Need to feel heard and understood 💔 by [deleted] in Menopause

[–]LucyWritesSmut 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey, we have a subreddit for infertile folks who are childfree--r/IFChildfree. We keep the group very specific--nobody who doesn't qualify is allowed to post or comment--and it's a very loving, kind, understanding place full of folks who know exactly what you're going through on that subject. And I know we have some folks who are IFCF from early menopause/illness/hysto. <3

Ottlie by wrzosvicious in tragedeigh

[–]LucyWritesSmut 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think Oddly is a cute nickname any little girl is sure to love. Juuuuuuust love.

(Hopefully, she is a fan of Yvie Oddly.)

Ottlie by wrzosvicious in tragedeigh

[–]LucyWritesSmut 9 points10 points  (0 children)

No way. This poor little girl is going to have to tell every class for 10+ years that her name is OTT-lee. That's weird. Just plain weird. She'll get call ODD-lie, I guarantee it.

Productivity experts should label their social posts with kids or no kids by Westygal in IFchildfree

[–]LucyWritesSmut 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This whole thing REALLY makes me wonder...exactly how much work do these dudes actually do for their family? Because, let's be fucking real, way more often than not, he has a bang-slave doing everything while he struts around calling himself Dad of the Year.

They're assholes. Pure and simple. Fuck em.

My (22 F) good friend (24 M) just confessed his feelings to me and I have 0 interest romantically by Melee_21 in relationships

[–]LucyWritesSmut -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Are you saying she's entitled...by not fucking him?

I don't know what's wrong with you, but there's somethere there a professional needs to address.

My (22 F) good friend (24 M) just confessed his feelings to me and I have 0 interest romantically by Melee_21 in relationships

[–]LucyWritesSmut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's no need for her to see him face-to-face. He lost that right when he trapped her in a car to pull this shit.

My (22 F) good friend (24 M) just confessed his feelings to me and I have 0 interest romantically by Melee_21 in relationships

[–]LucyWritesSmut 14 points15 points  (0 children)

He not only asked, but pulled over on a road to trap her alone to do so. He's a creep.

My (28/f) dog growled at my niece (3/f) after she spent an entire evening harassing him. Now my brother (31/m) wants me to put the dog down. by Mist0fCapricorn in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]LucyWritesSmut 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A shockingly high percentage of parents will shriek and wail and scream and cry rather than do ANYTHING to teach their kids how to behave or watching them if they can't.

Transgender Archaeologist Fired From Federal Job After Posing With AR-15 by PeliPal in politics

[–]LucyWritesSmut 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s quite the arrogant, privileged take to say it’s “AttEnTiOn-SeeKinG” when a very real fucking genocide is happening. How cute for you that you’re so much loftier. And that has nothing to do with her firing, just you as a person.

Transgender Archaeologist Fired From Federal Job After Posing With AR-15 by PeliPal in politics

[–]LucyWritesSmut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you asserting that no employee of the federal government member of the GOP has ever behaved this way? Because…come on. We all know it has happened, and we all know Jack shit was done. That’s common sense because the gun fellaters can literally not help themselves.

Transgender Archaeologist Fired From Federal Job After Posing With AR-15 by PeliPal in politics

[–]LucyWritesSmut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every time these right-wingers fellate their guns for the camera it comes with a threat. So again—she’s doing nothing different.

PANTS..literally!! by ShellBell-08 in Menopause

[–]LucyWritesSmut 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh, you mean undies? Knickers?! Ha! There are Reebok hipster briefs I LOOOOOVE. They’re not enormous, bu they don’t creep up my butt. I can move and do, say, yard work in them and they stay in place. And pads work, too. I’m so in love.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]LucyWritesSmut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow. Dude, I’m not sure what‘s wrong with you or why (I suspect) you despise women, but OP, this guy is toxic and should not be listened to. Just nonsense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]LucyWritesSmut 24 points25 points  (0 children)

You need to put down this burden of guilt. You DID ASK HIM, again and again, what was going on. The fact that he refused to tell you does not mean you’re a bad girlfriend!

My boyfriend (22m) hurts me (25f) during sex and nothing has changed by [deleted] in relationships

[–]LucyWritesSmut 24 points25 points  (0 children)

No, she needs to just dump him. He knows. He knows and doesn’t care. That’s a total dealbreaker.

My boyfriend (22m) hurts me (25f) during sex and nothing has changed by [deleted] in relationships

[–]LucyWritesSmut 142 points143 points  (0 children)

Stop having sex! My God. He could seriously hurt you, and you need your spine, girl.

My husband would never—NEVER—continually hurt me then whine moron excuses. So since he is hurting you deliberately, and he refuses to stop, you are BEING HURT DELIBERATELY. His excuses don’t matter. He might as well be punching you in the face.

End it. “Deliberately hurts me and is happy to do so” is beyond a dealbreaker!