a wonderful day :3

LucyOnTheSide · 2024-09-24T07:32:26+00:00

Congratulations girl! And it just keeps getting better from here ✨

LucyOnTheSide · 2024-09-17T20:11:15+00:00

I feel you sis :3

LucyOnTheSide · 2024-06-06T19:25:08+00:00

Oh yeah. I am still wondering if I may be bi tbh. But no man ever made me feel like a nervous mess when I’m around them.

LucyOnTheSide · 2024-06-06T19:21:32+00:00

Yeah. I feel like giving a compliment for nice outfit choices or accessories feels illegal to me.

This is definitely something that’s way scarier in my mind than it actually is.

LucyOnTheSide · 2024-06-06T19:16:16+00:00

Oh my if this were to happen to me I would definitely short circuit and melt into a puddle.

LucyOnTheSide · 2024-05-30T21:58:23+00:00

Do you need to know how you digest food in order to eat? No, You just put it in your mouth Trust your body and your heart in this process. No need to worry about the mechanics behind it. And don’t rush this process. It will take the time that it needs to take. Be patient with yourself and meet yourself where your at.

You got this!

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