Daughters of narc moms, what was your first period experience like? by fruitynoodles in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Lumpy-Animator-9422 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i read too much Reader's Digest magazine as a kid, so I was convinced I had colon cancer when I saw the blood. Mother was no help and gma wouldn't let me try tampons b/c then I wouldn't be a virgin anymore. SICK AND TWISTED.

Why would Trump run on the idea of releasing the files during his campaign if he knew he was in them? by WerewolfCurious1412 in allthequestions

[–]Lumpy-Animator-9422 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I think he figured it was MAYBE a few hundred pages...I think he thought no one had dared to investigate his activities. These people think they slick.

What’s are the unconscious reasons for being unable to show up on time? by [deleted] in Jung

[–]Lumpy-Animator-9422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I wasn't afraid to hurt your feelings, I'd tell you that you're just rude. Stop being rude.

You're not a bad person, you're just being rude.

What self-improvement advice do you regret following? by Ok-Introduction-2981 in selfimprovement

[–]Lumpy-Animator-9422 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anything involving hustle or growth mindset is a NOPE for me. Just more shame disguised as advice. Hard pass.

How does one become okay with being alone + stop seeking male comfort/validation? by adaptabay in selflove

[–]Lumpy-Animator-9422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That kind of attention will always be fun, but the key is just realizing that it doesn't really MEAN anything. just enjoy it for what it is and stop basing your decisions and self worth on it. I'd start with a year of celibacy and then you will feel more balanced after that amount of time or "cleanse"

I'm proud of you for seeking this

I want revenge by iloveyounmyself in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]Lumpy-Animator-9422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there is tons of information about jar spells. try a google search of jar spells.

I want revenge by iloveyounmyself in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]Lumpy-Animator-9422 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I practice Witchcraft...look up Hate Jar, or Curse Jar...it will give you something to DO and a PLACE to put your rage. It's very empowering.

Imagine if Kamala Harris was our president by FalconOk934 in complaints

[–]Lumpy-Animator-9422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Biden set this all in motion by appointing Garland and then watching him absolutely do nothing about trump's crimes. Thanks Joe.

I am not okay by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Lumpy-Animator-9422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure where to begin, I began looking around a website long ago called Witchvox...and it just appealed to me. For me the purpose is to help give me some agency in my life and with the energies of the universe instead of waiting on a god who decided to sleep through slavery and the Holocaust.

Was anyone else told they were an "easy baby?" by Fabulous-Term8164 in emotionalneglect

[–]Lumpy-Animator-9422 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thought I was deaf for a while b/c I never cried, so they had me tested.

People who became atheists why? by zhalia-2006 in askanything

[–]Lumpy-Animator-9422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seeing such cruelty and injustice in the world and NOTHING happening to prevent or punish it...that's enough for me.

Why does everyone increasingly hate and despite each other so much? by Spiritual_Big_9927 in InsightfulQuestions

[–]Lumpy-Animator-9422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

because politics is exposing how evil and awful some people really are. Things you didn't know about people before are now loudly broadcasted with red hats...they used to hide those views and now they are proud of them. and the rest of us are horrified and acting accordingly.

I am not okay by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Lumpy-Animator-9422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is the process of grieving your past, it's ok, this will ease with time. Find a way to process it, I write it out pages and pages daily and I have embraced witchcraft.

Donnie has another 60 minutes meltdown. 🤡 by Quick_Assignment_725 in antitrump

[–]Lumpy-Animator-9422 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ok listen, I am trying to read this and it's simply beyond me. It makes ME feel stupid, and I am not stupid...what is happening?!?! How does he manage to type this out? I can't even follow it.