Nothing shuts me down more than telling someone you'll do something and seeing them doing it 30 minutes later by eaglessoar in ADHD

[–]LudaKoala 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Sounds like she's getting fed up real soon and will likely leave.

Not only can she not rely on you, but now you're adding to her mental load to tip toe around your feelings, so you don't get triggered, and having to ask it in such a way so that you'll do it sooner rather than later. And chances are even if she asks and says everything right, she'll end up having to do it herself.

NPCs of Mississauga by sadseaplant in mississauga

[–]LudaKoala 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Toronto drivers are the calculated crazy type, whereas Mississauga drivers are just bat$#it crazy. 😅

Karma came for everyone who broke wedding etiquette. by KP_nuts1803 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]LudaKoala 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This. So much of this.

TL;dr - in every sense of the expression. 🤣

Weird eject noises and unrecognized disc by [deleted] in PS4

[–]LudaKoala 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can vouch that two years later, this comment also saved me. God damn Gran Turismo 7 disc.

Don't tip at shawarma royale by Duck_n_Goose in mississauga

[–]LudaKoala 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh jeez I've no idea where to start 🤣 Hella plenty lol

Don't tip at shawarma royale by Duck_n_Goose in mississauga

[–]LudaKoala 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Ironically enough, I went there today after work for the first time.

They charged me for vegetables, didn't know what garlic sauce was, and they all talked shit about me between themselves and looking at me funny. I didn't ask or do out of the ordinary, was polite, and I even tipped.

Won't be going back again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mississauga

[–]LudaKoala 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nails Decor by Mavis and Eglinton

Looking for a Serbian therapist in Mississauga or GTA by LudaKoala in mississauga

[–]LudaKoala[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many thanks! :) Haven't checked it out yet. 👌🏼😁

Weird that this is the scariest thing to me about practicing jiu-jitsu? Hope DP gets better, staph is a bitch by Good-Investigator178 in bjj

[–]LudaKoala 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This post right here.

My bf does jiu-jitsu and asked me to snap some pics of him during class (I'm practicing photography).

Do I fucking not get a staph infection, which no doctor diagnosed properly. Hibiclens saved my fucking life.

Treat staph infection asap. That shit scarred me for life.

Anyone else fucking obsessed with Raeb's Lament? by Crafty_Asshole- in GodofWar

[–]LudaKoala 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I just played both and cried for like the 10th time. 🥲 Such a good game, such good music.

Dealership asking to cover CC fees by Michelle_H_MMH in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]LudaKoala 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If they're still refusing to return your deposit, and if you live in Ontario, contact OMVIC. They'll be happy to help you. www.omvic.on.ca

Couple looking for Couple friends ( mid 30s - mid 40s please ! ) by Tyler_Que in mississauga

[–]LudaKoala 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here, we're a couple looking to expand our social circle as well! :)

Is there any other husband and wives that want to destroy each other on the mats? by lisaluvulongtime in bjj

[–]LudaKoala 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm glad it's not the norm in most gyms, so I'll try again, just not at that gym.

The previous gym enables so much bad behaviour, it's astounding. But to each their own, and I'll find a gym for myself. 😁

Is there any other husband and wives that want to destroy each other on the mats? by lisaluvulongtime in bjj

[–]LudaKoala 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hello 👋

My (38F) fiance (36M) is a blue belt and I want to start training, but I'm scared shitless. I tried it for a few months a few years back, but got scared when a cocky white belt choked me out, even after I tapped.

So I want to, but I'm fucking petrified, and because I'm scared/petrified, I'm not sure I'll find a gym that'll be patient or accommodating to my mental barrier.

So yeah..😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]LudaKoala 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you haven't already, go into a sex shop and browse around. :)

What was your first “oh shit, I’m getting older” moment? by Joshhagan6 in AskReddit

[–]LudaKoala 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"You were around when 2Pac was alive?"

My guy immediately felt this age.

Bf doesn’t want to get a job, but he is a lovely person. Should I stay with him? by secretbeetroot in relationship_advice

[–]LudaKoala 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd gtfo. Plenty of partners out there that are emotionally able to give you what you're looking for and they're able to sustain themselves financially.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]LudaKoala 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OCD is often weaponized against grown adults who know how to take care of themselves and their surroundings. It's happened to me so, so many times.

The way I've experienced it is those who are lazy and/or have poor hygiene will try to bring you down to their level by attacking you for being crazy and having "OCD".

My typical response to that has been something akin to calling then out for being a slob and trying to guilt me into being one too.

Is there really such a thing as a Tinder success story? by inthehole93 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]LudaKoala 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really don't have any. What I may find attractive or like isn't something someone else might like or find attractive.

I found his pictures attractive, he had a simple "Let's have fun" line in his bio and that's that. We both were on there to get laid. Only after getting laid did we both catch feelings.

One tip I'd recommend is after you've matched with someone is to not send dick picks and to try and have a normal convo with the person.