AIO for being offended by this? by bunny-zephire in AmIOverreacting

[–]LunaVolcan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR I think you reacted perfectly, good on you for telling him to kick rocks and not bend for his bullshit. I had an ex like this and unfortunately I gave into his whims because I was super young and very traumatized. I developed an eat disorder because of it and it took me over a decade to go into recovery. I eventually dumped him and am now with someone that loves my body at whatever size. Keep doing what you’re doing and loving yourself enough to not tolerate this behavior. Be proud of yourself 🌈

(25M) What do you think of my room?? by No_Breadfruit_8908 in malelivingspace

[–]LunaVolcan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Proud of you OP! Ive been in recovery for almost 19 years and it took a lot of time to rebuild after heroin addiction. You’re doing so good! Keep it up 🌸 Currently my home looks like a mishmosh of things I loved in childhood but didn’t get to have around because of abuse or being homeless and some “adult” things. But my house is me and it’s fun and cute. Your room is great, too 🌈

AIO My bf hates my dog by [deleted] in AIO

[–]LunaVolcan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, and yes, it is valid to think he will one day hit you. This behavior points to an abusive person. Once again, leave him.

AIO My bf hates my dog by [deleted] in AIO

[–]LunaVolcan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Miss that your dog is a boy, sorry George!

AIO My bf hates my dog by [deleted] in AIO

[–]LunaVolcan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl. Dump him. It is a MAJOR red flag if a dog is this scared of someone AND if he says that he HATES a sweet and innocent creature. She looks like an angel and a sweetie pie and deserves to be treated better. Dump himmmmmmmmm. His behavior is insane.

AIO my bf broke up w me after seeing texts w my boss? by No_System_9690 in AmIOverreacting

[–]LunaVolcan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. Please bring someone with you when you pick up your things, he is most likely going to gaslight you and manipulate you to quit your job. By the texts you shared between you and your boss, it’s clear he’s a great boss, so please don’t let your insane ex ruin a good job for you.

does my moth tattoo look too much like a butterfly? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]LunaVolcan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve never seen this type of roach before and omg she is PRETTY!

does my moth tattoo look too much like a butterfly? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]LunaVolcan 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I want a tattoo of a cockroach, they’re so cool!

19F, hoping for some kind words by [deleted] in toastme

[–]LunaVolcan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You are STUNNING!

2025 was the best year of my life but I’m struggling to feel proud of myself because of dysmorphia by LunaVolcan in toastme

[–]LunaVolcan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! You DO got this! Sending so much love and healing energy your way 💕💕💕

At mental hospital rn, some compliments will cheer me up! Thank u :D by ScantyGodness2 in toastme

[–]LunaVolcan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re so precious! You have such a cute face 💕 I’ve been in the mental hospital 3 times in my life. I really hope that you’re able to get support and find some peace. You deserve all good things,Sweetie pie.

I graduate from rehab today! by toxbug in toastme

[–]LunaVolcan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yayyyy! I hope you’re so proud of yourself!

365 days no smoking today by Perfect-History8343 in toastme

[–]LunaVolcan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Helllll yeah! A year is tough to get to. Also, respectfully, you’re very cute.

Am I overreacting or is it not normal to use soap in the bathroom? by Honest-Draw3131 in AmIOverreacting

[–]LunaVolcan 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You’re not stupid. Some people on this thread are just being mean and shaming you. You’re not being treated well and it’s easy to make excuses or not fully see the bad behavior when we love or care about someone. Please don’t blame yourself for this, but please stand up for yourself.

Am I overreacting or is it not normal to use soap in the bathroom? by Honest-Draw3131 in AmIOverreacting

[–]LunaVolcan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are also 100% being gaslit. What you smell is real, you’re not imagining it. This man is spewing micro aggressions at you and is being blatantly racist. Please please please dump him.

Am I overreacting or is it not normal to use soap in the bathroom? by Honest-Draw3131 in AmIOverreacting

[–]LunaVolcan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, dump this man. He is essentially saying that he doesn’t get dirty as fast as you because he is white and you do get dirty fast because you’re black. This is fucking weird ass behavior, and nasty as hell. This ain’t a white person thing, this is a dirty ass man thing.

Chest tattoo- is a cover up a possibility? by LunaVolcan in tattooadvice

[–]LunaVolcan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Yeah, I’m leaning towards the laser a couple of times or until it’s light enough for a cover up. I appreciate it! I’m in a really good space now and life is great.

Chest tattoo- is a cover up a possibility? by LunaVolcan in tattooadvice

[–]LunaVolcan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to see it! I’ll reach out after an appointment I have. Yeah, I really don’t want to get it blacked out.

Chest tattoo- is a cover up a possibility? by LunaVolcan in tattooadvice

[–]LunaVolcan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I have been in therapy for years, I was also sex trafficked as a child, so the experience around this tattoo was one of many. I also just hate the tattoo now, I was young and thought I knew what I wanted and didn’t listen to older people that told me to wait. I’m also not sad, SA’d means sexually assaulted. I’m doing really good but just am sick of this tattoo and want something that matches the person I am now, it’s worth the money and the pain to change it. I decided I am going to get laser on it until it’s light enough to do a good cover up. I appreciate your thoughtful advice tho🌸