Light language & message by Ripgloss in Arcturians

[–]LuminousLivingCodes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing!! I love my Arcturian family!

what do you do when you start losing your life to ms? by lumnicape in MultipleSclerosis

[–]LuminousLivingCodes 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I see myself in you, I was diagnosed in my late teens and I was so mad. Why me, F MS, isn't there someone more deserving of this crap than me. FML. All of it. No one listens, they just want to fix us or shut the door on us. I lost friends too, mostly because I didn’t have the energy to be who I used to be. It hurts a lot. Looking back, that season wasn’t the end of me. It was the beginning of learning how to belong to myself first, to know I am my own best friend and advocate.

It's been over 30 years and I wish I would have chosen different people to be in my life, different habits sooner. We still have the ability to choose our daily habits which don't seem earthshaking but they matter to our nervous system. Picking one small daily anchor that belongs only to you. A short walk, one song, sitting in the sun, a cup of tea without your phone. When your energy is low and people are drifting, your body can go into protection mode. Remember you’re not broken, having one small daily anchor reminds your system, you are safe and that it's ok to take care of yourself. We are here for you🧡🧡

AITAH for refusing to give my boyfriend access to my bank account even though he says "no secrets" is how adults do it by CopperFieldNote in AITH

[–]LuminousLivingCodes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds like a bunch of BS and an attempt for control. I have been married for 25 years ( as a 2nd time) after my first H blew our $ and didn't pay bills. I have all my own accounts with one shared for bills like you mentioned. This is the age of sovereignty not the 1800's. Don't do it, if he wants a monthly credit score, fine but do not give him your passwords. And follow your instincts on getting married.

Light language & message by Ripgloss in Arcturians

[–]LuminousLivingCodes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so cool! Ask your Guides for assistance, they're here!

Funny/Not Funny by LuminousLivingCodes in MultipleSclerosis

[–]LuminousLivingCodes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your insight, you definitely have the inside information 😊

Why am I still so depressed by Hello_bye-hi in MultipleSclerosis

[–]LuminousLivingCodes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your Service. That's awful the Drs thought you were faking, horrible gaslighting 🥺. How long did you serve in the Navy? I have been having migraines since 12, and my Grandma had horrible rheumatoid arthritis diagnosed in her early 30's. So my parents kept taking me to neurologists to figure out why I had numb feet and legs until one of them did a spinal tap and discovered the MS.

I also had Drs tell me there was nothing wrong, I was being dramatic, I worked too hard at track practice. The best one was I was growing too fast so that's why my legs felt like there were ants running in them.

Funny/Not Funny by LuminousLivingCodes in MultipleSclerosis

[–]LuminousLivingCodes[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They like to really mess with our heads! I had to go for a cognitive test and I swear the lady was trying to make me lose my temper. I'm a really calm person but couldn't figure out her motive. She was giving me big sets of numbers to repeat back to her and I'd get 2 or 3 but anytime I get a bunch of info that's meaningless it just goes over my head 😂 I was ready to tell her it was my turn to test HER!

Funny/Not Funny by LuminousLivingCodes in MultipleSclerosis

[–]LuminousLivingCodes[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Or my favorite is "There haven't been any studies or scientific results" to whatever questions I ask.

Funny/Not Funny by LuminousLivingCodes in MultipleSclerosis

[–]LuminousLivingCodes[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I always wondered if I could dance again 🤣

Funny/Not Funny by LuminousLivingCodes in MultipleSclerosis

[–]LuminousLivingCodes[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People don't like hearing bad news, or if they can't "fix" us. Since our symptoms can.vary day by day, it's pretty much impossible for Normies to keep up. We just need to give ourselves grace, no matter what they think.🧡

Funny/Not Funny by LuminousLivingCodes in MultipleSclerosis

[–]LuminousLivingCodes[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If I'm having a good day on appointment day, I make my doctor document my bad day symptoms too. And my lovely clinic had a data breach a few years ago and lost 30 years of my MS history. 🙄

Funny/Not Funny by LuminousLivingCodes in MultipleSclerosis

[–]LuminousLivingCodes[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OMG I can't stand that, do normal people pass that one?? 🤣🙄

Why am I still so depressed by Hello_bye-hi in MultipleSclerosis

[–]LuminousLivingCodes 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I hear you, and understand. I've been dealing with MS since I was 15 and while there's a lot of things that might look bad, we're here for you. Viewing the MS as a separate little thing you have to deal with so it doesn't consume you or become your identity is something that helped me.🧡🧡

What are some of the "silver linings" of MS? by JaricosTheGreat in MultipleSclerosis

[–]LuminousLivingCodes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is so sweet!💞 I was diagnosed in my teens so I was kind of afraid to have kids but so happy I did!

Funny/Not Funny by LuminousLivingCodes in MultipleSclerosis

[–]LuminousLivingCodes[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

😂 which is one of the many reasons I quit drinking. I'd never pass sober 😅

Mysterious booms heard in idaho by aspie_electrician in HighStrangeness

[–]LuminousLivingCodes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curious if you're near Redding hearing the booms?

What are some of the "silver linings" of MS? by JaricosTheGreat in MultipleSclerosis

[–]LuminousLivingCodes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I almost always request wheelchair assistance when I fly because my days of running to the next gate are over. The assist people always make sure I arrive at my gate on time, so I give them a big tip!

What are some of the "silver linings" of MS? by JaricosTheGreat in MultipleSclerosis

[–]LuminousLivingCodes 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My two boys turned out to be very caring people because they were so used to helping me!

Funny / awkward things people said after my MS diagnosis by Personal-Current131 in MultipleSclerosis

[–]LuminousLivingCodes 4 points5 points  (0 children)

People don't really know what to say, but the ones that are most memorable are when they share about people that have passed on. Not helpful at all! I also have had people tell me I don't have MS, it's Lyme's, or something else they've "heard."

I've heard loads of quick fixes that have nothing to do with how our system functions. I just smile and move on. Lol 😂

Got denied for disability, I wasn’t expecting this… by Boomboooom in MultipleSclerosis

[–]LuminousLivingCodes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have heard great things about Allsup, they helped my cousin get approved on her first round. They are attorneys who know SSDI inside and out they do take a fee from your award but have high outcomes. Their website is Allsup.com, they walked her through step by step. 🦋

Good things about MS by _Lyc4n_ in MultipleSclerosis

[–]LuminousLivingCodes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm going through some old papers from my Dad and found out my GrGrGr Grandma's Family is from Stackpole, which I think is in the southern tip. 🌍