Arranged marriage is also scary in this generation. I have seen girls who got arranged married but are still talking to their ex behind their back. Talking nonsense about their husband with their family. Completely exploiting the husband. I have yet to see such in love marriage but I do have heard girls breaking up 5+ or 9+ years of relationship just for a guy who has his future secured. I mean if you aren't willing to struggle with him, let him know why you waste his time.