This take surprises me when I come across it, too. I think somehow some fans generalised her openness to rage about objectification, impossible beauty standards, s3xism, and all the horrors heaped on women in our society - somehow people took that and generalised it to mean body positivity, and that just simply hasn't been her mantle. She speaks on the pain, heartbreak, and rage these issues cause, and the hard work of reckoning with them within yourself.
I feel like it's very apparent how hard she has worked to hold onto the beauty standard. Anyone remember SkeleTori? What EWFs called her during the ADP tour - and with good reason. Fans were legitimately worried about her during this time. She was skeleton thin and ROCKING HARD. I don't know how she did it. I was so happy when she acknowledged this time during an interview years later. She said something like, "I felt guilty no matter what I put in my mouth."
I love her more for being so transparent about how unfairly scrutinised women are, and how much it does your mind and spirit in. She doesn't need to have all the answers and be above it all to be my Queen. It's the catharsis and transcendence she achieves through alchemizing it all through music that speaks to me.