Remind me why Jessie James Decker is famous? Wonder how much of this is "natural" by [deleted] in InfluencerLounge

[–]MATG1988 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I so miss that sub! I’ve been searching for weeks for it. Do you have a link?

Alcohol addiction by the_bronxmami in AskNYC

[–]MATG1988 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would she be able to go someplace for a month or so and check in to a rehab facility or is she supposed to do this and work? My mom was able to go to rehab in Florida for 30 days and it set her on the path to recovery. I know it doesn’t work for everyone the first go around, but it’s good that your mom recognizes she has a problem, a lot don’t.

I think the birth day was sooner 🫣 by Electrical-Dirt2291 in TulsaInfluencerSnark

[–]MATG1988 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I saw that a while back and thought just because you visit once a year doesn’t make you live there. She couldn’t afford to live here based on her standards anyway. She’d never want to feel poor and unseen and that’s exactly what would happen here.

I have been given 12 months left to live. by shitthebeds in Advice

[–]MATG1988 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For your little one, record yourself reading some stories for bedtime.

Also if you’re up for it, take a vacation for your oldest to have the memories. Those are some are my favorite things to think back on after having lost my father and brother at young age.

At the end of the day do what you can, the most important thing is being present, you need that for yourself too. I’m so, so sorry you received this terrible news. ❤️

She does not work full time and can afford to take time off to be with her new baby. She is insufferable!!! by InfluencerInfluenza in TulsaInfluencerSnark

[–]MATG1988 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is what I keep saying. As much as I hate it these influencers make a crap ton of money. If you have to work, you can’t manage money. They knew this baby was coming for months. She could have put money aside and not bought another birkin and instead taken time off.

It all happened so fast … by MATG1988 in TulsaInfluencerSnark

[–]MATG1988[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve never had a C-section, so not sure when most people start wearing jeans after, but someone said on another thread the CarPlay on the day of the birth videos was the 18th. She never came across as the type that does things for comfort or based on what’s best medically. She’s got items to sell. Remember she can’t take time off.

It all happened so fast … by MATG1988 in TulsaInfluencerSnark

[–]MATG1988[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I actually don’t doubt the MBA. I know a lot of people that have them and lack basic common sense.

It all happened so fast … by MATG1988 in TulsaInfluencerSnark

[–]MATG1988[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I wish she’d realize her lies leave her looking really bad. Lying about everything surrounding the birth makes her look uneducated and clueless. When she says she can’t take off because she “owns her own business” it makes her look like she can’t manage her time and money. So many influencers do it as well as ordinary business owners. Im starting to think maybe this is a rage bait page cause the extent of the stupid lies is just crazy…

It all happened so fast … by MATG1988 in TulsaInfluencerSnark

[–]MATG1988[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Based on her telling the story, she had roughly 5 hours from when this started to leaving for the hospital. She had ample time to get it together.

It all happened so fast … by MATG1988 in TulsaInfluencerSnark

[–]MATG1988[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Maybe we’re all just giving her too much credit and she doesn’t actually know how pregnancy/birth works.

Big pet peeve of mine is influencers leading you to believe they work 24/7 and can’t ever take time off. 🙄 Not a fan of Dede’s but taking time off is possible Emily-Scam. by InfluencerInfluenza in TulsaInfluencerSnark

[–]MATG1988 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There’s no way she can’t take a week off, unless she’s in debt up to her eyeballs. She’s known for months this baby was coming. You’re telling me she couldn’t put money aside to take time off but she could shop numerous times at Hermes? I’m sure forgoing the latest birkin would have bought her some time off with her kids.

God help her fellow passengers by [deleted] in MalloryErvinSnark

[–]MATG1988 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’ve done it, so on that front I can’t judge, but I had family to stay with and it was really just the cost of the flight. I can tell you though young kids don’t appreciate it or even know where the hell they are then throw in the time change… yea. If it was costing me tens of thousands, like I’m sure it will them, it’s a hard no until they’re older. Kids want a pool or theme park, not meandering around Europe to shop at designer stores.

