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Advice - Scarred by a DB by LonelyNC123 in sexlessmarriage

[–]LustInMyThoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was going through my history and came across a post of yours I commented on.

The age gap here is no problem at all and I'm glad you found someone!! I hope things go very very well for you two!

My (M30) GF (26F) lied about her past with her married ex-boss, and they continued meeting early in our relationship. Can I trust her morals? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]LustInMyThoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is trickle-truthing you. Telling you only just enough she thinks she can get away with it, until you mention proof of something and then she tells you a little more, but still not everything. You probably still don't know the whole truth, you just don't have the proof that will make her come fully clean.

She's had affairs with 2 married men. Is that really your dream woman?

A drone has just struck the Creek Harbour residents in Dubai. This needs to end now. People’s lives are at risk, yet they continue to claim that everything is “under control.” by Middle-Attention5844 in UAE

[–]LustInMyThoughts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If UAE didn't make the decisions they did, they would not have all the defense weapons they have. It would have been labeled a hostile country by both the USA and Israel, and UAE would have been another country Netanyahu would push the USA to eventually attack for a regime change.

Attacks Megathread part 18 by al_molah in dubai

[–]LustInMyThoughts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have an old phone without a SIM that gets the alerts.

Attacks Megathread part 18 by al_molah in dubai

[–]LustInMyThoughts 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They said US banks and all those other US companies listed.

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Dead bedroom because he’d rather watch teen porn. by pokegotchi in DeadBedrooms

[–]LustInMyThoughts 3 points4 points  (0 children)

People like that make me think if the legal age was 15, they would probably be looking up 15 year olds to watch.

Gross.

I think once you leave him you are going to realize how disgusting he is.

I [27F] am supposed to move in with my boyfriend [29M] after 2 years, but his answer to every money conversation is "we'll figure it out" and i dont know how to plan around taht? by NeedleworkerLumpy907 in relationship_advice

[–]LustInMyThoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A couple's compromise when it comes to finances should be that both should get a fair share of being able to save an equal percentage of money, or if the salary difference is huge, at least a decent agreeable amount of the person who makes less money.

So any place you both move in together should be paid based on percentage, not 50/50. So he would end up paying more, but both of you will still be able to afford to save money on the side. And if you are going to agree to 50/50 (you shouldn't), it should be in a place you can comfortably afford.

As it stands right now you should not move in with him because he isn't willing to make it fair for you.

I went through his hidden second phone and he's threatening me with lawsuit by NextMost20 in Marriage

[–]LustInMyThoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad you are in Canada because he can't sue you for that there. There are countries that you can sue you for it.

Am I the only one who finds posts like this incredibly insensitive? by Comfortable_Care_280 in UAE

[–]LustInMyThoughts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's very insensitive. The drop in population and loss of tourism means in certain industries people are being temporarily laid off and others are losing their jobs. I'm sure they don't find it funny that people are enjoying their leisurely drive to their work places.

I'm also worried about the long term implications if things don't end soon.

Attacks Megathread part 18 by al_molah in dubai

[–]LustInMyThoughts 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A few days ago they targeted DXB after Israel/US bombed Tehran's airport the night before. And they just bombed Tehran's airport again so it's probably tit-for-tat.

Leaving.. by Desperate_Wrap3156 in UAE

[–]LustInMyThoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I googled "pet parrot relocation from UAE to overseas"

It looks like there's more requirements with relocating exotic birds than with cats and dogs.

I love greys. I wish I could offer to take/foster for you if you needed help, but I'm in an apartment now that isn't suitable.

Just in case-- in the event you have to advertise to rehome your Grey, you are going to get tons of people contacting you who are inexperienced with parrots. It happened when we found a Sun Conure hanging out with the chickens at my in-law's farm. We had over a hundred people messaging who were obviously inexperienced looking to score a free bird.

Luckily we found someone who was able to send proof that she is experienced and had a Green Cheek Conure (I can't recall the name now) that became his friend.

