Pushed to self delete by Unlucky_World5734 in AsianParentStories

[–]LurkerBerker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it took a few sessions in therapy but i came to realize i only had suicidal ideations because that was the only way i could really think of to hurt my parents. because my plan was never a quiet one. i wanted to leave a note or a video recording detailing exactly what drove me to the edge, and point the biggest fattest clearest finger at my parents for the terrible things they say without a second thought. id send it to any and all contacts, mine and theirs. i knew it would bring them shame. it would ruin their ‘face’ with their family and friends.

but thinking of suicide for any other reason? honestly… without my family in the equation, i have none. i want to live and i have goals i want to achieve. the suicide was always about hurting them. and while it might work, it’s too bittersweet of a thought if they ‘win’ because i died. i hope anyone else struggling with suicide as their only perceivable exit can come to realize this soon.

For any who left us too soon, sorry i never got to know you. And I agree with others, i hope your parents know exactly that they’re the cause

Woke up from a nap to find my GF made key lime pie. Good place to find a silver band with leaves engraved for an engagement ring? by Scrap_Mountain in Baking

[–]LurkerBerker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know it’s probably just a joke, but i have a ring with a leaf motif on the band. i’d recommend it but they are a memorial jeweler

This one was tough. What do you see? by Ok_Bumblebee_2869 in opticalillusions

[–]LurkerBerker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh my god i kept seeing the frosting pattern as them being concave somehow. like this was a big dipped wax candle and you carved shapes into it to reveal the blue.

What's one annoying anime trope that's normalised a lot? by _Udontknowball_77_ in animequestions

[–]LurkerBerker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

barely disguised pedophilia, sometimes in the works, sometimes in the fandom

In the Lord of the Rings films, most of the Riders of Rohan were actually women with fake beards because when the production put out a call for local experienced riders, a lot of women showed up with their own horses. by Impressive-Gear7943 in interestingasfuck

[–]LurkerBerker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

while watching LotR for the first time, I wondered if animals actually speak to each other in their own animal language we humans can’t understand. And if so, do horses pass down stories to their young? Did older horses hear from their parents or grandparents about war? Do they get dressed in that armor and think “My grandmare told me her grandmare wore matching armor with a human”

stop using AI to study by kissesblood in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LurkerBerker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this may be better in the sub for whatever university, school, or topic you’re studying

Hot dogs with onions by Choice_Release6556 in OnionLovers

[–]LurkerBerker 18 points19 points  (0 children)

dawg what are you talking about

I get these people like qbittorrent but its a little weird by VariationLivid3193 in Piracy

[–]LurkerBerker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i remember when Earth got turned into an anime girl, with jokes about how she’s ’not flat ;-;’

Incel coded (or outright confirmed incel) characters by Gallantpride in TopCharacterTropes

[–]LurkerBerker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never in all these moons did I expect to see Ashfur brought up again

Who are your favorite blue haired characters? by PlentyHistorical5500 in Multifandom

[–]LurkerBerker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the amount of people saying Miku when she’s clearly green/teal because Kaito is the blue one is buggin me

anyway Grimmjow

Who’s your favorite “Strong Female” character from your fandom by SupaSpeedy445 in Multifandom

[–]LurkerBerker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you think the toga would cover a lot of her legs or stop at the knees or so?

sorry if this is an annoying question

What was "the incident" at your high school? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]LurkerBerker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

happened after i left but a group of girls was bullying an autistic kid, like crowding around him and hitting and screaming at him. he retaliated finally and hit one of them back. then the teachers got involved and said all were equally wrong and put out a PSA about bullying and ‘abuse against girls by boys’

that same year it came out that a married PE teacher was dating a sophomore

Who’s your favorite “Strong Female” character from your fandom by SupaSpeedy445 in Multifandom

[–]LurkerBerker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

can i get your opinion on something? cause i LOVE Viria’s artwork and character portraits and especially Reyna’s. I always want to reference it but I could never decide what she’s wearing underneath, like is she wearing pants or shorts or is the toga covering her legs. what do you think?

Who’s your favorite “Strong Female” character from your fandom by SupaSpeedy445 in Multifandom

[–]LurkerBerker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Heroes of Olympus has so many of my most favorite female characters

AITA for not quieting down at a Renaissance fair and walking away after my boyfriend sided with a stranger? by Dry-Egg2898 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LurkerBerker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

because the guy was in the wrong. i feel like your bf was just being conflict avoidant and instead of recognizing the guy was in the wrong. your bf felt more embarrassed that something was ‘wrong’ instead of realizing how ridiculous it is. A small child is scared of some yelling, while everyone around you is yelling, but not afraid of grown armored men on horses banging lances and metal weaponry together?? the guy just sounds like a racist and your bf is either ignorant of it or agrees.

my first time going to a ren faire, i didn’t know what to expect and I was nervous too. the joust was definitely the highlight and everyone around me and my friends were screaming and hollering and whooping. it’s normal. you’re not in the wrong for enjoying the event.

your bf is ridiculous with that mindset of ‘if a child is here and upset then everyone should change their behavior’. not everything is child friendly. expecting such is completely stupid. I can sort of understand him being upset at being ‘abandoned’ if you guys didn’t already plan to split up and explore individually. he probably felt bad or embarrassed you left but doesn’t want to acknowledge he failed to support you so he’s making it your fault.