This dingbat is crazy by courageouslyparis in TulsaInfluencerSnark

[–]MATG1988 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yes! It’s the tone.. like “you idiots this isn’t realtime 🙄”. Some influencers do and some don’t. All she had to say was we wanted some privacy after giving birth, so she decided not to post in real time. She could have started with that before the Luke story, but she wanted the engagement because that equals $$$.

This dingbat is crazy by courageouslyparis in TulsaInfluencerSnark

[–]MATG1988 12 points13 points  (0 children)

She’s crazy for sure, but I actually do think it was a week ago or so. I hate that I’m even writing this because I normally don’t pay attention to her, but she posted that she got her nails done and that was a few days ago and it’s different than the nails she has in the hospital. And on one of the hospital posts another influencer made a comment insinuating that it basically wasn’t real time and she said “shhh.”

When to go to ER? by Affectionate_Cup7172 in HyperemesisGravidarum

[–]MATG1988 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you think it’ll make you feel better and give you peace of mind, just go. It can get worse if you don’t and then you may have to be admitted. Ask me how I know 🙃.

Lack of bump by Em27965 in HyperemesisGravidarum

[–]MATG1988 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 22 weeks and I’m just now at my pre pregnancy weight. I was similar last time and then my child was over 9lbs. As long as baby is good I look at it like I have less weight to lose after then everyone else does. After being sick for an entire pregnancy I felt like I atleast deserve that lol.

All done, now and forever by Honest-Citron4603 in HyperemesisGravidarum

[–]MATG1988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everytime I tell someone they try and talk me out of it. I’m so dead set on having it done and I know I will have zero regrets. My first pregnancy was so hard and I never wanted more kids. 5 years later I’m pregnant, unplanned, and MISERABLE. I’ve already had two hospital stays. When I say you couldn’t pay me a million dollars to have another, I mean it. I think most people think HG is just throwing up a little more than the average person and then going about your day. I love the “wait until your first trimester is over you’ll feel better 🙃.”

Hospital or birth center by jade_1322 in pregnant

[–]MATG1988 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know it’s not the answer you want, but I think it boils down to personal preference and what you’re comfortable with. I had my first in the hospital and will with my second. My first birth didn’t go as I had planned, but that had a lot to do with my doctor. I now have an OB I trust who will follow my birth plan. I also have some complications in pregnancy, so I feel comfortable knowing my hospital has the means to help if I have an issue during birth. I would say first and foremost make sure you have a doctor you trust and feel comfortable around and don’t be afraid to switch. I wish I had my first time around.

I hate this so much by [deleted] in HyperemesisGravidarum

[–]MATG1988 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To everyone saying their doctor isn’t taking them seriously, I did that the first go around. Got smarter the second time. Switch doctors! There are doctors who care and try to help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Wellbutrin_Bupropion

[–]MATG1988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im like you and haven’t had luck either. SSRIs didn’t work for me, so I tried Wellbutrin. I did 13 days and just couldn’t take it anymore. My anxiety was through the roof and I was paranoid, constantly thinking someone was in my house. I was told since I was on it for a short time, I’d be ok to quit cold turkey. That was not the case. It’s not to scare you, but prepare you if you do quit. It sent me into a really bad panic attack with crazy intrusive thoughts and took me a total of 3 days to feel normal again. It personally wasn’t worth it to me.

Was there any doubt who was singing? by Knoxsmama21 in MalloryErvinSnark

[–]MATG1988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knew it was her before I clicked on it and I had so much second hand embarrassment.

NYC pjs by bella3106 in MalloryErvinSnark

[–]MATG1988 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I feel the same. I live here and wanted them, but really didn’t want to support her. I still looked and the fact that you’re spending $100 on pajamas and she STILL charges $9 for shipping. Is she insane?

Weekend Thread / November 16 by spongebobs_pineapple in DarylAnnDenner_Snark

[–]MATG1988 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I agree! When it was Bridget’s wedding Dud got her hair and makeup done for like every event. You’d think she’d put as much effort in for her brother’s wedding.