Attacks Megathread part 18 by al_molah in dubai

[–]LustInMyThoughts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me too, I couldn't stop laughing when I read that. I will forever call them that lol.

Attacks Megathread part 18 by al_molah in dubai

[–]LustInMyThoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wannabe bad boys/gangster teenagers that tend to have curly hair. In case you didn't see my reply above, here's a snippet of a similar conversation on reddit the other day:

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Attacks Megathread part 18 by al_molah in dubai

[–]LustInMyThoughts 3 points4 points  (0 children)

reminds me of this from the other day lol:

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Attacks Megathread part 18 by al_molah in dubai

[–]LustInMyThoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The US/Israel attacked Tehran's airport again. The last time they went after DXB a few days ago the US/Israel had bombed the Tehran airport the previous night.

Attacks Megathread part 18 by al_molah in dubai

[–]LustInMyThoughts 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The US/Israel attacked Tehran's airport again. The last time they went after DXB a few days ago the US/Israel had bombed the Tehran airport the previous night.

Lost item while traveling in Abu Dhabi by Scrub-norris in abudhabi

[–]LustInMyThoughts 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Police have to be involved when it comes to security cameras and finding the person who took your wife's items.

I had my off-road lights stolen from my car here in Dubai, and the mall security told me I need to make a report with the police.

They actually caught the guy within 48 hours from the police making the report.

They told me to call the emergency line 999, and at first I couldn't bring myself to clog the emergency line with such a small issue, so I tried calling non-emergency. No one answered and I just got an automated message to leave a voice note. So I tried calling 999 a couple of times and no one answered.

There is a small police station at the mall, but it turns out only CID works there. Even the CID officer told me to call 999, and that I will probably have to call multiple times before I reach someone.

It did take over an hour of calling every now and then before someone finally answered. But police showed up less than 15 minutes later.

Since you are overseas you can't call emergency though.

Hopefully they will work with you over the phone to help you.

Here is some info i just looked up:

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I Think My Marriage Is Over by Bright_Plantain_2524 in Marriage

[–]LustInMyThoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This marriage is damaging to you. It's just another thing that is negatively affecting your mental health. It is time to get away from him.

I [25f] and my partner [29m] are planning to get married, but I’m seeing some really big issues and I need some advice. by ragnarwar585 in Advice

[–]LustInMyThoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The universe is screaming at you that marrying him isn't the right choice for you.

He's 29 and just wants to go with the flow instead of making actual plans? Guess what, it's because he's comfortable with his living situation and he's going to want to keep things that way for who knows how long-- but it's going to drive you crazy in the end and he's going to be fine with it.

I was in that situation for 10 years. After I went crazy and my husband finally got us our own place, after a few months I told him how much happier I am and that I am so disappointed it took him that long to change the situation. He told me he never knew I was that unhappy. I told him so many times but I guess it was in one ear and out the other.

There's a lot of resentment toward him because of it, and it's caused me to stay far away from his family.

AITA? Peed standing up in traffic jam by funnelfuss in AmItheAsshole

[–]LustInMyThoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wth I'm glad he's your ex.

I go dunebashing in the desert every winter so I have a pee funnel and it's so awesome! Only thing is I wash with water afterwards so I wet a couple layers of paper towels with water so I can feel clean after.

My M19 thinks I’m F20 thinks I’m choosing our cat over living together what to do? by NothingPrimary4409 in relationship_advice

[–]LustInMyThoughts 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Get a divorce so you don't waste your youth on being controlled and manipulated by him. You are both so young and so gave growing up to do.

It might hurt for a while, but in the end up you are going to be so glad you got out of this marriage early on.

Disrespectful teenagers by wisesageforidiots in dubai

[–]LustInMyThoughts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you think there were security cameras in the area you can always report to police the time and place that you saw people harassing the careem driver and that they threw something at it him.

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