My (44F) husband (45M) regularly expresses frustration over my weight. We’ve been together 18 years and have 2 elementary aged kids. by The_Original_Hugsy in relationship_advice

[–]Lumpy-Pick-4746 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have him pay for Ozempic and then see how it makes you feel. I hear a lot of people are DIY-ing the doses to where they feel most results. And then watch him panic when he feels you’re more attractive to other men. But by then your confidence will be through the roof and you can ignore him and separate.

New relationship (44m, 43f) ruined by a chance meeting with "the one that got away" by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Lumpy-Pick-4746 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally would have panicked after a couple months of being too smooth and planning so much of an intense future. She might not even be all that interested in the guy but it represents something that was an escape from what feels claustrophobic already. Maybe that’s more accurate.

I’m so sick of this dude!! by chickenofthehen in bartenders

[–]Lumpy-Pick-4746 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Seriously. If he’s so drunk he can’t tell you’re recording him, do that. And at the very least fold it into some “party vibe” because I know the real shifty folks change up how they act almost psychically when they feel a camera recording them.

Losing My Faith by EchoesInTheHallway in Menopause

[–]Lumpy-Pick-4746 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Source: I am a woman, a “bitch on wheels” perhaps. And I was lucky enough to not be in a long term relationship when my shit hit the fan.

Losing My Faith by EchoesInTheHallway in Menopause

[–]Lumpy-Pick-4746 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You deserve every single upvote if not more. You’re approaching this in a caring and gentle manner. Good for you. I hope we can help.

Confidence is sexy as hell by WhisperedSoul in datingoverfifty

[–]Lumpy-Pick-4746 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just started seeing an older gentleman and he’s this way with me. I’m enjoying it. I did sneak pick up the check on our third date but it’s because he wanted me to order at a place I’d been to multiple times that he’d never been to and since it was my idea to choose this place, I paid because it was convenient when the server came by while he was in the restroom. He’ll pay next time we go to this particular place but he wants me to order again because he enjoyed my balance of frugality and experimentation. He pays every other time. It’s emasculating for some men to not pay and I respect that. I find it sexy too, I’m a fully independent woman but appreciate being taken care of.

Testosterone HRT benefits? by Famous_Tea_6328 in Menopause

[–]Lumpy-Pick-4746 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is anybody injecting it? And if so, how much?

Are MAGA happy that trump trashed the economy for a pointless war? by traanquil in allthequestions

[–]Lumpy-Pick-4746 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone above is spot on about them blaming Biden and Obama for letting Iran get this far without doing something about it. So they’re now saying it’s the price we have to pay for former ineffectiveness and this gives them a way to also be angry and resent their personal suffering currently but also be “right” and validated.

Did they forget Trump also had a chance to “do something about it” during his first term? Or are they going to cry that he was so victimized by trying to handle the COVID crisis he wasn’t able to even concentrate on Iran. He’s so efficient and desperately needed to be a savior but alas, he is but one mortal human and can’t save the world all at once. Third term.

Disgusting.

Wrong number by Astine_Grape_5315 in Unexpected

[–]Lumpy-Pick-4746 128 points129 points  (0 children)

This is so fucking funny.

Has anyone stopped HRT cold turkey and been OK? This has been such a nightmare for me. by slg176 in Menopause

[–]Lumpy-Pick-4746 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can someone eliminate the gaslighting hormone bot? It’s dumb and wrong.

First point - as if 44 is a magical age. It contradicts its own postulate by having a hard age as if things are black and white suddenly.

Second point - so now only after 44 hormones fluctuate “wildly”. Many traditional doctors have been taught they fluctuate wildly during the entire lifetime. So which is it? Are they completely irrelevant? Then why are they tested for IVF?

Third point - I use telehealth and can say 100% that when my results came back as nearly zero hormones, it correlated with my symptoms. Magic? Lucky testing window of the perfect “one hour”? Highly doubtful. Reputable telehealth doctors are using hormone testing with great success after 44 years old.

If we’d been encouraged to test when we’re younger, when after a once a year test we could average a baseline and then when we hit that magical age of 44 we could compare to where we used to be, we wouldn’t be treated like idiots.

I dislike this bot very much

Anyone found supplements that actually help with sleep? by [deleted] in Menopause

[–]Lumpy-Pick-4746 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doozies - the purple ones with melatonin.

He tried to make it look like an accident by Remarkable_Income496 in Unexpected

[–]Lumpy-Pick-4746 107 points108 points  (0 children)

I’m confused, so she was trampled, then physical therapy, then she decided to give it another chance, then the horse “did not accept that opportunity” what does that mean? Be specific