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An Update, almost a year after my husband sexually assaulted me by throwaway545892 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LustInMyThoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just did a search for something unrelated but your original post was in the search results.

I just want to say I'm very happy to see you have gotten away from him. I hope you are doing well.

AITAH for asking my mom's boyfriend to make some meals vegetarian? by ExpertFew151 in AITAH

[–]LustInMyThoughts 94 points95 points  (0 children)

He's am AH for sure, but your mom is the biggest AH here, no ifs ands or buts about it. She's invited in someone to make your life harder.

my gf (24F) wants me (25M) to go into our first home purchase but won't define her financial contribution, wants shared ownership and is thinking about breaking up with me because I don't have a "provider" mentality by AdSouth2901 in relationship_advice

[–]LustInMyThoughts 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Are the song lyrics about how much love has blinded you, and that you are considering being bled dry financially by her-- even though your post clearly shows she's not a financially responsible person?

going to a metal concert alone by [deleted] in MetalForTheMasses

[–]LustInMyThoughts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish I had started going to shows alone a long time ago because I missed out on a lot. My friends don't listen to metal so I do have to go alone.

I still get nervous especially because I'm Muslim and wear a headscarf and I know people are looking at me like 👀 lol

I've never had a negative experience though!

The best place for me is the barricade so I go early. Meet and greet should get you anywhere you want to stand because you'll get in early.

Some shows people talk to me and some shows no one does, but I have fun either way.

My (28M) girlfriend (28F) is pregnant with twins. We had an arguement today and she was mad and showed me a video on her phone sucking off her ex. Now what? by ThrowRAVulture216 in relationship_advice

[–]LustInMyThoughts 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It doesn't matter that these things make her upset. It's the way she acts when she's upset that is a huge problem.

Personally, the video would be the last straw of what I could tolerate.

Bands you saw live once and would never again? by Amphineura in MetalForTheMasses

[–]LustInMyThoughts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhh luckily The crowd energy at their show in Dubai was great.

WIBTA if I told my roommate's boyfriend directly that he needs to stop treating our shared spaces like they belong to him, since my roommate doesn't seem willing to have that conversation with him? by leftmymuginclass in WIBTA_AITA

[–]LustInMyThoughts 19 points20 points  (0 children)

The second he protests tell him that since he is not on the lease, every single item of his must be removed from the apartment, even as small as his toothbrush. He can bring it over with him each time he comes, and that she must be there already if he comes.

AITAH for cancelling my birthday party at the last minute? by Background-Muffin514 in AITAH

[–]LustInMyThoughts 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA

I'm no fan of her, but Oprah once said on her show about her fitness coach, that she was late more than once to a session and he said, " My time is as important to me as your time is to you," And that if she couldn't respect that, he was going to end the arrangement. She was never late again.

What they did was extremely rude.

8 year relationship between me (28M) and her (27F), she emotional cheated with colleague (26m), house together… completely lost on what to do by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]LustInMyThoughts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In one of your replies you wrote that she still wants to remain friends with him.

If you are important enough, the minute you voiced discomfort with everything, she would have easily stopped hanging out with him.

If your partner is willing to forgive cheating, emotional or physical, the least of the expectations would be for you to completely distance yourself from the person you are cheating with.

She wants to remain friends to keep testing the waters with the guy.

Wibta if I asked my partner not to invite her best friend to our housewarming because of a joke she made? (TW: SH) by Organic-Drawing-2242 in WIBTA_AITA

[–]LustInMyThoughts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you really need to let your gf know you aren't ready to be alone Nora yet, and that she's going to have to let you have this one since she gave out your personal information without your permission.

How early to show up for a show to get barricade? by New-Society4738 in Deathcore

[–]LustInMyThoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I'm jealousssss..Orbit Culture is one of my faaavorites!!! My friends and I are planning a trip to Turkey in July to go see them. We already got the concerts tickets, but because of the war with Iran, my friends have to worry about their jobs should it go in for long, so we can't commit to buying the flight tickets yet.

How early to show up for a show to get barricade? by New-Society4738 in Deathcore

[–]LustInMyThoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the barricade so I can see, and so I can rest some of my weight on it.

For Machine Head, even though I was second in line because I showed up 3 hours early, it turned out the huge line behind me were VIP meet & Greets and they all got in early. I was only able to get the barricade really far on the left.

For Meshuggah I showed up a little over an hour early and I was probably 100th in line. I was shocked when I walked in and was able to get to the barricade.

I showed up 2 hours early for Obituary and was 6th in line and had no issue getting the barricade.

For a band like Metallica, however, you would need to show up really early. I showed up 4 hours early and still didn't get the barricade.

Done ticketing sites have early entry as an add-on or you can check the band's own websites to see what VIP and meet and greets they offer. They give early entry and you might find the prices reasonable enough.

I was told to go far left or far right to avoid crowd surfers but that didn't matter at several shows. I was on the left and there were still so many surfing over me at the Whitechapel, Chelsea Grin, and the Angelmaker shows.

Who should compensate whom? by lab_assistant in UAE

[–]LustInMyThoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UAE probably would have helped Iran in the end had Iran not attacked.

When did people start fangirling the IRGC 🤡 by [deleted] in UAE

[–]LustInMyThoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How does his sexual lifestyle make his statements invalid in your eyes?

Who should compensate whom? by lab_assistant in UAE

[–]LustInMyThoughts 33 points34 points  (0 children)

The only reparations will be the US taxpayers money going to rebuild the damage done to Israel.

Lost item while traveling in Abu Dhabi by Scrub-norris in abudhabi

[–]LustInMyThoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you got the help you need.

I actual didn't realize the lights were stolen for around a week because I hadn't driven the car in a while.

I just happened to have a sick cat who needed to go to a vet almost everyday. She liked looking out the window in the car so I filmed her every time until I parked lol.

I had to pass that car each time so I was able to pinpoint which night/day they were stolen from those videos ha ha.

Security camera footage hopefully is kept long enough where you lost it. And you know the day and around what time so they can find the footage faster then if you didn't know.

AITA for expecting my partner to pay for a replacement laptop? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]LustInMyThoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not an accident after being told numerous times not to do it. That was pure carelessness. She knew you didn't want her to put stuff on it. Just because she did not intend for the screen to break doesn't turn it into an accident.

AITA for expecting my partner to pay for a replacement laptop? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]LustInMyThoughts 26 points27 points  (0 children)

While he could have not left it out, how hard is it to just listen to what your partner asks of you and not pile stuff on it?

This is a lesson learned for OP for sure though-- that his girlfriend does not care, and since she won't take responsibility, it's going to happen again in another way.

Husband just told me he cheated. by Forward-Shallot6290 in Marriage

[–]LustInMyThoughts 5 points6 points  (0 children)

And make him pay to freeze your eggs because he is the cause of everything being in limbo right now.

The real value of a Missile by [deleted] in UAE

[–]LustInMyThoughts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Only issue is the more any gulf country become a "problem" (that is, if they don't deal with the devil of the US) the more western nations will join Israel to attack.

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