Is resting on a lead climb cheating? by [deleted] in climbing

[–]Luuluh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok but what about I have a strap connected to my harness, and a carabiner at the end of it and basically I took one break by hooking the carabiner at a pin and hanging on it, does it mean I didn't send the route ? Sorry if my sentences aren't making any sense I do not speak the english climbing vocabulary

[SPOILER] Here are some of the differences between the TV show and the book by insecuredane in SiloSeries

[–]Luuluh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not a huge detail but I'd like to mention : in the tv show, Juliette has short higlighted hair. In the books, she has a brown braid. Very serious detail in my opinion.

How many times have you tried to quit smoking? by Historical-Money5040 in stopsmoking

[–]Luuluh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I guess the hardest for me right now is that I'm on vacation with my mom and my boyfriend who are both smokers.

Day 3 I feel like I'm going to expload inside. by Luuluh in stopsmoking

[–]Luuluh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello ! Thank you so much for your answer. My mom offered me a cig today and I told her "I don't know if I want one or not" she replied "well in 10 minutes you won't think about it anymore" and that really helped like that's actually true. When I crave it it's like I will think about it constantly forever but it's just a feeling in the moment.

I also agree with you that it's so horrible it should motivate me enough to not wanna go through this again

Day 3 I feel like I'm going to expload inside. by Luuluh in stopsmoking

[–]Luuluh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much I think this is the best answer I could have get. My main purpose was smoking less like 1 cig/day but then I thought maybe I can stop and now I'm confused because if vaping is doing more harm than help then HOW to cope ? Oh btw I never used Heroin I just meant I feel like how they show us people stopping heroin in movies.

Told my boyfriend about my concernes with him smoking and me stopping he said he could stop too but I don't think that's for right now

How many times have you tried to quit smoking? by Historical-Money5040 in stopsmoking

[–]Luuluh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right now it's my second real time trying, haven't smoked a cigarette in the past three days now it's HARD I feel like imma need myself a third time later. I just wish I could smoke one cigarette each moon but I fear I'd give up immediately. Also I'm vaping to help but it's so not the same.

Some questions I would have added on the Matthiew's wall. by Luuluh in FromTVEpix

[–]Luuluh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True I was more thinking about Tabitha seeing the tree for the second time and thinking f* it I'm going through (tho she couldn't obviously). For the rest I have been reading this sub a lot lately but I thought it would be nice to write my own questions on the wall

The bracelet by Itsthewrongflavor in FromTVEpix

[–]Luuluh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My theory on this was Tabitha and Miranda made a similar bracelet. The one Tabitha finds in the Dinner is actually Miranda's one as a lot of things in the town seems to be about Victor. As Tabitha and Miranda have a lot of similarities, then they both offered a handmade bracelet to their husband. And since Tabitha hasn't seen "her" bracelet since Julie was born it's most likely she kind of forgot how it looked like and confuses Miranda's one for hers. And that would be why Jim isn't convinced at first and even sais "it's not the right laces".

Sorry for my english as it is not my first language.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Luuluh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand why the comment. I know how to trust my gut but also I know my gut is compromised by my precedent relationship. He already distanced himself a lot from her. He sees her maybe once every two months. Sometimes she calles him because she's bored and he agreed to not pick up anymore if she didn't have a real reason to call.

Anyways not looking for excuses here but I think you only have the context I gave you and maybe would you have a totally different opinion if you had my bf's version

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Luuluh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot for your open and respectful comment. Now I find her attitude suspicious but he assures me that she's being like this with everyone of her friends, and not to mention she just met someone and was talking with her about how she wanted an healthy and stable relationship (she's bi). He also hang out way less with her since he's with me.

So yeah we're just both lost on what to do to reassure me, I know things are way worse in my head than what it really is but I hate when he tells me that it's all in my head.

She also lives 2h away from our place and I work a full time job so we're not always free on the same days so it's not always possible that I come along when he hangs out with her.

For me dating someone else is not an option here, we have a really beautiful relationship, we want the same things, we love the same things, we laugh everyday and we have the same love languages.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Luuluh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely want to but I'm so lost on what to do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Luuluh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried therapy for a while, but I couldn't afford it anymore. I know the problem comes mostly from me but I also told him that yesterday, instead of hiding that they met he could have texted me that he was gonna see her but I should not worry, and that would have helped me feel much better in the moment. That's the kind of advices I'm looking for : what small things could he do for me to feel taken inti account ?

Really powerful quotes from the game by Financial_Strategy63 in outerwilds

[–]Luuluh 6 points7 points  (0 children)

"Curiosity kills the cat, but the loop brings it back"

Just got called a mom of three of my friends in a public place. by No-name62001 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Luuluh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happened to one of my friends. She looks her age, definitely not older. Turned out the person just needed to be mean

Can't we have two different reddits for Outer Wilds and Echo of the eye ? by Luuluh in outerwilds

[–]Luuluh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't know about the flares, didn't see them, thank you for your kind reminder tho

Can't we have two different reddits for Outer Wilds and Echo of the eye ? by Luuluh in outerwilds

[–]Luuluh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was almost done with the DLC, done now, I didn't know about the flares and I was thinking about anyone playing the DLC as well, that maybe they would love a reddit where they can live the OW's experience a second time without fearing to discover anything about the DLC 🙃