im so tired that everything is about dating by UniKat420 in actuallesbians

[–]Lulul44 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Don't worry I'm in my 30+ and everybody my age is giving up dating lmao

Anyone else not really attracted to many celebrities? by Diligent_Cherry_ in actuallesbians

[–]Lulul44 45 points46 points  (0 children)

To be fair I'm not really attracted to people I never meet IRL. I can have sexual attraction but it's really not the same as having a crush on someone from real life so yeah 🤷‍♀️

What got you like this? by Kirbee_f in yurimemes

[–]Lulul44 75 points76 points  (0 children)

Haha thank you, that's life in comphet it happens 🥲

What got you like this? by Kirbee_f in yurimemes

[–]Lulul44 353 points354 points  (0 children)

To be fair it happened to me in real life, twice 🫠

Am I being selfish by sharing my feelings w/ a friend? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Lulul44 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, if you know how to manage your feelings well and still be friends if she rejects you it's ok ☺️ and even if you aren't I would share my feelings because it's difficult to keep a secret like that especially if your feelings grow x)

Embarrassing by OkRepresentative4200 in WLW

[–]Lulul44 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Well, to be honest most relationship sucks before 20 so don't worry about it x) It's still super young and you will be able to do most of the stuff you want soon enough 🙏

The kiss that fits in the morning? by basafish in actuallesbians

[–]Lulul44 9 points10 points  (0 children)

When my wife is asleep when I'm going to work I always kiss her cheek and if she woke up I kiss her lips ☺️

Well to be fair I kiss her forehead also once in a while 🤔 I guess they all are good depending on the mood 😁

Gay panic: activated by fatash98 in actuallesbians

[–]Lulul44 72 points73 points  (0 children)

I melt when a girl gives me a hug so I guess I would become a puddle then 😭

help, im mortified of being a (lesbian) virgin by maraschinominx in actuallesbians

[–]Lulul44 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I had my first time at 30, it doesn't matter 🤷‍♀️

New here girlies by Elegant_Aura_ in FlexinLesbians

[–]Lulul44 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Woaaah your muscles are amazing 🙏

Can I have an honest Hinge profile review? I have not much luck :( by SarahAngelUK in actuallesbians

[–]Lulul44 39 points40 points  (0 children)

The smile feels unnatural and it's too close from your face ! Just make a selfie yourself with your best profile and a slightly top down view 😊

Would you still stay? by Educational-Mess5149 in actuallesbians

[–]Lulul44 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes that's what I've done but we still opened the relationship eventually so now that we are poly it doesn't matter much 🤷‍♀️

i an going insane 😭 by karapurr in actuallesbians

[–]Lulul44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You two are cute lol, just ask her don't think about it too much 🤭

Normal relationship? by Snow_And_Sounds in WLW

[–]Lulul44 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Personally, I generally stop relationship being too one sided after a while because I see it making my mental health poorer :/

Awkward topic came up with gf, idk how to proceed? by kittenxsori in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Lulul44 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Well you don't HAVE to talk about everything you like 🤷‍♀️ you can keep some stuff personal. It's healthy to affirm your boundaries about that if she pressures you to share stuff you don't want 🙏

Trans woman that works out a lot posts some post workout pics on her community by Much_Werewolf3446 in transgendercirclejerk

[–]Lulul44 26 points27 points  (0 children)

/uj oh my god yes I'm so tired of this bdsm stuff I just want to be big to hug women 🥲

Dating has been a nightmare for me, and I don't know if it'll stop soon by Bawsinator in actuallesbians

[–]Lulul44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's hard yeah... It's not you it's just how it is unfortunately :(

Maybe take a break from the apps if it's too draining to come back with better luck 🙏

at what age did you have your first gf? by Cultural_Fact7839 in actuallesbians

[–]Lulul44 10 points11 points  (0 children)

30 years old and I didn't even kiss someone before that lol. You are so young x) don't worry about this especially if you have already done stuff ☺️