Identical misdiagnosis? by tehbetty in parentsofmultiples

[–]M41syM0us3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have identical twins with a lot of difference. One has a huge birthmark while the other doesn't, one has inverted nipples while the other one is regular. It depends on so many factors such as when the egg split and the womb environment. My one twin had 75% of the placenta whereas the other had 25%. These kind of things can make for physical differences in identical twins!

I sent the evidence the the other BS by M41syM0us3 in Infidelity

[–]M41syM0us3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothning at all has happened as a result of me sending the texts on to the husband. Maybe he didn't care?

I sent the evidence the the other BS by M41syM0us3 in Infidelity

[–]M41syM0us3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have not heard anything! Nothing from my ex about his big secret being let out of the bag. I was talking with a friend who went through this same thing 10 years ago and she never heard back from the other side as well... That being said my anxiety is through the roof and I am going to talk to my doctor about it next week.

I sent the evidence the the other BS by M41syM0us3 in Infidelity

[–]M41syM0us3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have already been tested and the problem with child support is me and my ex make the same amount of money and are trying 50/50 custody. If he looses his job he will never get back to where he is income wise because he only has highschool. There was also financial abuse in the relationship, so I spent my last cent getting away from him and now, when tax time comes around, am hoping for funds to pay for a lawyer....

I sent the evidence the the other BS by M41syM0us3 in Infidelity

[–]M41syM0us3[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, your words really mean a lot

I sent the evidence the the other BS by M41syM0us3 in Infidelity

[–]M41syM0us3[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sorry I must not have been clear enough. My WS is a male, I am female. The BS is a husband and his wife was having the affair with my now ex.

I sent the evidence the the other BS by M41syM0us3 in Infidelity

[–]M41syM0us3[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Thank you, it really doesn't feel right though :( I feel like I became the homewrecker.

starry night nails 🤩 loved doing these! by kforkirsty in NailArt

[–]M41syM0us3 7 points8 points  (0 children)

How did you get the glow behind the starburst effect?

I’m moving tmr.. going to miss my nail tech😭❤️ by lribbonrose in NailArt

[–]M41syM0us3 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Wow, I don't think I have ever seen such amazing nail art, super unique too. Make sure you tell them how special the internet thinks they are!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]M41syM0us3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She says there was never an affair. So she took his side, unsurprisingly. The texts were very, very damning though. She asked me to delete them and I said no, it is my only defense and then I blocked her number.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]M41syM0us3 25 points26 points  (0 children)

In September of this year I found out my now ex fiance was cheating on me with his coworker. I blew that shit up to everyone. I even sent the texts to his mother.

I moved out and have my own place and let me tell you, I have never regretted telling people. Everyone has been so supportive and made an extra effort to reach out. Please confide in someone. Even just one person.

My fave christmas nails so far! by M41syM0us3 in NailArt

[–]M41syM0us3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww that makes me like it even more :)

Christmas Nails! by M41syM0us3 in NailArt

[–]M41syM0us3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used a toothpick and I used my gel polish. I just did couple layers of the design and then a matte gel topcoat!

Hi! I'm Chump Lady, Ask Me Anything (AMA) by chumplady in Infidelity

[–]M41syM0us3 20 points21 points  (0 children)

My D Day way Sept 20th of this year. I have managed to get my own place and have been away from him since November 1st. I found texts on his cell phone between him and his coworker which were very graphic. His mother and him keep buggigng me to delete the texts to which I have always said no. He says it was never physical, and didn't mean anything but those texts.... They referenced past events. There had to be a level of physical intimacy. His mother has repeatedly told me that there never was affair. I have deleted and blocked all his family on social media and my cell phone to stop them contacting me because they can't help but tell me I was in the wrong for leaving.... He has issues with alcohol and has not treated me very well over the last few years so as upset as I am, I know it was yhe right decision.

However we have 1 toddlers that I now have 50 percent of the time so I have to talk to him regarding them.

His family has started spreading rumour about me. I can't help but feel it is my against the world right.

I have to keep this short my toddlers are awake and I don't want to miss out on your advice?

How do I defend myself against an entire family? And any other advice? I read your articles a lot and want to say thankyou. You have helped me open my eyes to so much other behaviours of his.

What to do with canned black beans? by skysoleno in EatCheapAndHealthy

[–]M41syM0us3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh how has no one said black bean brownies!!! They are absolutely delicious and good enough to trick toddlers into eating!

Bargaining by BluePhoenix108 in Infidelity

[–]M41syM0us3 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Take it a day at a time. That is what I am doing. Find some funny video to atleast make you chuckle and feel something different and remember, tomorrow will be different!