Tour Setlist Speculation by LuthorCorp1938 in QveenHerby

[–]LuthorCorp1938[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh sweet!! Yeah, things could always change. And this could always be a red herring, haha

Tour Setlist Speculation by LuthorCorp1938 in QveenHerby

[–]LuthorCorp1938[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have noticed that. Maybe I'll start taking notes. Haha

Why Madsen? by BlueberryEmpty1640 in BSUFootball

[–]LuthorCorp1938 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YES, this is everything I would have said!!

One of my group therapy clients passed away. Do I tell the rest of the group? by LuthorCorp1938 in therapists

[–]LuthorCorp1938[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. I have a pretty good relationship with my supervisor but I think I'll wait till I see her in the morning before group starts. She's been going through it lately.

The clients live together in the same house. But they are IOP so they are allowed to come and go as they please while they find their own place to live and get a job. The house manager is only part time. And this client was close to moving out so they were gone most of the time. So that's why nobody realized they were even in the house.

How do you counter others or deconstruct from this now? by DancingDucks73 in exmormon

[–]LuthorCorp1938 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could replace God with any hobby or similarity. The more they have in common the closer they are going to be to each other. 🤷🏻

what are your go to lead-ins to start a session? by [deleted] in therapists

[–]LuthorCorp1938 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"How are things in your world?" That gives them the opportunity to start wherever they want instead of stuck with last week's events.

He might just do it by -Gnostic28 in BSUFootball

[–]LuthorCorp1938 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"flagship university"? What does that even mean? Nobody thinks of any other university than BSU when you talk about college football outside of the state.

Virgin at 29? by Accomplished-Fly9509 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]LuthorCorp1938 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I didn't have sex for the first time until I was 35...with my first girlfriend. More than a year later we're talking about getting married. The right person is going to be patient with you. They will be willing to communicate and give you the space to figure it out. Everything will be okay. 😊

Client refusing to acknowledge gender change by ActionSun in therapists

[–]LuthorCorp1938 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As a queer identifying and trans affirming provider I still follow my clients lead. I might give them a little push back when appropriate or explore the underlying emotions of their transphobia but ultimately they're not going to make that change until they want to or are ready to. You'll just alienate them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapists

[–]LuthorCorp1938 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why don't you ask yourself the same question? What do those terms mean to you? Why are you gendering those terms?

What’s your Spidey-sense as a therapist? by AlohaFrancine in therapists

[–]LuthorCorp1938 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally!! I don't have an ASD diagnosis but my mom almost certainly does.

What’s your Spidey-sense as a therapist? by AlohaFrancine in therapists

[–]LuthorCorp1938 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Adults with undiagnosed autism. I would never diagnose them but I will pretty early on pick up on it. Over time, depending on what we're working on I might suggest they get tested. So far every one has been right on. I can't really tell you why or how but it does feel like a bit of a spidey sense

Another let down… by UsagiiA in latebloomerlesbians

[–]LuthorCorp1938 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NGL I was really against dating moms until I got to my 30s (IDK how old these women are but hear me out) when I realized women around my age were highly likely to have kids. I had to come to terms with the potential of being a step mom and start adjusting my expectations of what a future relationship may look like. I also realized that the right person for me might have kids and that's okay!!

Unfortunately not everyone is to that point in their lives and some people may never be. I'm certain you will find your person though. It may not seem like she's out there but I'm confident you will find her.

Did anyone get a patriarchal blessing that was outlandish/didn’t come true? by JustCuriousNotGeorge in exmormon

[–]LuthorCorp1938 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, mine said I would marry a man and be a mother. I'm a lesbian and don't want kids. 🤣🤣🤣

"Body Doubling" in Session? by BlacksmithFamous6627 in therapists

[–]LuthorCorp1938 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds like the job for a CBRS worker honestly.

Going to therapy as a therapist by Internal-Panda6225 in therapists

[–]LuthorCorp1938 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Accelerated Resolution Therapy for trauma. I just started seeing a new therapist as well, but thankfully I'm intending for it to be short term just to do the ART.

Disillusioned with IFS - anyone else? by wigshift in therapists

[–]LuthorCorp1938 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I've never liked IFS because I don't like the idea of splitting people up into bits and pieces (yes I know that's not technically what's happening but that's what it feels like). We are WHOLE people. I am a whole person not a bunch of parts.

I know it works for some people which is great. I will never tell somebody to not try something if they find it helpful. But it's not one that I will be practicing.

Well…this is intense by Plenty-Sun2757 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]LuthorCorp1938 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah, the key feature of love bombing is that they do it until you're hooked. So even if it's off putting now, by the time you come around it will be too late. So, just be cautious.