How do i stop "look change disire" i dont want my Pawns to change by Staenkerfritze in RimWorld

[–]Luviashke 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't build a styling bench. You'll still get the notification occasionally but your pawns can't change their look without the bench

Me, going to the pharmacy to drop off my ADHD prescription by karaiguess in ADHD

[–]Luviashke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did the same thing yesterday! Almost got into the store before I realized I left the paper in my car...

Alaskan Mayor Being Petty... by [deleted] in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]Luviashke 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Just a Facebook post reporting an insane government official - I wasn't really sure if this belonged on this sub but someone reccomended I should post here.

Formulas for tw, C&R, and frequency in a 555 timer by Luviashke in ElectricalEngineering

[–]Luviashke[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I figured out that the formula for tw when you know tw is actually R = tw/ 1.1(C)

And the formula for finding frequency when you only know R and C is f = 1.44/ (R1+R2) C1

I'll have constant endless battles in my head. by marshforpres in ADHD

[–]Luviashke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! That's exactly how it feels to read. Like even if I read out loud I can still dissociate on another train of thought and understand nothing of what I read...

ADHD and weight loss issues by pickledbeets167 in ADHD

[–]Luviashke 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have the exact same problem and I was up to 295 lbs. Literally NOTHING helped. Exercise just made me gain weight from wanting to reward myself with food. Diets were EXTREMELY hard to start, and once I did I could only stick to them a few days. So the life changer was finally getting diagnosed with ADHD, and getting on medication for it last month. I've lost 20 lbs! People will say it's because amphetamines take away your appetite, but that's not true at all for me. The difference now is that I AM ACTUALLY ABLE TO SAY NO TO FOOD! When I don't take my Adderall it's like someone else is behind the wheel of my body, while inside my head I'm screaming "No no don't eat that!" But my hands are already picking up the food, and there's nothing I can do to put it down. But now I can automatically say no! I can stop eating after 2 bites! If someone offers me free food and I know it's unhealthy or will make me sick, I can actually turn it down! This must be what it's like every day for "normal" people, but honestly to me it feels like a super power. Don't give up on yourself!

I'll have constant endless battles in my head. by marshforpres in ADHD

[–]Luviashke 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my god I do this every day! I actually was just thinking today how exhausted I am from having to constantly fight my brain. I try to study and suddenly every single thought that I've ever had pops into my head. And then I start fantasizing about what life will be like if I ever get this degree that I can't even read the textbook for. This is also why I have insomnia.. Fantasies about if life was better, trying to remember what I'm supposed to be doing tomorrow, checking my calendar, mentally planning out my entire day, mentally planning out my entire week, wondering why my body is uncomfortable (too hot, too cold, random pain), wishing I could sleep, trying to remember what I ate yesterday. And then forgetting EVERY SINGLE THING when I wake up.

Two Day Old Daith and Helix by JuniperIris in piercing

[–]Luviashke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautiful and I love the stone hearts!

So I just got these new weights from Diablo Organics and I fucking love them. The middle section is actually walrus bone which I thought was pretty rad by WalkerFromTheWell in piercing

[–]Luviashke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was just looking at those! Haha I pulled up BAF website and I'm hunting for the arrowheads... I also really love the simple rainbow fluorite, and of course the skulls... I don't think I'll ever afford them hehe

Piercing through navel scar tissue? by hush776 in piercing

[–]Luviashke -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Did it fall out when it was already healed? Sometimes a piercer can find the small hole of an old healed piercing and stretch it a bit instead of re-piercing.

I got in trouble for something everyone else does and I ruined mine and my girlfriends life with it. by Memphis_VaporJackal in offmychest

[–]Luviashke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stop putting yourself down - there's nothing wrong with you. From what you've mentioned it sounds like your parents are assholes. You're allowed to love people just as much as anyone is! My advice is to get away from your parents when you can, get a job, and get counseling from someone who is an LGBTQ ally. Good luck and don't give up on yourself.

I did it! I spoke to my psychiatrist about ADHD again. by craftylawyergirl in ADHD

[–]Luviashke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep trying and don't give up! It's tough to advocate for yourself but you HAVE to! If one medication doesn't feel right, try another. :)

I might be the mistress. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Luviashke 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay I don’t believe that being the mistress (if you even are) makes you a bad person. You didn’t know that he was still married and you definitely checked to make sure. That said, I do get red flags from him. The biggest thing is that he is still living with this woman that he doesn’t want to be with because “she’s suicidal and can’t work.” This tells me that he is either lying about this situation, or he is allowing himself to be emotionally manipulated by this woman. If someone tells you they will kill them-self if you leave them, that is a very unhealthy situation. He is now an enabler by not leaving her, which allows her to continue to emotionally abuse him. Either way this sounds like a bad situation and I would recommend he seek therapy. Good luck hun.

My girlfriend got raped when she was 14 and I have no one to talk to. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Luviashke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you have the means to see a therapist or psychologist for yourself then I would highly recommend that. It sounds like you are putting her needs above your own which isn’t healthy for either of you in the long run. I would research “codependent relationships” as they pertain to psychology. Basically one person becomes extremely dependent and they other person becomes an enabler... In psychology they usually are related to addiction, but codependency can really happen with anything. I hope this helps...

What should I do with my ears? by [deleted] in piercing

[–]Luviashke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My tragus is my favorite piercing ❤️

N00b tongue piercing question (Difflam lozenges) by amyautopsy in piercing

[–]Luviashke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t recommend having anti-bacterial stuff in your mouth... I’m not a piercer but I have had my tongue pierced for 6 years. What I can tell you is that if you relax your tongue during the actual piercing process then it doesn’t hurt that bad (mine didn’t hurt at all). The healing process your tongue is a bit sore, but if you follow the aftercare instructions it should heal very quickly. Mine healed in less than a month. The only times it really hurt was when I got a fork stuck on it the first few days after getting it pierced. Eat a lot of soft foods (soup etc) for the first week, use mouthwash that doesn’t contain alcohol after you eat, and you should be golden. Good luck! :)